ive known him 4 a year. the 1st day we met people thought we were bf-gf. hes 18 im turning 17. he holds my hand & is all over me we are inseperable. where i go he goes. we take classes together 2x/week. thats how we met. besides that we talk all the time bc he lives 40min away. we are planning a trip to vegas 2gthr for a few wks nxt summer bc our class is going. every1 thinks we are bf gf & he lets them think that. he accepts compliments on us greatfully & smiles. pple ask us where our gf bf is when were not together and its just an automatic that theyre talking about us, so we respond. he does 2. he had me meet his mom &parents recently, 2. people joke about us being married. but when i tell him i like him well now its love but i havent told him yet he tells me to stop bc were just friends. when i ask y hes like this he changes the subject. or if i press it he avoids me he says he misses me and we need to b 2gethr more. idk what to do. should i tell him i love him? why does he do this
2007-12-29 09:19:24 · 3 answers · asked by Millie Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, stop prying!
This guy is showing you commitment by planning trips with you. Guys don't like to talk about these types of things, if he's acting like your his gf, there isn't a reason for you to think that he's not your bf. To guys, actions speak louder than words.
2007-12-29 09:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by Frankie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, if you guys are really that serious together, then i think that he has cold feet, and yes, probably from the scare of commitment. i think that he's afraid that you'll hurt him, or if he'll hurt you. just go with you instint. tell him that you love him and that you want to be his gf, i mean, it'll be the same and the only difference is now you both won't have to deny it. i know that me and my bf had the same issue for about two years or so, but i just can't wait for him, and so i asked him out and we've inseparable now, we even live together and we go to the same college now. so, its worth taking the shot. i think it might be that he's too shy to ask you out, and he's waiting to you to do that. good luck
2007-12-29 17:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously doesn't love you and thinks the relationship is a friendship. He's taking things slow. Quit rushing it.
2007-12-29 17:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋