Family & Relationships - 29 December 2007

i asked for sum advice now i need sum more should i prove to my boyfriend that i love him and im not lying to him in a sexual way and give him what he wants or what??
i hope you all dont think i am totally usless but love and life is so confusing why ccant people just be honest and not s**t stirrers??
plz help!!!

2007-12-29 10:50:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Honestly,with out any repercussions-men can answer as well.

2007-12-29 10:50:09 · 3 answers · asked by yp_will_chicago_369 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 10:50:08 · 7 answers · asked by rob m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-29 10:49:40 · 3 answers · asked by blue4011 1 in Singles & Dating

Thanks guys

2007-12-29 10:48:57 · 10 answers · asked by Pain_of_Unhappiness2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-29 10:48:48 · 20 answers · asked by thepaladin38 5 in Marriage & Divorce

...with that mouth?
and does she know where it`s been.....?

2007-12-29 10:48:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I felt I was being pushed away and had nobody to turn to. I fell for another woman when she was there for me and attempted to help me through my issues, however when my wife found out she finally showed some emotion towards me and let me know how she really felt. This was a first in several months. She has made several demands of me which I have met all of, however she has started doing several things which she knows bother me and she laughs and tells me she does not care when I ask her to stop (like smoking, it makes me ill to smell the smoke on her) it seems like she takes pride in it. I tell her I do love her and she only nods. We have 3 children and I do love her very much, but I feel like she is doing things that she knows will hurt me just to get back at me or push me away.
Also, I work, she stays at home with our son while our daughters are in school. I have a crazy schedule so I cant be home all the time, which adds more stress on me. I need help! Stay or Go?

2007-12-29 10:46:09 · 29 answers · asked by Zachary H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You and ex broke up and said you guys would be friends. But neither of you has called the other or made any kind of contact over the last four months after you broke up. You were together for a year, and you're the first woman he's ever been in love with even though he's 36 years old and was still in love with you when you guys broke it off.

1) Is he over you?
2) If you want him back, can you get him back?
3) How do you get him back?

2007-12-29 10:45:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in Nevada and the age of consent is 16 so this shouldn't be a problem right?!

(and there is no sexual intercourse involved.. just kissing and hugging!)

2007-12-29 10:37:30 · 75 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well , she dumped me initially ,as she thought she was too ambitious and i was laidback , also she was not very sure if she could convince her folks about this marriage ....Marriage is a big responsibility and she felt i would not be able to cope up.....so now shes married to sum1 elz , not happy with her marriage (nothing to do with her husband , jus that shes got a very modern upbringing and her in laws are very orthodox)...so i dunno what to do ? i still love her ? but am not sure ( if this helps the viewers in any ways ..i am from india ....and if we were to marry it would have been a love marriage ..not a common phenomena in india ) ......please help me out , though till date she is married , but plans to come back out of it ? i dont wana go thru a heartbreak again , in case she changes her stance .......

2007-12-29 10:37:11 · 10 answers · asked by crossroads 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was a widow making a decent annuity from my deceased husband. I make enough where I do not have to work. I have a small autistic child, and I am happy to be able to be with him full time. My new husband will not get a job because I make a pretty decent amount every month. ALTHOUGH since I have met him (and have another mounth to feed) I have been BROKE. I have asked him to get a job, but he won't. He is so wonderful with my son, I can not imagine he is with me for just my money. I have a small ranch that is more of a hobby than a money maker...I was going to sell it when my last husband died and find a smaller and more reasonable place. My new husband convinced me to stay here and I took my house off the market. So now I still have this huge house, a bunch of livestock and a husband who refuses to work. Am I being an idiot? Should I dump him and go back to my original plan? Or did I marry for richer or poorer...and I should wait it out. uuuggghhh....

2007-12-29 10:36:04 · 30 answers · asked by Pepsi_Frog 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is against it and feels noone should go into our bedroom. We are having 10 guests over for dinner tomorrow (my aunts and a cousin and his parents) and we have two restrooms - one of which is in our bedroom and the other is in the front part of the house. Most of these people are older (50's and 60's and my grandmother is 90), and I could easily see one of them having to use the restroom (especially #2) and staying for a while. Knowing my family, someone will ask to use the restroom in our room and my husband is going to faint. What am I supposed to tell them? I don't think it's appropriate for them to hang-out in our room, but if somebody needs to use the restroom they need to use it. If we only had one restroom that would be a different story.

Also, we just bought a new house 9 months ago so none of my family has seen the house. They are going to want me to show them every single room. What am I supposed to tell them regarding the bedroom?

2007-12-29 10:35:12 · 21 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys if your woman left you for a woman, would it hurt as much as if she left you for a man??

2007-12-29 10:27:28 · 8 answers · asked by kharilli 5 in Singles & Dating

ok i have a friend kristin and she gets mad at the smallest things like i was flirting with my crush well like he came over to talk so we were like really close to each other and kristin interupted us to say something i ignored her cause that was rude so then she got really mad and is still mad at me that was last friday! me and my friend katie have been so annoyed with her behavior we cant get through to her cause her bff megan is convincing her to do stuff against us and like when ever they hang out kristin is always like following megan and like megans hand bag although megan acts like they are milk and cereal i dont know if i should drop her as a friend? and she had guy trouble lately cause crush went out with her friend but they broke up so is she jealus cause my crush and I and belive me I have risked so much to please her and satisfy her and it just seems like its not worth it and like she is super mean when we arnt friends like she will convince people to be mean to me!
help!!!

2007-12-29 10:26:57 · 2 answers · asked by Southern At Heart♥ 5 in Friends

you kind of coppied what i got for Christmas.i just want toknow why you did that!i am not mad,you are still my bfoy.i just want to know why.
here is the link(s)
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmQpsQu9f03K2f6YEEbzHr3sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071229135033AAQdb4f&show=7#profile-info-GOOtnenTaa

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmQpsQu9f03K2f6YEEbzHr3ty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071229080049AA6SHNk&show=7#profile-info-aZbWDBtcaa

it is okayy
xoxo,
bridget

2007-12-29 10:23:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am still very much in love with him, but he is changing drastically for the worse. He has become arrogant and full of himself, with no regards for my feelings. He comes and goes in and out of the house at any time of the day, and doesn't say a word. I am very attractive with a nice personality, and educated, yet he blames me for his personal flaws.

2007-12-29 10:19:27 · 15 answers · asked by anoname 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you feel when you are attracted to a girl with her appearance, but later realise it was all makeup?

I know some women look amazing without, because of personal experience :)

but I'm curious, don't you get upset when she isn't "all that pretty?"

Any experiences? Details?

2007-12-29 10:19:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the frustration of being 20years old and not allowed to stay out longer than 12am is killing me from inside, all my mates do and some of them are younger than me! its depressing me so much, i feel so embaressed always leaving early and making excuses all the time :( the downside of having asian parents dont knw wat i can do. they dont approve of having young girls out all nite, but this is the society that i live in, its so embaressing and the few times that i have ben out till late is by lying to them like am sum sort of stupid 14year old teenager wtf! i hate lying it makes me feel guilty for not doing anything wrong. i dont even like drinking, i just hate always leaving early i wouldnt even do it all the time just every now and then so all my work mates and uni mates to think that. whats worse is that i cant even ask them to let me stay out late or theyl just get mad and give me a long *** lecture of how im too westernised and its not safe etc etc WHAT THE HELL DO I DO!!!!

2007-12-29 10:18:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he is so nice to me but now its just confusing

2007-12-29 10:10:54 · 43 answers · asked by horsegal95 1 in Singles & Dating

My father is 91 years old and he is not taking care of himself. He has the money to hire someone but he has always been very tight with his money, and he will probably never change. I want to have him hire someone to take care of him but I don't have the money either. How do you go about this process, is it expensive? Can I do it myself?

2007-12-29 10:02:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was at a dinner yesterday at this event, and there was this really cool girl I was trying to get to know. But, at my table, there was this guy who was totally a player who sat next to me. He kept on making a lot of sexual comments. It seemed like he was hogging all of the attention. I know him from work, and he already has a gf, but he was still trying to get numbers from a bunch of girls at the event.

It made me kind of sick, and I just couldn't bring myself to do anything but watch and wait for dinner to be over and hopefully get a chance to talk to the girl afterwards. Of course, this didn't really work out. And, I felt like maybe I missed my chance or so.

Did anyone ever have a similar experience? And, if so, what would you have done in this situation?

2007-12-29 10:02:16 · 26 answers · asked by Stan 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's family is a mix of 2 heritages, niether where english is a first language. His parents are divorced and have no contact. His father's family has made an effort to learn english and speaks fluently, if sometimes difficult to understand. His mother's family however has made little to no attempt to learn english. Some members of the family do not speak english at all despite being in the country for 30 plus years.
My boyfriend had a really had time learning english due to his mother and her lack of skills. My concern is that if we have kids, and his mother lives with us or close by, how influcened are they going to be her lack of english skills? (She will sometimes start off in english and finish in chinese, speaking superfast the entire time...)

2007-12-29 10:01:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Can someone please help me, I have to get married before I go back to my country, but I want to get married for love and I want it to work, I mean really work. My family is trying to make it a big deal because I insist that I want to marry for love noting else will do. So are there any one out there that wants to get married and feel the same way as I do.

2007-12-29 10:00:54 · 16 answers · asked by Ria 1 in Singles & Dating

she tells me she thaught she was going to be able to deal with it but she cant and its made me hate her.i get so angry that ive suggested divorce but that just make it worse.it gets so bad i want to just run away.she wont let my past go.she is constantly bringing up my past.i do love her but i cant hadle the fighting and screming.im going to have a heart attack if it doent stop.i feel it coming on.

2007-12-29 10:00:37 · 11 answers · asked by kim s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

whats the legal age a teenager in the uk can leave the home without parental consent?

2007-12-29 10:00:19 · 8 answers · asked by tracieisland 5 in Family

I was having lunch with a guy i work with about 3 weeks ago, we were talking about height. I was looking at his feet and i asked was size feet he was. I just wanted to know, and i also think that it has a relation to the size of his piece. I dont know if its true but from wat i have seen with other men, i think there is a relation. Correct me if i'm wrong

2007-12-29 09:59:42 · 18 answers · asked by Bumumble 3 in Singles & Dating

How many children does a person have before others think it is a lot or too many?

2007-12-29 09:58:50 · 7 answers · asked by Luck Y 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please take a minute to read n tell me!!!!!
---Let's say,..me and and this guy have been verry close friends since high school. For straight two years,..we would go out at least 2 or 3 times a week. Just me n him. He would take me to a restaurant at night,...we would go to movies,..And then he'd call n say "lets go dancing", and it was just for couples,...or he would call, we'd talk,..n after we say bye,..he was tellin me really quick, so i coudnt even hear "love ya..bye." He was calling soo late at night,..to see if i was asleep...i dont know what else to say.
--We would always be holding hands,..but NeVER kissed or n e thing. There was a time when he told me, at the movies "This is not a date,..you know that right? We just came to see a movie". I've been so confused that you wont even imagine. And has also often told me, (would call n say).."I just called to say I Love you.! My life would be incomplete without you."
I just want to know, how do YOU GUYS see this?

2007-12-29 09:58:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

really bad.does gasez hep?sooo ermbarrasing lol!

2007-12-29 09:51:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating