i asked for sum advice now i need sum more should i prove to my boyfriend that i love him and im not lying to him in a sexual way and give him what he wants or what??
i hope you all dont think i am totally usless but love and life is so confusing why ccant people just be honest and not s**t stirrers??
plz help!!!
2007-12-29 10:50:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Basic trust between two people should be based on honesty and understanding of each other. Sex should have nothing to do with it. Although I do have to admit that when my xgf gave me a passionate kiss I’d believe anything she said. –for a while-
So sit down and have an open and honest talk with him. That will give him a much more long lasting trust in you.
2007-12-29 10:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by Light Knight 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never rush into doing something that you sincerely do not want to do. Especially sex, regardless if your Bf wants it or not. If he is unable to realize that you are honest and telling the truth, then forget him. It does not matter what he does to you, but how you think of him as a person. If you see this as "out of the ordinary" with your Boyfriend, take a step back. And think, because if you do make the mistake of advancing more intimately in your relationship too quick, you will regret it later.
2007-12-29 18:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is Love, Then The thing about Love is TRUST, and if he does not trust you, proves he possibly does not love you and you are wasting your time. He sounds like a Jerk.
So just say to him, I didnt cheat on you, and if you love me you will trust me. :)
No, do not give into him and have sex with him for some stupid reason like that, Thats probobly what hes trying to make you do.
Good luck =] x
2007-12-29 18:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have three options. One, take him out on a really nice date and talk to him about the way you feel about how he doesn't trust you as much as you think he should. Two, Just sit down any old place and talk to him about it. Three, dump him. (P.S. Only use the third option as a last resort or if you find that you don't love him anymore.)
2007-12-29 18:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a word of advice: You will spend your whole relationship trying to prove your love and your faithfulness to your bf! That's no good... there will always be something... he'll always need more proof and you'll be miserable one day... he has his own issues that include self-esteem or cheating of his own. You can't nurse this guy... you need to look at yourself in the mirror and realize that you deserve more!
2007-12-29 18:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and trust are at two levels, as I see it. They are superficial and can be shattered, but they can also be built and must be to maintain a relationship.
I think being honest to your current boyfriend is a start. Whatever happens, happens and I honestly wish you alot of luck.
2007-12-29 18:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by di12381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello there, well listen to me about what i'm going to say for advice to u ok? no girl should have to prove her love to her boyfriend no matter what the reason is. if he doesn't trust u then it's over, trust me on this cuz i'm knowledgable when it comes to boyfriends. life is confusing enough so why make yours worse by trying to prove your love to someone who should know this in the first place. tell your boyfriend that he should listen to himself about the trust issue & the love issue. do u ask him to prove his love for you by suggesting that he do something to prove it? i hope not. u say u love him so that should be enough. also tell him that actions speak louder than words. so that's my advice to u. don't stick with this guy to long cuz it sounds to me like he's full of himself & is using this issue to get into your pants. no way should u have to do anything to prove your love to anybody. if they love u back then they wouldn't ask u to prove your love to them. tell him to grow up. if he gets mad then lose him. he's not worth it. good luck, nobrethequeen
2007-12-29 19:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by nobrethequeen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if thats what you want. do you love him or are you playing him, does he have reason not to trust or his he possesive when they dont like you going out and ask all the time where youve been. you have to let him know how much you love him do things together, talk about it reasure him he can trust you show him youre love for him deeply
2007-12-29 19:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by natalie g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait for a while instead of going to bed with him and being sexy with him. See if he trusts you and this jealousy thing goes away. At least wait a month. Maybe two. See if he is really worth it.
2007-12-29 18:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by want to travel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, To begin with a man thinks " if shes not having sex with me ,Shes getting it somewhere else" were you doing it with your old boyfriend ,, and if he knows you did... He's going to feel left out ,if your not doing him...but this must be your choice.. and only your choice... if your of age to begin with.. if not DONT DO IT!!!!!
2007-12-29 19:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by frank26694 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋