he is so nice to me but now its just confusing
2007-12-29 10:10:54 · 43 answers · asked by horsegal95 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? What is the question?
Don't do it if you ain't comfortable with it.
2007-12-29 10:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by LuvAlways 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's so nice, and what are you, dead or something. If he was really nice, he wouldn't be treating you like a sex object. For heavens sake, if you are young, why do you want to put yourself into such a dilemma. You've talked about birth control right. The reason God gave us sex is so we can have babies. Can you take care of a baby. Have you finished school. Do you have a job, home, car, health insurance.. Can you afford to take care of someone for the next 18 years. Don't be a fool. Tell his to go take a cold shower and shoot some hoops because you are not his sex toy. Get real Missy.
2007-12-29 10:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you pretty much resolved your own dilema...you feel like you are too young and it's confusing...then you should wait! getting intimate when you're not ready yet can ruin your confidence, self esteem and your ability to be intimate with guys later on...and this goes for everyone, whether you are 14 or 20. explain to him that you want to wait and get comfortable with the idea of getting intimate...then when the time is right you can slowly progress into it, it doesnt have to be a sudden jump into sex. ask him to be patient and if he is decent and worth it he'll understand and give u ur space.
2007-12-29 10:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by quambewy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be in a hurry to do anything. Some guys are out for one thing and then they move on. You are in control of how far you and he goes and if your uncomfortable, dont rush yourself. If he likes you at all, he will understand that you are uncomrfotable and he shouldnt push you into anything you arent ready to do. It better to just enjoy each others compnay and get to know each other for quite a while. In time you will know if he likes you for you or just wants what he can get from you and move on to someone else. You will be able to see what he wants in this time and you need to wait for someone that is thre for you and not getting you into bed. End of story, dont let him push you into something you dont want or not ready for.
Good Luck
2007-12-29 10:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by kevin T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't sure, you aren't ready. Stick to your gut feeling. It's telling you that you're going to be used then dumped.
He's nice to you now, but if he's ready to force you to do something you aren't really ready for, he won't be nice to you later. And you'll regret having lost your virginity to a jerk.
If you tell him that you want to wait until you're older, and he says that's fine and he's okay with that, and he remains nice to you, then he's someone you can be proud of and he'll be worth the wait.
But something tells me he's going to be a jerk.
2007-12-29 10:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he really wants 2 go that far u should use protection
or just tell him im not ready
u should wait. any ways u want it 2 be romantic the first time it happens and u should use protection then if yor not planing on babies
2007-12-29 10:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by new years ugh, death is closer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be really tough because you really like the boy(im assuming:]) my drama teacher once told me that girls have a lot of switches...we want it to be special and when we really love the person. it will take a lot for us to do it...but he said that guys are just an on and off button...they cant help it but their hormones are much more than ours. im sure taht u reallyyyyyyyy like him and he really lieks it too. but do it when u know that u love him and want to spend ur life with him. i hope this helps u! good luckkk.
2007-12-29 10:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by dreamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters if your young you shouldn't be engaging in sexual activity anyway!!! And if you do decide to go a head with any activities be sure to be comfortable wit what you are doing and use protection as you dont want to risk getting pregnant do you!!! Please take a thought before you decide to do anything!!!
2007-12-29 10:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by kinkyze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since i don't know your age or have many details all i can say is Don't do anything until your ready to, because if he loves you he will respect you and understand that your not ready yet.
2007-12-29 10:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy will be really nice to you..so he can eventually get what he wants. You are right..you are too young. Stay strong!
2007-12-29 10:14:01 · answer #10 · answered by Georgia Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you believe there is a man out there for you to marry someday that is your soulmate. A man just for you, your one and only. Most girls believe that.
So what are you doing letting this guy paw you over? Do you think your husband will like that?
2007-12-29 10:14:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋