Family & Relationships - 29 December 2007

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2007-12-29 21:26:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So this I meet this guy at my work I gave him my number... that night we sent texts back and forth... kinda like him... not like super into him though... so last night he wanted to hang out... I was like no maybe tomorrow... so today he texted me I am sick so I did't respond...then just now he sent me a text saying " so you want to play tonight?" Ummmm ok I have only meet him once never hung out with him... I am not some hoe... how should I respond???

2007-12-29 21:23:56 · 16 answers · asked by xOxGangstAxOx 2 in Singles & Dating

Has some one hurt you so bad that it hurts deeply? After sitting and thinking about their actions I wonder if s/he did it with the pre-detemination of the out come of events. And knowing the envitable of their actions.

2007-12-29 21:23:13 · 6 answers · asked by Susie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a girlfriend we have been going out for a year but i have feelings for other girls but i love my girlfriend to death. im younger. (if i should go for another girl how do i break up with her and what if they dont like me then i will be alone, i can handle being alone. serious answers only please!

2007-12-29 21:19:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To me they look very bad.

2007-12-29 21:17:52 · 17 answers · asked by Melissa 1 in Singles & Dating

so like, u no how in the catholic faith, u arent supposed to have sex before ur married? well wat about oral? i no thats like really weird.... but i just wanna no

2007-12-29 21:15:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so for those of you who read my question about what to do when I overheard my 13 year old sister, Lacey, saying she was going to have sex with her boyfriend, James. I just now tried to talk to her about sex.

This is how it went:
Me: Lacey, last night, I picked up the phone to call Roe (my bf...his real name is Robert but we call him Roe), and I overheard you and your boyfriend talking about...you two having sex.
Lacey: You were eavesdropping?!?!
Me: No! I just happened to 'drop in' on your conversation. Look, I just want you to know that I love you and I don't want ANYBODY or ANYTHING to hurt you. Including James.
Lacey: James isn't going to hurt me!
Me: Yes, he will. Sex hurts the first time. Please, Lacey don't do this. Have you heard the story with Jamie Lynn Spears? Yeah, it's tragic. Don't do it to yourself.
Lacey: GET OUT OF MY ROOM! YOU CAN'T TELL ME WHAT TO DO! STAY OUT OF MY LIFE!
Me: Lacey!!
Lacey: GO!


HELP?! what do I do? I tried to be a good sister!

2007-12-29 21:13:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok omg i am 13 and i like 3 girls they all like me ... please help one of them i am going out with 2 one is my ex and i'm falling in love with the other one one is in 8th grade my ex the one i'm going out with is in 7th grade and the one that i'm falling in love with is in 6th... what do i do!!!!!!!!! please help and please dont say anything like i'm to young to be falling in love

2007-12-29 21:11:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In general do you prefer the really cute girl or the really hot girl assuming they both have a nice personality?

2007-12-29 21:10:21 · 32 answers · asked by mmrs 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 21:08:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well, she is 25 and i am 19. there is a word around that her parents are organizing her wedding for late 2008 and she also has a secure job. I do have a good job but am not financially secure yet. i really dont know what should i do. should i tell her that i love her and want to get married to her? i am confused confused confused...plz help

2007-12-29 21:05:38 · 6 answers · asked by aucklandrocks 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just because you feel sorry for him and want to stroke his ego? Could this backfire? how?

2007-12-29 21:03:54 · 12 answers · asked by Melissa 1 in Singles & Dating

When asked about the status of our relationship, her reply was:

"I'd like to continue dating you, but I don't feel like I'm ready for a relationship"

.....what? :S

2007-12-29 20:54:12 · 9 answers · asked by godly.gambit 2 in Singles & Dating

I need help! I have a friend who's involved in a program at school. I am no longer in that program but i help out and attend the monthly meetings that the parents have. Their is a specific family who has done nothing but said negative things about my friend, by family i mean the parents and their kids. Its come to the point where my friend is just not healthy...emotionally, mentally and physically. This family has done nothing but talk and spread rumors. I want to confront them during one of the meetings. I want to talk about the situation in front of everyone without pointing fingers but directing it to that family. Please help and give me any other suggestions you might have.

2007-12-29 20:52:57 · 3 answers · asked by Shy Guy 1 in Friends

ok so this guy im really close with act like he likes me i mean he is always asking me to go with him to the movies, parties, or just to lunch or hang out, and he flirts with me all the time,
like one time we were sitting together sharing a blanket and he picked up my legs and put them on top of his and had his hands all over my legs and we were like cuddling but then his friends ask him oh do you like her and hes like no way, but then he keeps on doing these things! what the heck? can you help me/give some good advice please? should i move on to some one who will commit? or just go with it?

2007-12-29 20:50:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if there was a teacher about 39 years old, and he had a student in about grade 11, who was a virgin, and felt that she was madly in love with him, and wanted to have her first time with him, and wanted to be with him, is it ok for him to go for it?

of course right there your going to say... dude, thats illegal...

but here's the thing, wut if she was to die of heart problems ((for sure)) within a year or two, and love was one of those things that she wanted to succeed in and to have before she died.............. then would it make it ok for him to be with her to make her last bit of life her best? (if he had feelings for her of course!)

2007-12-29 20:39:20 · 4 answers · asked by Deviant Fish 3 in Singles & Dating

Even though she is fat. People say I would look so much nicer if I lost weight. I like myself the way I am. Why don't they accept this? If a girl has a nice smile and a nice face, guys would you go out with her, especially if she had a sweet personality and was quiet and shy?

2007-12-29 20:28:07 · 11 answers · asked by Janina 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 20:24:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its kinda depressing, especially when you realize the decline in attention that starts to occur -.-'

2007-12-29 20:19:47 · 9 answers · asked by neffyiffy 2 in Singles & Dating

I cant tell if im kinda cute, hot, etc. or plain ugly hahaha
But no really, i can take it. I'm fourteen, so no 40 year olds or 12 year olds because that wouldnt be accurate because i wouldnt be dating them. not my best pic, but not my worst. id say ive looked better minus the doofus smile haha

http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f380/SpeedyYoshi/1006072130.jpg

2007-12-29 20:15:51 · 13 answers · asked by quickshift 2 in Singles & Dating

Here's how it works: I list some "types" of guys, and you reply with what you think of each type. Which is your favorite? Which is your least favorite? What do you like/dislike? OK--here we go! Assume all guys are attractive, kind, and intelligent. Have fun!

1. Nice Guy
2. Jock
3. Bad Boy
4. Strong Silent Type
5. Manly Man
6. Pretty Boy
7. Class Clown
8. Brain

2007-12-29 20:11:41 · 21 answers · asked by YearoftheRat 5 in Singles & Dating

How do you feel when you find out that a white guy likes Asian girls? Do you worry that maybe he'll like you JUST because you're Asian, and not because you are who you are? Do you think that it's cool? Or do you just not care?

I ask because I'm white (ethnic Swede from the US), and for pretty much my whole life I've been into Asian women,
but I haven't made much of a mention to this to any girl I've met because I don't want her to think I'm some creepy, anime-watching guy who wishes that HE was Asian. I'm content with who I am, happy even. Friends of mine who are Asian women will say that they're stoked that they met a white guy who doesn't care that they're asian only to be pissed off that he doesn't respect their culture or will even insult it; ones who are stoked that they meet a guy who speaks their language and is culturally aware are freaked out when they discover he has a set of swords, has every anime on DVD and a stack of comics three feet high.

What's your take?

2007-12-29 20:08:26 · 13 answers · asked by Mysterious Racer P 7 in Singles & Dating

OK so as some of you might have seen the movie Juno,
its all about a girl who gets pregnant when shes 16 and such

so anyway
i saw it with my parents
and now my mom thinks that
im gonna get all like pregnant
im no where NEAR being 16!
and the whole thing sounds just..
i just wouldnt do that. I mean i am
already a teen.. so yea.

what should I do?

2007-12-29 20:02:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if ur kissing ur boyfriend. and its not pecks but its a normal kiss,
will u loose air ?
will u like run out of air and breathe harder?

2007-12-29 19:54:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a sophomore in college and I am good friends with this one girl...we have known each other since the beginning of freshman year and we consider each other pretty good freinds. I developed a crush on her around christmas time and told her.....she was very mature about it and said she basically didnt feel the same way. Even after that we are still very good friends.

She told me last summer that I should come visit her but I never did. And when we left 2 weeks ago for winter break she mentioned it a few times that I should come visit her during the winter break.

So, what I am wondering is, could this be some sort of test? I am not trying to look too far into it because she didnt reciprocate my advances last year, but I cannot help but wonder. What I mean is, could it be that she wants to see if I like her enough as a "friend" to come visit her, and then if I do maybe be more? Women would you or have you ever done something like this?

2007-12-29 19:44:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is there any way out there possible?

2007-12-29 19:42:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure why, but, for practically 3 yrs. I won't allow my husband near me. I just keep eating & gaining weight. I found out he was collecting porn behind my back years ago I filed for divorce, but, we tried to work things out. Then , I found on my computers history, that he was looking for some one on one descreet sex, with Latino women. I left again.
We eventually, moved back in together, he stopped drinking for 15 months, I know, he is being faithful, but, I cannot, be intimate with him. I wish, I could, but, my self refuses too.
In the mean time he & I are both getting fatter, lazier, lethargic & eat all the time. No matter, how hard I try. I am so humiliated by my weight & his past. He swears he never cheated. But, I know he had too. I found, a womens I.D, who was our age, she was latino, in MY BACK YARD, under a rock. The I.D, had been bit in half, only her picture was left & the experation date, & DL#. It was dated for one month earlier. we lived there for 5 yrs.

2007-12-29 19:37:40 · 14 answers · asked by Sojourner 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So i have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months but there are a couple problems so i don't know if i should break up with him, i really like him but (1) his name is mackenzie so i get made fun of a lot by my friends because it is a "girl" name but he goes by mack (2) its been 5 months and we kissed once (only 2 weeks ago) and it was not romantic and it was really fast (3) he kissed another girl once before he kissed me while we were going out. he kissed her on a dare by his friend and i wasn't there but his freind told me cuz he was mad at him and it made me upset but when i finally asked him about it he at least admitted to it and said he was sorry but it still bothers me sometimes. So i don't know if we really have a working relationship, we talk on the phone and hangout all the time but it doesn't really feel like we're going out cuz he hasn't kissed me so i don't know what to do. Please help and only good answers please, not ones telling me i'm too young to worry about this

2007-12-29 19:31:18 · 4 answers · asked by gurlygurl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 19:31:01 · 5 answers · asked by CECELY M 2 in Singles & Dating

somebody give me plz some info on how to stop thinking bout and feeling so upset bout my parents divorse in a few months! (or weeks)

2007-12-29 19:29:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce