Family & Relationships - 29 December 2007

is it time to move on! I have met someone else and she wants more.after being hurt how long should you take for yourself before moving on into anouther relationship. and when should I consider sex with this new person! I am kind of scared of a commitment at this time. you could say I am being very carefull not to get to close to her.and i dont want to lose her. but she wants more from me. what can I do ! or tell her so she understands where I am coming from. there are alot of question in this so please think about the previous relationship!

2007-12-29 16:48:20 · 9 answers · asked by rodwrnr 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance isn't very close with her family but I am mine. I go to her family dinners for Christmas and Thanksgiving. But I have a had time getting her to go to mine, she says she's uncomfrontable around my family but I have no idea why their all very nice to her. I was uncomfrontable around her family at first but the more I went the less I became but I can't even get her to give it a chance. She also says I should be more senstive to her feelings. Whats the right way to handle this? Thanks

2007-12-29 16:48:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my and my husband are thinking of having chrildren. We are living in a 2400 a month home. If I were to ever be a single parent I wouldnt be able to afford such a home. I want to have kids but if i have kids and we decide to split i would be the one to have to leave because of the huge morgage payment and chirldren ususally want to stay in their home (right)? so i would live alone with out my kids in another home and my husband would end up with them and i would be alone.Should I (A) stay in this expensive house and wonder if we will ever break up and he gets to stay here with the kids or (B) should he and i move into something cheaper so when i do have the kids if we decide to split in the future I can keep the kids cause i will be able to afford the home...
dont say you should wonder about breaking up in the future if you wonder that you shouldnt have kids. Dont say that cause i am just being cautious and smart.

2007-12-29 16:47:20 · 15 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have an extremely handsome husband that I have been married to for 5 years. By extremely, I mean he has female co-workers and gay co-workers have a crush on him, my kid's preschool teachers have a crush on him, when my spouse and I go out, the waitresses, female strangers, giggle and blush when they see him, some even go up to him to tell him he's hot and ask if he's an actor, he's even been confused as an actor and has been ask to sign an autograph before. My spouse doesn't think he's all that, he'll just smile and take it as a compliment and go about his day.
Sometimes I can not help but feel that another woman might take my husband away from me or even seduce him because of his looks.
He's 36 years old but he looks 10 years younger. If you want a better description he looks like a striking resemblance of Paul Newman when he was very young.
My spouse is loving and caring husband and father, GREAT in bed!, hardworker, helps out alot, etc.

2007-12-29 16:45:40 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend whose 13 and she sleeps with her parents and she has this teddy bear that she treats like a real human.

Is this normal? I'm starting to get worried.

2007-12-29 16:45:11 · 59 answers · asked by YaoYao D 5 in Friends

And tell them to use ...peanut butter? LOL The crunchy kind?

2007-12-29 16:43:21 · 2 answers · asked by Juk 2 in Friends

2007-12-29 16:42:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I attract very young women 25 and younger. I am an articulate, well educated, confident guy. I am fit, groom myself well and know how to attract women. Since my divorce 2 years ago I've been struggling with lingering emotional attachment with my ex. lately I've been going out. My issue is I am more comfortable to approach younger women. When they respond by showing me clear interest or allow themselves to be seduced I can't do it. This noise in my head shouts "WRONG"
so I back out. I am sexually stranded currently and long for a feminine soft body next to mine. I see older women as judgmental snobs, too formal and demanding. I know I am wrong here but that's how I feel for some reason. So not easy to approach them. What do you guys suggest? Is it wrong for me to date say a 22,21,20 year old ladies?

2007-12-29 16:42:00 · 32 answers · asked by joggoBonito 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy hit me up on a social networking website, and I told him I was a little bit older (27). Do you think dating a 20 year old is way too young?

2007-12-29 16:35:42 · 14 answers · asked by Dannicka D 84 1 in Singles & Dating

She recently split from her husband of 4 years.divorce is not final.She owns a bar and it totally consumes her time.she had texted me one evening "what r u doing?"I replied "nothing why?' she said"just wondering that's all"I took this as she was into me.Boy was I wrong.She totally cut off contact with me.after 2 weeks of me trying to talk to her she started to contact me again.We met at her work for about 2 hrs.we talked drank she was kinda touchy feely nothing serious happend.the 2nd time we had coffee she asked me what made me think we were more than friends.I told her about the texts.She says she talks to all her friends that way.So were just friends.she says she does not trust men.3rd time we went out she bought dinner.On xmas day she texted me I was at the movies she asked if i was on a hot date making out?2 days later she called me. went out for drinks she actually gave me a hug !.she had to bolt said she'd call me the next day,but hasn't.she does that every time we go out.

2007-12-29 16:35:22 · 17 answers · asked by peterg 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like for example- I was with my fiance tonight shopping and he ran into this beautiful girl and gave her this huge hug and forgot to introduce me! Well after we walked away together he goes she is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen- she is literally perfect!

Unspoken rule number 1: Introduce your fiance to a good friend of the opposite sex

Unspoken rule number 2: Dont put some random girl up on a pedastool like that, who you didnt introduce your fiance too, and then go on and on about her

2007-12-29 16:35:15 · 11 answers · asked by boots4939 1 in Singles & Dating

curious...

2007-12-29 16:33:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a fiance, we live apart. well we got in a huge fight about how i always drive over to see him(everyday) and he never comes to my house. he makes more than i do! i had asked him to come over tmw and he said i don't want to, you can come over here, and i told him i was tired of driving over there all the time. we got in a huge fight and then he tried to apologize and suck up by saying he would be over at my house @ 12, but i told him i already made plans (we got in a little argument about it the night before) to go to my friends house. well he completely blew up and asked for the ring back and we exchanged a lot of words, and now he wants me back. idk wat to do, he always does this and then when we break-up he says he'll change and everything, but never does. i do love him, but i am tired of doing all the work.( he never takes me out anymore, says he can't afford it but yet buys me lv purses all the time or buys a ton of tools) i have to pay when we go out. should i stay with him?

2007-12-29 16:32:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have a marriage license. Want to get married, do not want a ceremony.

2007-12-29 16:25:26 · 3 answers · asked by ROTriot Josh 1 in Weddings

2007-12-29 16:21:35 · 16 answers · asked by The Starr Company 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we hadd some frend s who got helkp and i think that wud be good for us too.

cud jerry help save our familys LIFE!!!????

my doughter is preggy and 14 years old and she smokes! i am scared for her bebeh.

so her problem that she smokes while praigo.

and my husband keeps leaving me to go hang out with his other family aka his ex wife and their kid.

also, their kid is so ugly and fat i feel bad for the poor woman. but she is STEALING MY MAN!!!

but i am a perfect angle!!!

i just garden in my garden which there aint that many pot plants but that aint the point. i am so good i go to walmart and i always give a few centss to the coin jar with the crippled kids on it.



so cud jerry save our famialy??


also my son wont stop getting girls pregnant. my other son wers my lipstickk. i think he is too yung to date!!

2007-12-29 16:20:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-29 16:20:13 · 16 answers · asked by The Starr Company 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've read a lot of question and a lot of stay at home moms think that they don't have a right to money because they don't make it their husband does. What's up with thinking like that?

2007-12-29 16:18:13 · 27 answers · asked by amt 4 in Family

I think i like my friend
but im not sure
i mean ive seen her like twice
and i talk to her in msn
sometimes i look at her pics
and ni think shes perfect but
other times im like ehh

I don't know if i really like her
i mean..
like is there any phobia
dealing with someone
being afraid of not likeing
anybody...


What's wrong with me?


sorry stupid question i know i just wanted to open up to somebody =]


please no mean answers im really confused right now

2007-12-29 16:17:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a sales associate at Ny&Co my store manager is completely rude and plays favorites .As well she hired her friends to work there and they get the best hours. The sales associates and other managers feel the same way. What can be done ?

2007-12-29 16:14:36 · 4 answers · asked by gocrazyy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why is it that in some marriages ones they get married, the romance start fading. I remember a couple at an event, they ask them to kiss and it was as if it is a foreign thing to them. why does it has to fade?, can't it last for the entire life with the same intensity as it start? why do we have to arrange for something new can't it be spontaneously?

2007-12-29 16:06:50 · 24 answers · asked by John m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I go out with this girl last night ice skating, to dinner and to a movie and we had a good time. So I run into her tonight and we begin talking and flirting but the whole time she is getting text messages. She then says she is going to the movies tonight. I curiously asked "with who, is it a guy?" She hesitantly says yes and tries to change the subject by asking me about coming to watch football at her apartment's lounge area. I tell her I might and then I leave. When we first met it seemed as though we clicked very well together and had a ton in common. We still do enjoy each others company but now I'm thinking I should back off. Me and her acted very much like a couple the night before and the next night she's going to the movies with some other guy. We're not in a relationship or anything and I don't want her to feel any pressure to be in one. I do really like her but I'm not sure I should keep spending time with her. Any thoughts?

2007-12-29 16:04:44 · 12 answers · asked by Sub Xero 2 in Singles & Dating

do you think she knows, he still thinks about me when he is with her?

2007-12-29 16:02:42 · 15 answers · asked by Schizo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

because he always talking to me about his single status...he never have a girlfriend...help me...what should i tell him???

he's 18...

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2007-12-29 16:02:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my x boyfriend treated me like his slave are all guys like that

2007-12-29 15:59:18 · 1 answers · asked by countrygal 2 in Singles & Dating

she is sooo amazing! i love her to death! if i never saw another person besides her for the rest of my life i would be in eternal bliss! she is THE perfect girl for me!

and the best part is, she loves me back!

2007-12-29 15:56:12 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The last time I saw him we thought he'd be coming back. He fell in love and married abroad.This was the first time I've seenhim in 3 years and the first time I'd met his wife.She seems to be a very nice person.I only had an hour with him on Sunday,hardly enough time to talk about all that has gone on in 3 years.He said he'd see me Christmas day but he was a no show,not even a phone call.He and his wife will be leaving on Tuesday or Wednesday and I work everyday until then.I am so disappointed that he didn't make an effort to see me.I wanted to share the photos of my brother as he was growing up.When he was younger ,my husband and I took my 3 younger siblings everywhere even after we had our own children.We have always had a good relationship.I know he has always lived his life "the spur of the moment" so I'm not really surprised about his behaviour.I didn't even get a moment to take some pictures of us together.I'm hurt and disappointed..I think this was a lost opportunity.

2007-12-29 15:56:09 · 6 answers · asked by gussie 7 in Family

I love you!!!!

2007-12-29 15:51:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its all I think about, I can't focus, everything seems so horrible without a girlfriend, Ive never had one before and I'm 19 ******* years old, I NEED HELP

2007-12-29 15:48:23 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 15:43:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings