Family & Relationships - 29 December 2007

i have been talking to an egyptian man that my mom and her husband knew when they was there in egypt i been talking to him for over 13 months well in october i flew too egypt and marry him,and while i was there he put me down by calling me fat a nd stupid and **** american women.he also gave me a bloody nose,beat my head in the floor while saying to me he will kill me,broke my right elbow,locked me in the apartment and cut the phone live,and then had me turn in to muslium.and now he wants me too come back to him.he has ask me too forgive him many of times which i have.but i cant never forget what he has done too me.and what if it will happen again.i amm scared too death of him.i am his first marriage.im just soo confused i still have some love for him.please any good suggestions i live in florida. thanks too all who read and answer with suggestions..

2007-12-29 18:06:36 · 19 answers · asked by womenof age 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm pregnant - three days overdue, in fact. I've had a couple of dreams here and there about cheating on my husband. They disturb me, especially since I did cheat once, before we decided to get back together and before we decided to have a baby.

I think it's just nerves about the baby and all, but I wonder if there's a deeper meaning or something. What are your opinions?

2007-12-29 18:02:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is about dating and relationships.

2007-12-29 18:01:37 · 83 answers · asked by syl 2 in Singles & Dating

What kinda of crap is that? I called him back and said what bar are you going to? He said idk and you aren't coming with me cause I dont want you being around my friends. What do you think of this?

2007-12-29 18:00:18 · 25 answers · asked by Mandy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

see im 17 and i got pregnat how do i tell him and i think he'll freak out.

2007-12-29 17:59:15 · 20 answers · asked by Sirena G 1 in Singles & Dating

don't you think it's frustrating that you'll never know if you bumped into that perfect person for you this morning? or if you brush past them every day before school/work, etc.
just want to see opinions.
it's something that really bothers me

2007-12-29 17:55:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok here it goes. Me and my fiance are getting married in August of 2008. My parents have a spare Apartment right next to their house and I had worked it out that we'd do yard work and little odd and end stuff to pay rent.But we'd pay all the other bills.She believes that living so close there'll treat us like children and not as a a married couple. I see her point So I said we'll just be saving machines and get a small place somewhere but we'll have to wait on having children.She wants kids right off the bat which would be fine if we lived at my parents apartment but she doesn't want to live there. I've tried to explain that we can't have kids and get married and have our own place right off the bat. And then she gets mad at me when I said I'm doing the best I can but nothing good enough. Which probly wasn't smart but it's how I feel. Who's in the wrong here? How should I handle this situation?

2007-12-29 17:40:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Out of the blue, my aunt left my uncle and moved across the country to be with her boyfriend. She left behind four small children and she hasn't contacted them in three months.

How could this happen?

2007-12-29 17:38:14 · 7 answers · asked by Due March 9th, 2010 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

... I have seen him twice (hanging with mutual friends) & it has been totally platonic. I really, really felt a connection with him. He is a super nice guy but just went thru a divorce. So I have backed off & gave him his space. ProbIem is I can't stop thinking about him ... i think about him like every day. I haven't felt like this about anybody in a while. I think he may like me but then it may have just been a hook up for him. I want to pursue something with him but am afraid that its too soon for him, or that he may not feel the same. But then what if he does? I've been dating other guys recently but none of them make me feel like that. I just keep thinking of him. I've been trying to just push my feelings aside & see what happens in the future but it doesn't seem to be working. Is a hook up just a hook up and am I being silly to think of it as more? It felt like there was an emotional connection. Too naive? Should I just talk to him about my feelings? If so what should i say? HELP

2007-12-29 17:27:36 · 12 answers · asked by michelle s 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and 5'6. My dad is 6'2 with a sister that is 5'10 and their dad is 6'0. My mom is 5'5 and her dad was 5'11 with no brothers or sisters and I don't even know what my grandma's look like. How tall will I be when I'm older.

2007-12-29 17:27:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My lover just told me that our light has run out of energy and I cant bare the thought of being without him!!! I would rather die than lose him, so what should i do??? Should i jump off a roof or something???? Have i done something wrong??? HELLLLLLLLLPPPPPPP?!?!?!?!?!?!?????!?!?!?!

2007-12-29 17:26:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this girl i've been seeing won't give me a ******** without a condom coz i've slept with a lot of people. she is scared of getting an std even though i think i'm clean. this has never happened to me. is she weird or is wearing a condom during fellatio quite common? lemme know...

2007-12-29 17:25:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

by this I mean in your 20's vs. your late 30's.

2007-12-29 17:25:07 · 9 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Family

I was going to call my boyfriend but when I picked up the phone, I heard my younger sister whose 13 and her boyfriend talk about sex. I was being nosy and listened to their conversation. This is how it went. James(boyfriend)-So, uh, I was thinking. I know this is pretty random and stuff, but do you want to have sex, you know. Just for practice and stuff? Lacey(sister)- Yah!! Sure! But, we should probably do it at your house. My parents are really strict and wouldn't let any boyfriend of mine come in my room. James- Okay. Yeah, are you free ....Saturday night? My parents won't be home.... Lacey- Yeah. Defintily.

and then the conversation ended. I hung up the phone. I didn't walk in on her and start talking to her. I didn't want to embarras her.

I don't want to tell anybody about it, because Lacey will never trust me again...and I don't want to lose our friendship as sisters.

How should I react??

2007-12-29 17:20:23 · 16 answers · asked by KeepXholdingXon 1 in Singles & Dating

i was trying to make people laugh because all this stuff thats happening at my house and i needed some laughter,,u know,,but some people were very rude and said stuff like thats not funny go kill urself,,well u get what im saying,,most people thought it was funny tho,,but my question is why r some people so mean on here ,if they dont like ur quesion they shouldnt answer it,,am i right?

2007-12-29 17:18:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I´m learning english from the kinder garden and all my basic education, I can read an transalte but is too dificult to me to speak english. I´m from México. The Korean guy invites me to go out and he wants to knows my city.,,,

2007-12-29 17:14:50 · 1 answers · asked by cerr33 5 in Singles & Dating

I have NO family on the east coast. My husband is pretty much my everything. I met him at 15; I am now 25. He has become so arrogant that he cannot admit his faults & in turn blames me 4 every downfall of our marraige. I spent Cristmas by myself, while he was with his family at his mom's, because earlier in the day he refused 2 wait 4 me 2 get dressed 2 go with him 2 his sister's house, & then came back with a BAD attitude. Friday night, he and his cousin went out 4 drinks. He said he'd be home in an 1 1/2 & his cell phone was dead. He was gone for 4 1/2 hrs and I found out he borrowed his brother's phone that night, but called me once from his cousin's phn. Yesterday, he left at 1045pm only saying "I'll be right back." He came home at 3am, & not one phone call. All I got was a Nextel search msg when I tried calling him. Today, at our home, he entertained his family, while I pretty much ignored everyone & isolated myself. He got mad at me & said to wait til my family visits.

2007-12-29 17:14:07 · 22 answers · asked by anoname 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I have been going out with my girl for almost two years, and I know there's a few guys she likes to hang out with. She's a senior in HS and I'm a freshman in college. Lately when I visit I feel like she's pushing me away from cudling while we're watching a movie and other small gestures she used to like. Earlier today I found a picture of her hanging out with her friends. She is laying on top of a guy I don't know (looks like between his legs) him holding her gently and she looks very comfortable. She says it's nothing and she does it all the time? Do you think she's gone over the line. I think she has and I need help on how to approach her with this when she feels like it's no big deal and completely normal and I feel cheated on. She looks more comfortable laying on top of this guy that I personally have been her comfortable with me for a while now. Please help. Guys? Women? I love this girl so please be serious. I want to keep this relationship going.

2007-12-29 17:12:27 · 6 answers · asked by SomeGuy 2 in Singles & Dating

If you were drunk guy with a drunk girl, but you had a serious gf, would you accept a "blowjay" from the drunk girl? this is under the circumstances that your gf wouldn't find out...please help!!!

2007-12-29 17:11:40 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its all over

I finally opened up to someone after a long time of building walls and never allowing myself to get hurt, always keeping one foot on the ground...I thought I had finally found someone really special...

Sadly it wasnt to be....he couldnt give me what I wanted and rather than hurt me any more, he made the right choice and said goodbye

He wanted to be friends still as he feels thats the most important thing and he doesnt want me to not be a part of his life at all....but right now I cant do that....seeing him will break my heart all over again

I am not a fool for love...I know its for the best and that what we had was really really good and that I should be greatful for the fantastic memories....its just not the right time for him...and maybe not for me either...but it doesnt stop this ache

I know it wont last forever...I wont always feel this way and maybe someday someone will feel the same....but right now I am broken and I dont know quite what to do

2007-12-29 17:11:17 · 18 answers · asked by sweetnlow 3 in Singles & Dating

Usually its the woman who stops, but MEN, what was your reason for no longer having sex with your wife? I believe sex stops in a marriage for underlying reasons besides the excuse of say, "no time"...which is legitamate sometimes. (A guy once told me his wife stopped having sex about five years ago when his mother in law moved in and she didn't want to make noises... so now they only do it on vacation....)

It is ok to hear from women here too...but I would like to know what men are thinking about too...

Thanks!

2007-12-29 17:10:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this question has to do with the same person:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmRj5.8t8qYZvz1D1mGiJmzty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071123201220AA1vwPY

I've been talking to this guy for a while and although in the beginning we had conversations about movies, w/e, later on we started talking about things that were more meaningful, like issues i've been having with my family life and stuff like that. i realized that by talking to him i've gained so much, because he actually gives me honest, insightful advice, and i feel like i've become a better person by listening to him. he always makes me think about things in a new and different way. i dont always like the way that i am, because i can freak out about the stupidest things, and i can be a spaz, but he is the total opposite from me and i feel like by talking to him i've been able to learn ways to improve myself. the bad thing is that i feel like i need him now, if i dont talk to him i dont feel right but i know he doesnt like me

2007-12-29 17:07:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I let this guy I know I'm interested in him and he too said he has interest for me and finds me attractive. We began communicating via the internet and then he gave me his cell phone. He calls a few times a week and we have great conversation with no awkward pauses, a lot of laughing and witty humor. When I see him where we met we greet each other with a combination of a handshake and a kiss on the cheek and he spends time around me talking, laughing, etc. He works where we met so I understand he also has to be professional in his work environment. He mentioned to me 2x via the net that we should hang out and even though I volunteered some ideas, after about 4 weeks of just talking casually on the phone, communicating via the net, and seeing him where he works; we still have not "hung out." You see, he works 12 hours a day: He also has a weekend job Friday and Saturday evenings. Sunday's he sleeps most of the day because he works too much and doesn't have enough time to himself. So, basically he does not have time to hang out with me. He only gave me the number to his prepaid cell (not his home #). Though, he has called me from his home phone before; I know because it shows up as a private #. Every time he calls me, he calls me from his home phone and I hear him walk around his apartment freely. So, this guy is not making time for me, calls a few times a week, and although he spends time around me where he works I feel he feels obligated to do so. I think he’s just t not that into me and I don’t know if I should send him a message via the net asking him in what way, if any, is he interested in me, and/or if we should just go back to the way it was before we expressed a mutual interest in each other and just stay friends. What do any of you think?

2007-12-29 17:06:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can you be totally"smitten" and "enamored" and "in love" with someone and cheat on them?

2007-12-29 17:04:24 · 5 answers · asked by fluffy 1 in Singles & Dating

What kind of flower or plant would you be?

Who would you like to pluck you?

How would you like to be plucked?

2007-12-29 16:59:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering what guys find attractive in a girls personality... im a shy girl. do guys like more outgoing girls? (among other qualities)

2007-12-29 16:53:45 · 19 answers · asked by daydreamer 1 in Singles & Dating

my 27 yr old niece is going to get married sometime this next year, she always said when she talked about getting married that she wanted me to be a part of her wedding! and now today i found out she is prob not going to be including me! im offended by this! is it wrong for me to be offended at being left out? i have always been there for her thru thick and thin all her problems and i have always helped her out and we have always been more like sisters than aunt and niece! and now she does this! should i confront her? right now i feel like if im not to be included as part of the wedding then why the heck should i even bother to attend it when it takes place?

2007-12-29 16:51:25 · 18 answers · asked by ♥musiclover♥ 4 in Weddings

what.s the best relanship in being married a honest spouce or a put on person cheating when they can and when the put on gets caught what happens . to them most of the time decent answer on both

2007-12-29 16:51:05 · 9 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I grew up ugly...no other word to say but ugly. Very chubby, very weird looking, with no fashion sense. I didn't have many friends for that very reason...the few friends I did had were very kind hearted people who liked me for what I was on the inside.

Around junior years things started to change. I lost a good deal of weight, my face changed (sounds crazy but I swear to it), and I started taking care of myself. Got nice hair, nice clothes, nice makeup. I'm not hot stuff or anything but I'm not ugly like I used to be.

Now I'm almost 20 and I don't know how to act around certain people. Girls who made fun of me in high school and boys who wouldn't give me a second look are now trying to be my friend. They give me more attention now than all four years of high school.

But I don't know whether to be friendly back or treat them the way they treated me when they thought I was not worthy of their attention.

What do you think?

2007-12-29 16:50:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, my mother in law is from India. My husband applied green card for her and she wants to live with us forever. She takes cares of my little daughter 3 yrs old. And she is so bossy to control my house and my kid. She takes care of her at night too. I argued many times with her to take care my kid. But she fighted and yelled to me. And my husband is always with her. They just totally ignored me. We almost get divorced because of her.
My question is in CA, if she always takes care of her, is that favor to my husband when there is custody issue? Who usuaaly get physical custody in CA?
Second, is there a way to get her out of my house? She made me totally stressed and sick of house.
If we argued again when I want to sleep and take care of my kid, she argue, can I call police?

Thanks

2007-12-29 16:49:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family