who does he care more about. the one he's cheating on and lying to or the one he is cheating with @ honest to?

Question

can you be totally"smitten" and "enamored" and "in love" with someone and cheat on them?

Answer 1

Neither, he is cheating on both...he is not worth it.

Answer 2

He cares more about himself than either of the other 2.
You cannot be smitten and enamored and in love with someone and cheat on them with someone else. So if that is what he is doing then he is probably lying to the other one too.
If she has low self esteem, she will not care because he is with her and knows he will be back when he is done with the other person. Each time he goes.

Answer 3

If someone is smitten and enamored with you then they wouldn't be cheating on you.
He's probably more honest with the other woman because he can tell her things he can't tell you and he's probably smitten and enamored with her too (or at least he's telling her that too)
Get rid of the A**hole

Answer 4

He doesn't care about either one, because obviously he doesn't respect either woman enough to treat them with respect by two timing.
If someone cheats on their mate, they do not love them, and obviously are not in love with them to think about another woman enough to have sexual relations with them, and doesn't love the other woman enough to give up the one he is cheating on to be with her without anyone else in his life.

Answer 5

of course. it's not that you DON'T like that person, but it's the sensation of always wanting the next best thing, always wanting more, never wanting to settle, wanting excitement and new "hook ups".

it's not okay, im just saying why most people do it. cheating is never okay, under any circumstances.

he doesn't love you COMPLETELY. he isnt ready to give himself to you COMPLETELY. dumb the loser. you deserve so much more. the gum on the bottom of your shoe is worth so much more than him.