My lover just told me that our light has run out of energy and I cant bare the thought of being without him!!! I would rather die than lose him, so what should i do??? Should i jump off a roof or something???? Have i done something wrong??? HELLLLLLLLLPPPPPPP?!?!?!?!?!?!?????!?!?!?!
2007-12-29 17:26:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off no man is worth you killing yourself over if he wants to leave let him as hard as it may be,its his loss,break ups are def hard but its just one of those things in life that you have to deal with and you know how whewn you break up with someone and you go oh no one will ever be like so and so or nioo one will ever be as sweet then you meet someone new and they make you feel the exact same way,take time to heal,lean on your friends be strong
2007-12-29 17:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by chibi sanyu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you need more information. He needs to communicate what his issues are. Either he is done with you and has someone else or you need to work it out. If he says "our light has run out of energy" and nothing else then you both need to communicate more. Go to a place where you both are comfortable and in a non-confrontational conversation ask him to spill the beans and go from there. He needs to say what is up. I would get the truth and take it in a mature way.
2007-12-29 17:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by gtx765 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn around and run. No matter what if there is any chance or not the best thing is to run away from him. Human nature is to want what you don't have, and guy always like a chase so how can you lose, Good luck.
2007-12-29 17:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok you need to chill. and no jumping off a roof will do nothing good for you. you will just make the person you love feel guilty so you will just be hurting them. so thats really selfish. i think you should talk to him, and see if you can work something out. mabye he just wants some time alone for a while
2007-12-29 17:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by Allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend:
i ask you some question you may ask urself later:
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1- are you ugly?
2- are you fat ?
3- are you thin?
4- do you have a bad personality?
5- are you hard to love?
6- ..................................
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now even you answer all of the question and they are all yes you still have a chance becoz there is always some-one for someone so relax. i know it is hard to relax but you can do ur best.
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anyway, realationship is all about power. after a while stop calling him and tell him ok u were right we have nothing in commen and i feel the same and start going out with other guys in his face if u were going out with ur new bf if ur X was there try not to have any eye contact by this way you make him gelous and he would come back to you then when you are in power say no to him and have a great life.
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*oh by the way try to change ur style of wearing clothes wear sexy things and stuff use his manhood weaknesses and when ever he comes back say no and do not have sex with him untill he falls to his knees then you do what you got to do
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Good Luck
little john
2007-12-29 18:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by LittlE JohN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh don't do anything to ur self please ur worth more than that. Its happened to me before i know how u feel its had and yes u want to take ur self out but don't its not worth ur live for his .its not u its him ur not wanting to end it so its all about how he feels not u OK ur a wonderful person worthy to live .God gave u a live to live just cry cry cry talk to friends or parents SOMEONE even me i don't mind at all . Keep in contact tell me how ur going ill get back to u when i can ok
2007-12-29 17:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by jewllslovee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't jump off a roof. TALK TO HIM!
2007-12-29 17:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by kdoggsw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u thing suicide is the answer? as much as you think that it is not true, there are way better guys out there! It'll take time but someday ull get over it.
2007-12-29 17:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by JuVi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space
2007-12-29 17:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
noo put more spice in ur life
2007-12-29 17:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by alexis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋