like for example- I was with my fiance tonight shopping and he ran into this beautiful girl and gave her this huge hug and forgot to introduce me! Well after we walked away together he goes she is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen- she is literally perfect!
Unspoken rule number 1: Introduce your fiance to a good friend of the opposite sex
Unspoken rule number 2: Dont put some random girl up on a pedastool like that, who you didnt introduce your fiance too, and then go on and on about her
2007-12-29 16:35:15 · 11 answers · asked by boots4939 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
simply understand that i did leave out an asset to that situation, i was also speaking to her friend when we ran into them tonight, she was a girl i graduated with, and to be quite frank one of the biggest bitchs i know... but you know how it is put on a smile and ask how Christmas was.....
2007-12-29 16:50:36 · update #1
"When in doubt, do without" (If you find yourself questioning in your mind whether you should do something or not, the safest recourse is to do nothing). This has saved my butt a number of times.
"Sometimes it is better to be silent and thought a fool that to speak and remove all doubt." Don't try to talk about something you know nothing about. You'll just look stupid.
"It is better to lose and argument and keep a friend than to win an argument and lose one."
"A friend in need is a pest" just kidding.
2007-12-29 16:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by Geno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unspoken rule number 3: Ask your fiancee how would like it if you done what he did to you?
Unspoken rule number 4: If he don't show any remorse and don't offer you an apology read number 5.
Unspoken rule number 5: When you at the mall choose the most attractive man that's alone and throw you arms around him, and give him a gentle kiss, and then tell him you made a mistake, and thought he was someone else.
Unspoken rule number 6: Comment to your husband how cute he is as you studying the stranger from a distance.
Unspoken rule number 7: Can I have the 10 points please? God bless.
2007-12-30 00:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by tony 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, specific to this situation... you really don't want to know random unspoken rules, such as don't fart silently at funerals, that sort of thing. You had a nasty thing happen with your fiance this evening, and frankly, I think that not only does he need a course in simple manners, such as always introduce the lady you are with, introduce the lady first, introduce the eldest lady before the younger, that sort of thing... he needs a few days of silent consideration to decide if he is truly over this other perfect individual and really honestly ready to move on to a married relationship. If I were in your position, I'd be wanting to know a little more about his (honest) feelings and inclinations towards supergood friends of the opposite sex, how he honestly views beauty, what he'd do if you put on 75 pounds with a pregnancy, and if he broke up with this girl or if she broke up with him. If he were to have her available again, in front of him, would he take her over you? Did he start seeing you as a rebound over her? I'd almost think this is important enough to get in to see a premarital counselor about, or perhaps your priest or religious leader.
This guy not only was tacky, but certainly tossed up some red flags. Engagements are made to be ended, one way or another. Protect yourself in this situation... even if it only means to make it clear to him how you feel about this sort of thing. Do take it seriously.
Best wishes.
2007-12-30 00:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by purplesometimes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unspoken rule 3: She looks pretty in that dress
unspoken rule 4: be nice, watch ophra with her
Unspoken rule 5: never ever say to her that the girl in his cell phone is his best friend
2007-12-30 00:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by Beto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never date your sister's EXs.
Wash the dishes every night.
Be nice to people. The toes you step on today may be your boss's tomorrow.
2007-12-30 00:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this example was an actual event, I would be dumping this guy. He is obviously a womanizer. Walk away and don't look back............ Oh and walk very, very fast.
2007-12-30 00:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by DONNA W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't spit into the wind.
Don't step on Supermans cape.
Don't look a gift horse in the mouth.
2007-12-30 00:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are dating someone and you notice someone flirting a lot with you, tell them you are taken!
I've had this happen to me twice where I've liked someone and looked like an idiot flirting with them because they gave no hint they were going out with someone else. maybe that's okay for some people, but I don't think that's right
2007-12-30 00:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by Love and Happiness 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont know i got distracted with your question.. i think dats fuked up what he did!! you should be the most beautiful thing and the perfect girl in his whole wide world!! basically he is telling you that you are not the most beautiful girl and you are not perfect and she is! well he should marry her then instead of you dont you think?
2007-12-30 00:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by mave 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
- don't date/hang around people who make you feel uncomfortable. no matter how cool they may seem, they aren't worth your time.
- stress is overrated.
- life goes on
2007-12-30 00:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by dietcokeaddict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋