I go out with this girl last night ice skating, to dinner and to a movie and we had a good time. So I run into her tonight and we begin talking and flirting but the whole time she is getting text messages. She then says she is going to the movies tonight. I curiously asked "with who, is it a guy?" She hesitantly says yes and tries to change the subject by asking me about coming to watch football at her apartment's lounge area. I tell her I might and then I leave. When we first met it seemed as though we clicked very well together and had a ton in common. We still do enjoy each others company but now I'm thinking I should back off. Me and her acted very much like a couple the night before and the next night she's going to the movies with some other guy. We're not in a relationship or anything and I don't want her to feel any pressure to be in one. I do really like her but I'm not sure I should keep spending time with her. Any thoughts?
2007-12-29 16:04:44 · 12 answers · asked by Sub Xero 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give it your all dude. she might be txting just a friend. she might be letting someone go...for you. tell her how you feel and from the response make the next move from there. good luck.
2007-12-29 16:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course.
That's what dating is. Getting together with several people to find out who you get along with best. There's nothing wrong with asking her out again or watching a game with her even tho she's seeing other guys. But it is wrong if you're having sex with a lot of different people.
If you really like her, keep getting together with her, if you like her enough, be the kind of guy she'll want to eventually have a commited relationship with.
But, if when you two are out together, if she keeps checking her messages or is on the phone, tell her that's disrespectful and you'd appreciate her not doing that while you're together (on a date). If she does it anyway, then move on.
2007-12-29 16:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by candeekissez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing you for a sucker pal,so it's time to reverse the roles.Ignore her calls and if you must answer you're too busy or you're ready to step out the door with your hot date.From your post you sound too needy,girls have an inbuilt radar for this stuff and once they sense this your in trouble.There is one thing a lady hates more than anything else being ignored.Don't play her game you might surprise yourself.
Good luck and next time you take a lady out do something different from the norm.
2007-12-29 16:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by sekard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not respecting you by keep texting people while spending time with you. I'm a guy and I always keep my phone on silent or off when I'm dating someone. She thinks other things are more important than you such as going out with another guy.
Did you pay for all those places you went with her? That's a very expensive date. If she knew money doesn't grow on trees, she would atleast offer to pay for atleast one of the events. Just move on...
2007-12-29 16:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by gm0nk3y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give her a little time so that she can think over which guy she would enjoy dating, but you should also make it clear to her that you are interested in dating her. I think you should go on a couple of dates and just have fun. Show her that you are a good guy an maybe she will fall for you. :)
2007-12-29 16:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by kjessjess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy could be a friend. It not she's dating. There's nothing wrong with that as long as you know that up front and know what you're getting into. It means you can date other women. While your young, you should do this sort of thing instead of getting serious right off the bat.
2007-12-29 16:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by whatzername? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. Let her know what's on your mind, and tell her that you are interested in a relationship, if she was single. But watch how she acts... If she is fake you should be able to see something in her face. Good luck with her man.... Good luck
2007-12-29 16:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by oldirtdan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should keep spending time with her. Just tell her how you feel and if she feels differently then just leave it alone for a while. If you're ready to be exclusive you need to let her know.
2007-12-29 16:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by zlatham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys aren't a couple yet, so she has a right to date other people. just because she is seeing another guy one night, doesn't mean that she didn't like you or wasn't interested. she's just testing the waters. so pursue her. ask her out again. and again. and again. and see what happens
2007-12-29 16:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by Marina S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like her, and she likes "Guyz" move on bro before you get yourself stuck in something you dont wanna be stuck in and then your sitting around hurt, crying, and posting wimpy man questions on yahoo answers and then i have to come back and beat ay down with the brutal truth! Don't do it! drop her and find one that likes "You" not "Guyz" Good Luck!
2007-12-29 16:08:22 · answer #10 · answered by I Love Me a Freakin Good Burrito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋