what is wrong with mw?

Question

I think i like my friend
but im not sure
i mean ive seen her like twice
and i talk to her in msn
sometimes i look at her pics
and ni think shes perfect but
other times im like ehh

I don't know if i really like her
i mean..
like is there any phobia
dealing with someone
being afraid of not likeing
anybody...


What's wrong with me?


sorry stupid question i know i just wanted to open up to somebody =]


please no mean answers im really confused right now

Answer 1

maybe your just in need of someone and shes the closest thing you have? because when i like someone its not about looks its all in the person tho..goodluck.

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong with being normal.
It's okay to be confused about your feelings towards somebody. Hell, it would be weird if you weren't!
All these things take a little time. It seems like you do like her a little bit, and those feelings may or may not grow. Only time will tell.
Talk to her on msn more often. Get to know her and see if you two have a real connection.
If you do, then great! Just go for it! There is nothing to fear but fear itself.
If you don't, then there are plenty of other fish in the sea!
Don't stress over this too much because when you finally realize you like her, there will be no confusion.

BEST OF LUCK!

Answer 3

You are just looking for a girlfriend for the sake of having a girlfriend. You probably think that you have been too long without one, or you are feeling left out, because you are going through a dry spell and it seems that all your friends are hooked up. It's normal - everyone goes through those times.

Stop trying to make yourself like this girl - if you had any real feeling for her, you wouldn't be scrutinizing her and blowing hot and cold. Just be unattached for awhile - accept the situation. Look around, spot the girls you really go for, take your time. Get to like your own company, and you will become a relaxed, fun guy to be around. There's nothing wrong with you; you're just young and insecure. Teens stress constantly about not being able to force life to be the way they want it to be, but life can't be forced. It is going to play out in its own time.

Answer 4

There's nothing wrong with you, dude. You're just taking your time making up your mind which is always a wise thing to do in the romance department. You don't want to rush into anything and then regret it later. Just take your time about it all. Spending a little more time with you friend will tell you whether there's really romance in the air or not. You'll just know. Trust me on this.

Answer 5

there's nothing wrong w/you...you're just cool enough to care & reach out & ask.

I think it's a form of self sabotage that quite a lot of us do b/c we are afraid to be close to a person emotionally (maybe we've been hurt before?) or some other reason. We turn it into a phobia instead of looking at how we might be sub-consciously involved.

What are you *really* afraid of? That you will like her but she might not like you? That you will think you like her but then find you don't & you don't know what'd you do then? ...just think about it.

Answer 6

Hey I am just going to be straight up with you. We as men have to watch out when dealing with friends, and changing them into relationships. You have to think is it worth losing a friend, and do you think that you two could last in a relationship. I hope that helps.

Answer 7

Its all in your penis! Seriously! one minet yeah the next no! This is one of the most common things as to why after a dude bangs a chick he's outta the bed or rolls over and goes to sleep cause he has no more interest in her until he's horney again! So it sou8nds like she would make a great Fuc* buddy for ya!

Answer 8

there nother rong with u i ued to like this guy at my school and i thought he was perfect in all ways i used to look at his pics 24/7 but its just a fraze u get of it but for the mean time u need to stop thinking about her and stop looking at pics and anything to do with her this is only to get ur head straght

Answer 9

Nothing stupid about you at all,.. Cut yourself some slack.
You have plenty of time to develop a relationship.
Relationships take time. You haven't had that time yet.
If you have a problem, it's that you're not ready. Nothing wrong with that.

Relax, take your time.. you're fine.

Answer 10

There is nothing wrong with you that you don't already know.
You know you are confused and you know why too.
Give it some time. Get to know her a little more.
Ask her out.
Spend time with her outside of msn.

Answer 11

ok, i know it might sound weird, but if you want to know if you like someone or not just ask yourself, would you want to kiss her. sometimes i have had very minor crushes on guy and my answer was no and i moved on really quickly, and its normal to haver on and off emotions sometimes especially if you dont know the person that well as it seems so in your case, good luck!