So this I meet this guy at my work I gave him my number... that night we sent texts back and forth... kinda like him... not like super into him though... so last night he wanted to hang out... I was like no maybe tomorrow... so today he texted me I am sick so I did't respond...then just now he sent me a text saying " so you want to play tonight?" Ummmm ok I have only meet him once never hung out with him... I am not some hoe... how should I respond???
2007-12-29 21:23:56 · 16 answers · asked by xOxGangstAxOx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No leave the a@@hole hanging. Not worth your time and aggravation.
2007-12-29 21:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Joanna 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like what someone else said : "Define play, buddy."
Or tell him that you're busy (you should ALWAYS be busy when they call at the last minute, even if you aren't) but maybe you could meet for coffee in the afternoon. If he doesn't respond then he's only looking for a hookup.
He might not have meant what you think though... although it sure does sound like he does. Ask him to clarify what he means. And if he makes some gross booty call comment then tell him to get lost.
You're better than that.
2007-12-30 05:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by Spring 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no in a gentle and calm manner, but you must use a lot of body language to make go more crazy over you. It's in the chemistry.
2007-12-30 05:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by xXxEL♪TExXx 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just say ok.
make sure its not a pub or some deserted place.
at first, hangout at some public place where u cant be harmed. the first meetings u can kno more about him.
then after 10 meetings, u fell that he can b trusted, then u can meet in more secretive places.
p.s, can i hav my answer chosen as the best?
and receive a thumbs-up?plzplz?
2007-12-30 05:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by Invasion! 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
oh hell no! I think you should text him back and say, i am sorry to tell you this, but i am not ready for this yet, and if thats the only reason you are interested in me, get lost. dont be nice about it or he will get what he wants.=0
2007-12-30 05:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by Larry I 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just say "no, we haven't hung out, i dont really know you. Its going to fast." Hope this helps.
2007-12-30 15:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by Alissa B. (: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him what he ment by that and if he sounds perverted say shut up perv if you want to hang out talk to me like a women..saw it off of fresh prince of bellaire
2007-12-30 05:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
let him know exactly that, you are a nice girl.
you may want to let him know you were
offended by his choice of words.
i think him asking you that was tacky.
2007-12-30 05:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to politely say no it's obvious that he's just with you for the sex and if your not that into him it just gives you more of a reason to just cast him aside
2007-12-30 05:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Will 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Define play...buddy.
2007-12-30 05:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by Helena 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋