ok omg i am 13 and i like 3 girls they all like me ... please help one of them i am going out with 2 one is my ex and i'm falling in love with the other one one is in 8th grade my ex the one i'm going out with is in 7th grade and the one that i'm falling in love with is in 6th... what do i do!!!!!!!!! please help and please dont say anything like i'm to young to be falling in love
2007-12-29 21:11:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok. I'm 14 and I don't think you are to young because I'm married, but anyway.
1-The one in 6th grade must be a little too young for u.
2-You two broke up once because of something that might be repeated.
I think u should go out with the one in 8th grade. I have a friend that asks me for help with his girls and I'm getting sick of it but anyway good luck.
P.S. Tell that girl that wrote that meany thing that she's going down.
2007-12-29 21:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kenny M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I cant really help you as i did not understand a single thing you just typed.
However, i can say this. Don't do anything that involves all 3 of these girls that you may end up regretting.. I did that once and it was a road i wished I didn't take. Don't make that same mistake and just be with the one you truly love.
You're not too young to be falling in love, either. However, I do admit that you are one lovesick puppy - I used to be like that. I liked and fell in love with 3 girls at the same time that they were all best friends. Obviously after one came to me and dated me, the other 2 started having problems, scandals, quarrels, and drama with her. And then they ended their friendship. And it was all because of me that their friendship faded away.
Afterwards, the girl i dated had some problems with me - I didnt ever want to make any commitment or do anything about our relationship - we never did anything together - we loved each other - or so i thought. I loved her very much but she didnt love me back the same way then she truly fell in love with someone else when dating me. Then she started cheating on me with another guy.
Anyways... only advice I can give is just.. you better watch yourself. Don't get carried away and underestimate the girls either. You still have no understanding of what they can do...
2007-12-30 05:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't have to tell you that you're too young to fall in love because you already know that. But at the same time, you are growing into a handsome young man, so you're going to experience things in life dealing with the "ladies".
I would advise that you chose to be with the one you like most. Because it doesn't matter how they feel about you, it only matters if you feel the same in return. Be a gentleman about it, and be honest with the women in your life you care about. And chose to be with the one you "love" most. Because when the day is over, it's just the two of you together. And you need to be with the one that you have the same feelings for.
Don't feel obligated to be with a woman because she's hot and she likes you. Find out more about what she has to offer mentally, before you start looking at what she can give you (for the moment) physically.
Be safe, if you have sex protect yourself (and her) and follow your heart. Chose the woman that you feel you can invest emotions into a serious relationship with. A healthy relationship that you can grown and learn something from.
And no, you don't really and truly know what real love is, but you have to start some where in order for you to find the true meaning of it. We've all been there, you're not the first to experience this, and you won't be the last. Think about what makes you happy first, and then take the idea they "like you" because it's not love into consideration.
2007-12-30 05:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by Deity of Peace 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok the i wont say it, but are you sure your falling inlove or is it just infatuation, love is an entierly different thing and i asure you its more complicated than you think. but in your situation you have the answers to your question i mean, instead of going ballistic, settle down think for a while and decide which one you really like, you just have to know that you cant get everything you want, like 3 girlfriends at one time. sacrifices need to me made so just take time to think things though before you make any sudden moves, i hope your delliema is solved, and kid take it slow ok...
2007-12-30 05:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by jazz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What about just being friends with all three (or the two that aren't your ex) until you figure out which one you really like enough to be in a relationship with. That way you could get to know them properly and it shouldn't matter what grade they're in.
Good luck!
2007-12-30 05:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by slashgirl_1984 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dang you littlepimp. haha. jk. i think maybe you should not date any of them, i know its a good thing to have laots of people liek you, im 15, trust me I know. but since they are all very special to you, I think maybe you hsould just dont date any of them, if you are meant to be with one itll happen. I think maybe if ur with one,I oculdnt understand u very well, but if ur dating oone stay with them for now, you never know u might find ut you actually fall in love with her.Im not gunna say ur too young to fall in love, but love is a bigword, use is wisely.I have been in love once too, and it really hurts hwneu use it wrong, girls take there hearts serouly, so takes urs seorusly too! I hope i helped.
2007-12-30 05:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by Larry I 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
only date one at a time. it is wrong to juggle people like that. pick the one that you like the best, and go forward with her. if it doesn't work out, you have the other two that you can consider.....if they haven't moved on from you.
be a man, not a punk. show respect and you will be rewarded.
2007-12-30 05:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by King 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, Puh-leeeese!!!! If everyone says it, it's because it's true. You are too young get real. I doubt what you say is true!!
2007-12-30 05:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by mikk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right! so your 100 dollar bills are too big for your wallet eh?
Consider yourself very lucky and enjoy the attention while it lasts(which i hope is for long!)
choose the one you really like..dont settle for second best!
**cheers!**
2007-12-30 05:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by αd ισι♪ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't go out with any of them and give yourself a break
2007-12-30 05:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by Woodle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋