Just because you feel sorry for him and want to stroke his ego? Could this backfire? how?
2007-12-29 21:03:54 · 12 answers · asked by Melissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could backfire in a big way because he may think that you are going out with him because you like him and then he may be very hurt when he finds out the truth.
Go out with him as a friend and give him a chance. He may be a really great guy. And his looks really shouldn't matter anyway.
2007-12-29 21:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by Julie R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. go out with a guy because you want too.never go out with some one to help there ego, could it backfired? Who know for sure. it is a 50/50 change it will or not..
2007-12-29 21:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it, unless you truly have feelings 4 him.. otherwise you will both be living a lie and then when you cant do it any longer you will have to end it, and he will be heartbroken..
Besides how would you like it if someone went out with you cause they felt sorry for you?
Just be honest with yourself, and with others. People who do that live the best lives.
2007-12-29 21:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because somewhere along the line you'll get tired of him and he'll find out and will end up feeling very very bad about himself and about you...so if you really care about him...please dnt go out with him. Just remain friends. Put urself in his shoes and what do you think?
Goodluck!!!
2007-12-29 21:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by Tinnie Cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not doing him any favors. You are giving him false hopes -- that you like him romantically. If you do this, he might think that you are into him and you might have difficulty breaking off with him because he may go back to feeling unattractive. He will become an 'unflushable' -- you know like poo that won't go down no matter how many times you flush.
2007-12-29 21:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by reg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that's kind of mean. It's going to have the opposite effect if he finds out that's the only reason you're going out with him.
2007-12-29 21:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called stringing him along. In the end, he'll probably find out you were just doing it out of pity and he'll feel even worse.
2007-12-29 21:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by Seattle_Slacker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a very cruel person u never ever do that u obviously dont deserve a man...
2007-12-29 21:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait is this an offer or a question?
2007-12-29 21:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by sgt_kramus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋