Why do boys tell you that they love you ad then end uup hurting you?

Answer 1

Women do it too honey. Ive been cheated on, promised , and used too. I see this posted up above...
"well cause they aren't as mature as girls are and sometimes boy confuse love for lust and say that they love you but dont mean it.... and they end up hurting you cause they arent as focused on emotion as girls are."
We do focus on emotions just as much, the thing is that we change our minds sometimes because when love is involved it always makes things much more difficult. If women are so much more mature than men, why do women do the same things men do? I say it's because we are all humans.

Answer 2

That's a good question. I think guys have a hard time controlling themselves when it comes to girls. They are always just running around flirting and having fun not realizing how much they can hurt us sometimes. I don't think they mean to hurt us. It's just there natural instinct to be flirtatious. I wish we could do something about it, but the sad truth is that we probably can't.

Answer 3

Because they have a short attention span. You are interesting until you become un-interesting. The key is to stay interesting. If you give it away on the first date - you are now officially un-interesting. You have to drag it out. Little kisses on second date. Build up SLOWLY. Even after you've given it away - make sure they know there is better stuff to come. Become interesting to your boy. What does he like - learn about it. Become better at it.

Answer 4

Boys? i don't think you should generalize it because in fact the 2 girls I've had ended up cheating on me. To answer your question : the guy is not for you, in other words he didn't love you and choose more carefully next time.

Not all men are like that, you just have to look for the right one.

Answer 5

They are very hormonal and will try to get sex. You are prolly going to get the same thing whether you give it to them or not. My suggestion is that you don't because making love is like giving away bits of your soul that you can never get back. You should look around for boys who don't pressure you for sex, then you will know that they love you for you, and that they are respectful. Otherwise if you don't you are just going to get your heart broken over and over again.

Answer 6

Because they are boys. And keep in mind that men are just boys that never grew up. Ok, there are probably some who don't do it on purpose. But for the most part, they are insensitive baffoons.

Answer 7

Because they want you to think that they r the best guy in the world then they go n' break yr heart because they think they will be cool if they get another girl but they really end up being FAGS.!(:
haha.

Answer 8

They find someone more better!!

Well I'm not like that but some boys are open hearted!!
I always say that there is only one love for me!!
(listen some boys will say the line I said above, but he uses it to lie and get u!!) (I am not like that, I swear to GOD!!!)
LOL!! Sorry for that!!

Answer 9

because a lot of us are complete wan*ers and don't care how much we hurt you, as long as there is some "action" involved. many boys will say it because they think its mandatory in a relationship, but when they have had enough they will suddenly drop out of it and say they don't feel the same way any more.

many of us,
but not all of us
are plain and simple c*nts.

Answer 10

the easiest way to keep this from happening is to just be friends until your older and mature enough and wise enough to pick the right man when its the right time. its called immaturity, when your dealing with boys. just be friends with boys until your older and then you'll know more about what you need in a man.