Men/Guys, I need your expert opinion on this!?
Ok...I'm Azn/Blk, and there are these 2 white guys who only hang out with the "beautiful" white girls in class....but they always watch me. ALWAYS. One even got right in my face for a good five minutes or more staring until I looked back and he finally looked away.
I never pay them any attention, but they still always stare when I come into a room. I used to talk to one of the guys, but we just stopped talking and the other one just ignored me when I tried to speak, but like I think more in a self conscious way...like everytime we make accidental eye contact, he looks away really quickly.
So guys, would you think this girl was a B!tch? Why do you just stare and not say anything? Would you continue staring at the girl if you thought she was a B!tch?
What should she do? Just smile?
2007-12-29 13:05:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think they found something hot or cute with u
2007-12-29 13:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by Balaji P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For sure, they like you but maybe they are restrained by "racious" ... First of all, are you interested in them ? If not, just ignore them and move on. Don't let them affect your life. Perhaps you are beautiful, so it's common that guys like you and like to stare at you and dream about those naughty things .. hahaa ... As you said, they only hang out with beautiful white girls, so they are not "genuine" and sincere. Not worth you trying them. Maybe they are racious ?? But things will be different if you like them. Think about it. I don't think this girl is a b****. Why should i? There's nothing wrong unless she slept around with guys ... in fact, i don't mind staring at b**** though. Just admiring their beauty. That's all ... Guys like to stare at beautiful and sexy girl .. who aren't ?
2007-12-29 22:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think this is a racial thing or an attitude thing? Sounded to me more like you think they are not speaking to you because you are Asian/black. Sounds like a pretty combination to me, your probably a very pretty girl. Maybe that is why they stare. And as for attitude, most all guys though may not opening admit it, love attitude. They don't want a girl they can push around, they need limits.
So to summarize - they stare cause they think your pretty and attitude is sexy.
2007-12-29 21:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be they like you, or they could be being downright rude. If you think they are trying to upset you, stick with a girl friend when they are around and don't flinch from eye contact. If you think they are interested in you, go to them and ask why they're staring.
For what difference it makes I know a lot of boys who think Asian women are the bee's knees. Don't assume other boys are as callous as these ones seem to be.
2007-12-29 21:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe theyhave the hots for you and they are embarrased because of...nationality, status origi etc. Thats just the way some people are and if they or one of them ignore you then there is a good chance they are not worth getting to know
2007-12-29 21:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We just stare because you're beautiful. But we don't have the guts to talk to you. So we pretend and just look away when we think you caught us looking. If you like us and are interested, just come up and say hi, shoot the **** a little.
2007-12-29 21:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by i♥sf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)I'm a guy 2)I do that a lot with the girl i like and i look away because i am shy not cause the girl is a B!tch. they might like you or just r peverted up 2 you
2007-12-29 21:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile, They sound like there just being guys , staring at hot girls
2007-12-29 21:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by the_fire_dog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that humans do from infancy. They stare at a lovely face.
If you are attracted to either of them, then smile. If you are not then don't pay attention.
2007-12-29 21:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you almost answered your own question. Just keep smiling because they are tempting their own preferences, and maybe on the verge of testing the waters with you.
No guarantees, people are funny creatures.
2007-12-29 21:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you said guy?men to answer but it sounds like they want to make you think that they like you and trick you to make the other girls laugh experiance but i got them guys back lol by datin the bad boy of the school
2007-12-29 21:17:12 · answer #11 · answered by babygirl4life 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋