He's my mom's friend's son and our families are going to vegas together monday. And last time I went to his house for his sister's party I was soo sick so I just sat there saying nothing the whole time. I don't want to feel left out again. With him and his brother and cousins. How do I make myself included and get him to talk to me??
2007-12-29 11:42:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get them to come to the Las Vegas Outlet Center after 3pm and talk to a security guard named Andrew. I'll set them straight!
But if you want to do this on your own, just pick one of them and start getting to know them. It's best to have one person at least in common.
2007-12-29 11:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. The best way to approach a situation like that is to be honest. At first you may get butterflies, and feel a little nervous and thats quiet normal. However, just defeat that fear and say "Hey I had been wanting to apologize for appearing distant at your sisters party, I was feeling so out of it and trying to be cool at the same time". Explain your symptoms and talk about what you did when you got home to over come your sickness. You will be surprised to find out how many of us are put in very similar situations. That alone should spark a good conversation and also break the ice.
Good luck.
CoCo Luv.
2007-12-29 19:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by CoCo Luv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expecting you not to be sick this time. Just be yourself. Try to be involved in mutual conversations. Ask questions to show you are interested in him and his interests. You have to take the reins to get yourself included. Communication is listening as well as speaking. Actively listen, nod your head, make eye contact, have input. Good luck, relax (breath deep), and enjoy!
2007-12-29 19:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by angeldreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what they are interested in and then talk to them about it, its a great way to start a conversation, even if u don't like what u are talking about. Do something that they might find interesting on the trip. Show them 1 of your talents.Or just jump into conversations, even if ur not welcome and they think ur a lunatic, your still in the conversations..
2007-12-29 19:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by JoJo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out what he's into, better yet, try to find out what you have in common. Talk to him about what your going to do in Vegas, but remember to ask him questions that can lead to a further discussion. Get him talking about himself, then he will usually start asking you stuff in return.
2007-12-29 19:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by McMartha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them about something you're good at. Or start with a joke maybe? A smile always helps to get started.
2007-12-29 19:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by Kasa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just be myself and go up to him and say hi.. or maybe ask him a question so u he wont think u like him oohhh and DONT try to hug him trust me been there done that..... he will think u r weird but.... i DID end up dating that guy....HMMMMM ohh well
Hope evrythang works out ;)
2007-12-29 19:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by converseluvr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just joke around like you aren't attracted to him. guys like it when they can talk to a girl like she's just one of the guys. but if you want things to go further then flirt with him too so he knows you're into him.
2007-12-29 19:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by ♥klove♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring up a topic you think they all will like, and kinda just hang around them...they probably wouldnt mind
2007-12-29 19:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by PaperbagPrincess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him first
it might be accword at first but by the end is should be good to go
2007-12-29 19:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by The_Info_Ninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋