Since the beginning of last year me and this girl, lets call her yellow have been best friends. During the school year a girl we'll call her red moved in and she became friends with us too she was so nice and seemed like a true friend but started to change throughout the year and red started clinging to her till this day they treat me like dirt and i cant take it anymore even though i've confronted them more than enough times. I've been a great friend to both of them and i dont understand why they do that. It seems that yellow only seems to care about me when red isnt around and red might be moving again this year and im afraid yellow is gonna come back to me because she has no one else. Meanwhile yellow doesn't even realize Red is a b*tch or at least she pretands she doesn't becuase she tends to cling to a certain someone for some time until she finds someone better
This may seem immature and trust me i know i thought we all left this drama behind in middle school. I guess not
2007-12-29 11:26:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, your problem is not immature..this is normal for your age.
One of the most important things that you'll soon learn is to not be so concerned with other people's actions, because it will drive you crazy, literally. If you know you've been a great friend, then continue being that. A b%#@ will always be that, don't let someone else's actions change you. It always hurts to lose a friend, but don't dwell on it. Move on, learn and grow from this. But most importantly don't sit around waiting on this girl to come back and be your "friend".
Hope this helps :0)
2007-12-29 11:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Flabbergasted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yellow is not your friend anymore. She is more of a leech or something.
I would find a new friend and let yellow go.
You do not need her kind of drama in your life. Do you think people do not see what is going on? They do. So you must be brave and move on to better friends. Join clubs or
volunteer for projects or to tutor so you are busy and can talk to alot of other people and get to know them and visa versa.
2007-12-29 19:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by Blessed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they are immature and its sad bc you want to be friends with them and like them but you should probably just find some more mature friends.
2007-12-29 19:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by soren 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard to do, but leave them. they don't sound like they want to be friends anymore. Its hard but try to find some friends who have the same interests as you.
Try joining a club that does the things you enjoy, I'm sure you'll find some friends their. ;-)
2007-12-29 19:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by Only I Am Pyro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on, and don't look back sounds like drama. Good Luck!
2007-12-29 19:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously shes a fake friend, someone you dont need to associate with. dump her like yesterdays trash and move on. life is hard enough without someone else making it harder, you really dont need someone like that in your life. make new friends... new REAL friends that is
good luck
2007-12-29 19:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like that sometimes to. I would just find someone else. And ignore them. They want you to feel like that probably <33
2007-12-29 19:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They both don't deserve you. Let "yellow" see how bitchy "red" is then she will relize it. A true friend doesn't turn their backs on a real friend.
2007-12-29 19:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybr they are lesbians,and dont want you to know about them.
2007-12-29 19:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by toots2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feeling better ?
2007-12-29 19:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by kieran b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋