Family & Relationships - 22 December 2007

I fell in love with this guy and thats my fault amd he said he did to me we were always together and kissing and making out. Then yesturday things got really messed up he posted a myspace bulletin saying to me and three other girls that he was done with relationships (i didnt know there were other girls) and that were just friends. I was so pissed me and my cousin went over to his house and were going to yell at him but when he came out of his house so we could talk i didnt have the courage to yell at him so me and my cousin left. The i sent him an email saying that he thinks its funny to play with girls emotions and that he hurt me. He wrote back that i know nothing about him so there and then another one that said he does like me and that he just got confused. Yesturday he sent me an email saying he wanted to hang out but he afraid he would try and get into aggain he never has by the way. I dont know ehy hes playing these games with me and i dont know what to believe. What do i do?

2007-12-22 14:10:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some advice on what to do about my sister. She is a white 17 year old girl and sometimes she takes a walk at night. (actually, right now. It's 10:04 pm) I'm scared she is going to be kidnapped. My mom sometimes is concerned but says "She'll be find with her cell phone..." I don't think my mom sees the danger in this situation. Not to be raciest, but a few supicious old mexican guys have moved in my neighborhood recently (but we have a pretty safe neighborhood) and i have heard that they like young girls. I am just soo worried and i always try to talk my sister to stop but she wont listen. She always promises (like yesterday) but she is braking it RIGHT NOW!!!

2007-12-22 14:07:58 · 8 answers · asked by marshmellows.rulez 3 in Family

His wife just kicked him out of their house, and he is heartbroken. He is really in love with her, and they have been together for 6 years (married 18 mo). Nothing major happened, basically she is saying that she doesn't love him anymore. Well, I think the exact words were "I can't stand to be with you anymore." What a B! It's three days before Christmas!! So anyways, please give advice of what I should say to him and how I can support him through this rough time. :(

Thanks!

2007-12-22 14:07:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do i need help or just go with the fetish thing

2007-12-22 14:06:28 · 7 answers · asked by balloonbusternz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

life in middle school - especially 7th grade is so hard for me!

i have these 2 great friends named .. brooke and cassie
we brooke and cassie used to be bestfriends but lately their relationships has turn very .. badly.
so brooke was done w/ this whole relationship and talking bad things about cassie. but they just hungout yesterday and now their like " bestfriendforever" thing. im happy that their friends again but it just bothers me how fake she can get.
its not my problem so i shouldnt butt in but its getting on my last nerves.
should i tell cassie that brooke talks about her? or should i not..
is this normal 2 happen to a 7th grade girl?

2007-12-22 14:05:19 · 11 answers · asked by jz limmers ;] 1 in Friends

because i haven't met one yet.

2007-12-22 14:05:16 · 45 answers · asked by snowangels 2 in Singles & Dating

People can be so mean on yahoo answers....

:(

I'm going to be alone this christmas...
...but it's okay. Teddy bears don't hug back, but sometimes they're the only things you have, right?

2007-12-22 14:03:46 · 10 answers · asked by Not A 3 in Friends

Hello everyone.
Finally my immature 50year old husband left today for the second time to Europe, this time he sai for good. He left the divorce procedure up to me. We were married for two years and it was a second marriage for both of us. He is a nice man, but has drinking habbits, a big ego, and is very stubborn and won't change his ways. I on my end, never saw myself as a doormat, so I won't put up with him. All our talks to save this marriage didn't help.
At the end we both cried, kissed and he asked not to give up yet. I think he is trying to teach me a lesson, by leaving me during the Christmas time. Well I am too old for that.I love him, but I don't want to waste my remaining years arguing and fighting, life is too short. The way his behivior is "Never say Never, meaning we might have another chance. I am wondering should I keep in touch with him, or be strong and move on with my life? I am hurt, devastated, please any feedback will be very helpfull

2007-12-22 14:01:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For some reson I am able to talk to people who I hate but people who I don't hate I feel weird about talking to them. How can I get past that???? I am sooooo sadd!!!! :((

2007-12-22 13:55:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 13:54:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you do that? If I do it in reponse to her request, then she will dismiss it because she told me to show her that I love her; i.e., it wasn't on my own initiative. What does she mean? What obvious or subtle way is she talking about? Women, what "code" is going on here?

2007-12-22 13:52:45 · 11 answers · asked by frippilla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok heres the deal this girl is about 9 months older than me and i AM 15. she usually dates guys alot older than her and just broke up with her 20 year old boyfriend. Her best friend told me that she would go out with me if she wasn't dating the other guy and now she isnt. We had a winter formal last nite and i wasent going to go but she really wanted me to go so we went together. The first part she seemed like she was having fun but the last hour or so she barely even looked at me. There was a guy there who she use to like alot but they never dated. He kinda screwed around with her they have held hands and he has gotten really close to her but they never dated made out or anything like that. He is moving away but he will still be around or school alot all though he wont be attending school with us. Me and this girl had been friends but never really gotten this close until this year. She got me a nice shirt for my birthday and she might give me something that she had for her old

2007-12-22 13:50:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when a guy friend says he is comfortable hanging out with you that he is happy and relaxed when spending time with you? does he likes you too?

2007-12-22 13:49:30 · 6 answers · asked by blue_angel08 1 in Singles & Dating

keep in mind that he also has 2 nieces older than she is!!

2007-12-22 13:49:21 · 30 answers · asked by amber h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 13:48:22 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So...what is it really? Always lack of sex? Being beat down mentally? Details please...

2007-12-22 13:48:13 · 9 answers · asked by Stacies Mom 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-22 13:47:19 · 8 answers · asked by chae 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy who im really good friends with even when he was dating his old gf! im the reason why he broke up with her but were not dating at all although when ever i see him i always kiss or we makeout. well anyways i know he likes this other girl who he dated freshman year and i know he cant pick between her and me . so i just dont know what to do! i mean i dont have a prob. with the other girl i just want to date him you know!! what should i do?

2007-12-22 13:45:21 · 15 answers · asked by puppylove12_2 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy, and im almost certain he likes me too, we talk almost daily and when we do we laugh a lot. What can i do thats SUBTLE that will let him know i like him too, and will let him know he can make a move or something like that

2007-12-22 13:44:18 · 3 answers · asked by Sushilove 2 in Singles & Dating

If a man and woman marry but she has a child already (who she is the primary caregiver for) and wants to change the childs last name to her new husbands does the childs real father have to agree? Or does she just switch it over? And if her new husband wants to adopt the step child as his own is that only possible if the real dad relinquishes his rights as the dad?

2007-12-22 13:39:18 · 8 answers · asked by charli_red1218 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Why would anyone get pregnant by a man who has children by multiple women. I work with a gal who has just had a baby with a black man and he has 7 children with multiple other women. What happens? Are they just too stupid to use birth control?

2007-12-22 13:36:17 · 13 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

i havent gotten any calls from my friends wishing me a happy bday.
i dont expect gifts
i just wanted a call from them.
theyre my BEST friends.
none of them called.
how can i let them know how hurt i am without making a really big deal out of it?

2007-12-22 13:34:55 · 9 answers · asked by . 4 in Friends

we have been going out for 4 months, and his ex gf just came back 2 work in october, and she was gone 2 rehab after the broke up in May. We all work 2gether, n he started this whole drama, n he got in troubel at work about her, but he says he hates her! Im not worried about her, bc she doesnt call him or anything and he doesnt call her thank god which im sure is due to teh fact that he is stubborn. But lately ive been noticing him staring at her at work. He doesn't think i know but my friend told me, n now i have been noticing. Why is he doing that? ps-i asked him about this n he thinks im crazy n he claims he hates her

2007-12-22 13:34:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i dont know where to start!

i met this bloke a few weeks ago-he lives relatively far away so i have only seen him 3 times.

i am 24 and have had MANY failed relationships (mostly due to me getting bored!!!!)

but with this new bloke i feel ''different'' there seems to be something special about him and i cant put my finger on it but i really like him-my friends cant believe i actually like some1 as normally i am not that bothered!!!

when i think about my feelings for him i get tearful/worried that things will go wrong and im scared because i haven't ever felt like this before!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP, whats going on!!!!

2007-12-22 13:32:33 · 11 answers · asked by BscHons 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm a pretty sarcastic guy and well thing is if people don't get my jokes or when I'm sarcastic, well could be a problem, i'm just trying to have a little fun

recently there has been a little awkwardness between my friend and i and we almost even stopped texting each other but that didnt happen and she asked me by text if i had any plans for break and i told her playfully nope i dont have any plans what so ever, none, zero zip and even added a lol and then asked her what shes been up to and done anything fun lately and teased her about studying for school next qtr because shes a book worm.

she hasnt responded yet which makes me think she probably didnt find it funny, thought i was weird. what do i do? just wait til she responds right? i dont think shes my type for some reason, needs to loosen up!

thanks.

2007-12-22 13:31:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Believe me when I say that I've tried all the free online searchs that didn't leave me with much information. Now I am desperate and am thinking that I might have to break down and pay to find this person but I'm afraid I will not get current information. Has anyone had an real luck locating people when you paid for the online people finding services?

2007-12-22 13:28:29 · 6 answers · asked by PrettyBrownEyes 1 in Friends

We have been going out for 10 months he is 23 and I'm 20. We both have jobs and we have a very stable relationship. Now I know for sure that he is my significant other half, we are so similar and think alike aswel. I am ready to spend the rest of our lives together. Now we have talked about moving in together in a couple of months, but he is not sure, He says he thinks it will take the fun out of seeing if we could live together when we are married, I also told him that it will be a good way to see if we will be able to live together for the rest of our lives, but he asked me if I don't think that we will be able to live together, so I said to him No I believe we will be able to live together for the rest of our lives. He wants me to tell him why I think it is a good idea to move in together, any ideas please?

2007-12-22 13:28:26 · 28 answers · asked by anonomous 2 in Singles & Dating

I am the only person that my boyfriend can stand up to it seems. We've been together for almost 2 years. There have been girls that have tried to break us up, and instead of being assertive and telling them to back off and letting them know they're disrespectful he just avoids them. Towards his friends, he lets them call him his little ***** and stuff and walk all over him. Towards me though, he stands up for himself a lot. He has called me a ***** before; if something bothers me he tells me that I need to deal with it; he's hung up the phone on me; he's never done that to anyone but me. He says that it's my fault that he's mean to me, that I bring that out in him. Why is it he is like that towards me, but towards anyone else, he lets them walk all over him?

2007-12-22 13:25:38 · 22 answers · asked by LateBloomer 2 in Singles & Dating

my father sometimes calls my by the name wanger which i believe means wanker, is tht normal?? do i take it as a friendly joking comment or offensive?? :O

like what u doin wanger.. etc.

2007-12-22 13:22:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay so theres this guy..
she used to like this girl a lot.
but she told him that she liked someone else.
and he became sad. and i was there by his side.
because were friends obviously.
and then i kind of started to like him. and hes been giving me more attention more then usual. and stopping by my lockerr..
and talking to me more
and sitting with me at lunchh.
i kind of think hes starting to like me too.
because when we had an assembly he kept on looking at me.
what do you guys think?

2007-12-22 13:18:54 · 23 answers · asked by LEAH 3 in Singles & Dating