Family & Relationships - 22 December 2007

Woman claim they want equal rights like men and fought to make domestic violence against them illegal. Yet women try to justify violence against men and use reasons.
1. Men are stronger than women-If men should not hit back women because they are weaker then at that same logic a 300 pound male should not hit back a 180 pound male and a 300 pound woman should not hit back a wimpy man since the woman is stronger.
2. Women slap because they are more emotional about things.-If this is so true then women should not be leaders since their emotions will intefere with work and cause them stress.
3. Men deserve it when women slap them for calling them a rude name or cheating-I will accept this reason if its vice versa as well.

2007-12-22 14:40:09 · 3 answers · asked by Scott 1 in Singles & Dating

which finger do boys wear their engagement ring??
And which finger does girls wear thier engagement ring??

2007-12-22 14:39:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I really really like this girl, perhaps even love her. She's smart, independent, talented, funny, beautiful, and honest. The problem is she has a boyfriend, and he's a real jerk. He's a druggy, going to community college, and treats her like crap as far as i know. he won't even sit through her concerts. What can i do to get her with me?

2007-12-22 14:39:40 · 13 answers · asked by SG22 3 in Singles & Dating

please help!!!

2007-12-22 14:39:20 · 5 answers · asked by celtic princess 1 in Singles & Dating

we were so happy that night and then next night he told me that he never loves me. i thought it's a joke but it's real.

2007-12-22 14:38:35 · 13 answers · asked by donea 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I started talking to one of the guys i had a crush on about 5 months. he was in between jobs of course that meant he was unemployed i help him get on his feet and child in untill he got on his feet i gave him my car to find a job so he finally got a job now he is acting funny not calling anymore dating other women we never was a couple but we use to do everything to gether we went out town everything his child still comes to my house every week end but he is messing around with some one else he always call me when he need something and he is so sweet

2007-12-22 14:38:26 · 2 answers · asked by SOOTHER81 1 in Friends

when you first met your wife, did you know you wanted to be with her forever? how soon did you bring up marriage? did you ever have doubts or or commitment phobia?
my boyfriend and i are getting pretty serious but he hasn't brought up marriage at all. he's the type of person who likes to live completely in the present and never want to worry about the future. he's an absolutely wonderful guy, the most caring, understanding, sweet, generous person and i think i'd like to be with him for a very long time. its hard to say FOREVER, but i can definitely see myself with him long enough for marriage to brought up. when we were talking about going over to his family's house for christmas i asked if i should get a gift for his parents because i knew they were getting me a gift and he said "no, that feels too weird, like we're married or something" i'm just wondering if other guys go through phases were they don't consider marriage at all. we're both in our 20's by the way.

2007-12-22 14:38:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am terrible at giving.....
Any advice on the situation?

2007-12-22 14:38:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any one had sex with a complete stranger example on a bus in the park.... i want to here your storys

2007-12-22 14:32:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i be sorry?

2007-12-22 14:32:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So this person has been living with us for a while now, and for what I cannot understand, my Mother will not ask this person to leave. They are verbally abusive to my sibling (they both are expecting a child together next month) and loves to belittle others without a care in the world. My Mother relates to me how much she dislikes this person, etc., but refuses to kick them out. She's as friendly as pie with this person to their face, but only around me vents about how much she cannot stand this person. I only wish my Mother would stand up to this person and be truthful with her feelings and tell them to move out. This person likes to say things under their breath about me or the rest of my family and is the most venomous person I have ever had to deal with. Doesn't help much that I can in no way afford to move out either. I have tried ignoring this person, because if I didn't, I'd probably hit them, nevertheless, this only seems to egg them on more. What else can I do to deal?

2007-12-22 14:31:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-22 14:31:27 · 8 answers · asked by Marlon! 2 in Singles & Dating

I told Stacii her soon to be husband was cheating with our "friend" Erika... Now Stacii is mad at me. Even though Erika announced it was true and now she's having his baby..What a mess.... I told them all to leave me alone and stay away from me..I could not take being in the middle any longer. Do you agree with me..? What would you have done?

2007-12-22 14:30:37 · 54 answers · asked by It wasn't me... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I really need help on telling this really hot dude that im like in love with him but i dont know how? Im one of those girls who just stands in the corner and is very quite and shy.

2007-12-22 14:29:26 · 11 answers · asked by Nessy 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, I love my gf so much, I want to spend the rest of my life with her..and she treats me so well. The problem though is that she is a totally different person when she's drunk. She is so ******* mean to me. Calling me a whore, says that im disgusting and she cant believe she would even touch me! Tells me that she hates me, wants nothing to do with me. That she's moving out, and likes someone else. She is awful!!! When she wakes up, she says she doesnt remember anything. I'm so sick of it but i love her so much. What should i do? Oh, and when we get into these little fights..nothing even happens for her start going off..i dont do anything to cause her to act like that..please give me your advice.

2007-12-22 14:29:09 · 10 answers · asked by redheadchik 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Would you believe a guy who tells you that the one you like is a playa, then asks you for a pic of you naked?
>__>; I find it a lil fishy.......
He sounds like a playa himself and of course, I didn't give him the pic rofl! I wouldn't even give pix like that to the one that I like wth!
What worse, he sweet talked me for like hrs just to get those pix of me...but I'm not those kind of girls...

I don't know...should I stop txting him..?
I had only met him once at the dance with my bestfriend. They are close friends, but doesn't seem like it anymore. I'd only been txting him for 2 days.......I didn't think he'd ask me such a question...

2007-12-22 14:29:04 · 10 answers · asked by 슬픈 1 in Singles & Dating

I love her very much and she has an obsession with me, but, she is in another country. It hurts me to make some one feel bad and she is very sensitive. What can i do?

2007-12-22 14:27:56 · 3 answers · asked by Apollo 2 in Singles & Dating

and how did it work for you

2007-12-22 14:25:44 · 24 answers · asked by Larry B 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy, and we talked for a while and i knew that he had sex with his ex gf.. i thought..actually, i know he was over her.
and so he asked me out on my birthday and we were good for a while. then he started getting mad at me for stupid reason and he also started becoming friends with his exgirlfriend again...and sometimes when i would go see him play soccer, she would be there.... UHM AWKWARD! so yah, then her boyfriend broke up with her, and she was all over MY man...NOT COOL! So I broke up with him the next day.. I dont know if he still likes me, but I want him back! What do i do?!?!?!

2007-12-22 14:25:00 · 4 answers · asked by claudyypoo 1 in Singles & Dating

i need help to tell if a guy likes me
what are the signs?

2007-12-22 14:24:11 · 4 answers · asked by ~KaceyGirl~ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend who I love...but already has a boyfriend. I was hanging out with her and my other friend last night and she was telling me about the other night when she was drunk. Out of nowhere, I just blurted out something like don't drink. I don't know what made me say it with out me even realizing. Then, her and my friend asked me why i didnt like beer/alcohol. I didn't want to say anything, and i didnt, but they kept asking and i just said i dont like it. Before i was born, my dad's sister(my aunt) was killed by a drunk driver. Then, about a year ago, my cousin was in a car with a drunk driver(he may have been drunk too) and they drove into a tree and died. People i love have been affected by alcohol and i dont want it to happen again. I don't know what to tell her to get her to stop, but its not like she has a huge problem. She doesnt really know i love her, and i dont want to say anything like i dont want to see another person i love get hurt(because she doesnt know).Any ideas?

2007-12-22 14:24:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i broke up wit my bf bout a month ago n one of his friends called n asked me if we broke up bcauz he quit his job...... i guess they thought i was wit him 4 his money but we were together way b4 he had a job.

So do all men think women use tem for their money???

2007-12-22 14:22:08 · 4 answers · asked by sexy_lex_07 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 14:20:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We go to a private school and we are both 13. I want to be a good friend and but then i don't know what to do. I mean she is a good friend but she has been through alot during her 13 years and her mom has done the same thing that she is doing. My friend won't even tell her mom and I want to and i tried but her mom just laughed and I tried telling my parents but they won't listen and said yeah right. She only told me and I am not going to tell my other friends cause this friend won't trust me and she made me promise her that i wouldn't tell our other friends. I am scared that she and this guy will waste their life and have a child at just being a child themselves. I really need some advice.Thanks!!!

2007-12-22 14:19:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i think its wierd for a girl giving a boy a hickey......you get hickeys when a boy bites you rigth oh and does it hurt when they bite you how about when your trying to take it off (im asking this cusz my friends boyfriends wants too give her a hickey and shes scared and worried)

2007-12-22 14:18:32 · 9 answers · asked by =]] 3 in Singles & Dating

Its a saturday night. I have to spend the night alone tonight at home. I'm grounded and yeah. So what can I do? I wanna do something fun and something OFF the computer, so any ideas would be great - the best idea 10 pts!

2007-12-22 14:16:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is the brain important? does it matter to you that your woman is smart?

2007-12-22 14:16:20 · 3 answers · asked by Stacies Mom 5 in Singles & Dating

She knows I like her, but she told me she just wants to be friends. I tell her I like her a lot, I always give her a big strong bear hug and kisses to the cheeks. So whats her deal? Why is she hanging out with me if she knows I like her a lot? She even told me once, "you like me too much!!" I told her yea I do. She asked about my past relationships. She knows a lot about me but for some reason I don't know how this girl feels about me. I have a gut feeling she likes me too but she won't say it, or else why would she be hanging out with me. She french kiss me when she wants and won't let me french kiss her when I want. She plays hot and cold with me, sometimes it seems like shes real interested, other times it appears she isn't. The more cold I act to her, the closer she gets, the more I chase her the farther she goes from me. It seems like a fine balance I have to maintain to keep her interest.. How can I get her to open up her feelings to me?

2007-12-22 14:16:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 14:14:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I guess it is very wrong because thats like almost not being friends with someone because they have a disease. But am 20 years old and never had sex to prevent ever having kids by mistake,and the diseases out there. So in my mind I only would date someone who has no kids. He said he has three from another women and he is 23 years old, I have already skipped dating some guy for being 18 with nine exs. already.

But am I right or wrong ?
If am wrong how can I change my thinking?

To me people should wait until there at least 26 to be thinking about kids but thats just my opinion.

2007-12-22 14:12:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating