Family & Relationships - 22 December 2007

um, is it just me or, well, cause my bf is the shy type and i dunno whats going on, i think he's an introvert and he's not telling me whats going on and im worried about him, he wont talk to me, and i know this is so weird but do guys like to be in physical contact with their gf's cause my guy, i just dont understand him!!!

2007-12-22 16:33:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We meet and liked eachother striaght away there was something there. Since then we went out to the beach with his dog snd him and talked for hours about his life and got on came home kissed then went our seperate ways. that night he came over and we slept together since then we talk and go out once week he buys me things and has introduced me to his family and his friends we have also been to partys together. Then he tells me on the other hand to go slow and just be friends for the moment as we both are not ready for relationships as we both where in one with other ppl about 6 months ago.His actions speak louder then his words i really want him and we talked about htis other night and i told him i pray that this might happened and he agreed. so why does he buy me things and introduce me to ppl he is close to if he only wants friendship and sex? Is he wanting me but not wanting it to fast?why introduce me to his mum and dad ?he has also invited me to his place on boxing day why ?

2007-12-22 16:33:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The saying is "if you love someone set them free, if they come back then it's ment to be".
What are your thoughts on this saying?

2007-12-22 16:30:56 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-22 16:29:22 · 8 answers · asked by ames 3 in Singles & Dating

please only answer if your a teen girl.

2007-12-22 16:28:40 · 13 answers · asked by matt briggs 1 in Singles & Dating

My husbands sister and I have had our issues within the past 10 yrs. I am a shy person who is afraid of opening up to someone because I am afraid of being judged or back stabbed. I will refuse to open up to someone unless I feel it is safe and I know that the person is going to be a loyal friend. It took me 10 yrs to open up to my husbands sister and right after a year of me doing so she decides to do the very thing that I was afraid of (back stab me!) She decides to make comments behind my back and judge me. She didn't think I would not find out about the comments, but I confronted her and she admitted to making those comments that I took offense to. Immediately after I found out I just closed up inside and began to realize how dumb it was of me to even trust her. I felt betrayed, laughed at, and plain dumb to even think that she was a sincere friend. It made me so angry at myself because I let her into my world believing that she would do this to me! Now I feel like an idi

2007-12-22 16:23:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am living with a good friend of mine, Ronnie, whom I have known all of my life and his wife, until I can find my own place. Right now I cannot get my own place because I just now started a new job here in Texas. I have been here almost two weeks now, and I have noticed that Ronnie's wife treats him like crap. She is always putting him down, nothing he does is ever good enough for her, any little thing sets her off, she sometimes calls him stupid, yells and cusses at him. Also by having a long talk with Ronnie, he has told me that she has been this way for about 5 yrs now, and that she is getting worse but will not admit that she has a problem. In my own observation, I think she is bipolar, with manic episodes. It hurts me to see him being treated this way and he deserves to be happy in his life. Should he stay in his marriage or should he just go ahead and leave her? If she won't get any help, the marriage will not last.

2007-12-22 16:22:19 · 13 answers · asked by MissBetty50 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For example do you seem to run into jerks, gentle men, nerds, wife beaters, mommas boys, womanizers, players. If you attract the same type of men why do you think this is???

2007-12-22 16:21:33 · 8 answers · asked by starglitty 2 in Singles & Dating

And why would the wife allow this? Is she hoping they will get back together again? The girlfriend does not know he is cheating on her. Should I tell his girlfriend what a pig he is? The wife already knows but doesn't seem to mind. He has 3 kids with the wife and his girlfriend just had his baby. I work with him and he considers me a friend-ugh.

2007-12-22 16:18:28 · 26 answers · asked by scl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've known this guy for about a year and a half now and we both agreed that we were developing feelings for each other. We're good friends and know alot about each other and trust each other. So we took the relationship to the next level. We didnt make it exclusive or anything. Then all of a sudden hes acting distant, not replying to messages, and it seems like hes avoiding seeing me. I know that means theres somethings up, so I'm kind of confused as what to do about it. Should I give him space, but if I do that will I lose him? .....I need advice.

2007-12-22 16:15:03 · 7 answers · asked by ker07 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend just suggested that we go out more but separately I said that is fine I just didnt want her to get drunk out of her mind without me and she said didnt agree with my condition. What should I do I need help.

2007-12-22 16:11:19 · 23 answers · asked by HercaLuis 1 in Singles & Dating

i dress well ,humple i speeks loud ,, frendliy . good income what is my problem they call when they need some thing from me only

2007-12-22 16:11:08 · 5 answers · asked by HalahenA 5 in Friends

2007-12-22 16:03:36 · 18 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5 in Friends

Describe your ideal man if you had to build him from the ground up. His looks, personality, likes/dislikes,the way he talks, how he carries himself, his style sense, how educated he is, everything you absolutely crave in a man. BE HONEST!!!!!

2007-12-22 16:03:27 · 7 answers · asked by Rita K 1 in Singles & Dating

ok.. me and my b/f wher at the movies in line when i noticed something was wrong... so i asked him and he just ignored me. then 5 min later i asked again, he looked up at me and he had tears in his eyes. he said that he has to go back to missouri for christmas to see his mom. (who he hates) so i said ok whats wrong with that. he said he was not worried about his mom, he was worried about his step dad beating him. it took everything i had to stop me from freaking out. so i said well y does he beat u and he said he does it for no reason. he beats him and his 3 sisters. so i just looked at him and said y dont u tell your mom or the cops? and he said he does. his mom does not care and the cops dont do anything. he also said that he has broken his arm,gave him bloody noses,and black eyes. I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO DO AND I AM WORRIED!!!IS THERE ANNYTHING I CAN DO??I DONT KNOW WHAT I WOULD DO IF ANYTHING HAPPEND TO HIM?!?!?!?

2007-12-22 16:01:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Who 'd be the wiser?
You name him/her.

2007-12-22 16:01:01 · 2 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5 in Friends

I have been talking to this girl for about 5 months. And we had alot in common. music and stuff. I asked her out and she didnt give me an answer rite away. So i said "Take your time ok" She said alrite. so i was waiting for a while and couldnt take it. So i went out and bought her roses. 70 dollar roses. And i made sure she was feeling me. Like I asked her the day before if I was cute and she said "yeah" and i asked if she could come up to me and say that she said "yeahhhh" so i had a really good feeling it would work out for me. i sent her the roses and she died. She loved them. She told me it was one of the cutest sweetest things any guy has ever done for her. I said well im just a charmer. She said shed call me after dinner. So i was on AIM talking with her. And i asked her for an answer. She said "NO". And I was devastated. I felt so bad. I wanted to kill myself i felt so bad. And then i said to her if ur with a guy tommorow I'll kill him. Not really meaning it. And she wont speak

2007-12-22 15:58:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like dating can b like double dating, alone dating, group dating

2007-12-22 15:56:57 · 14 answers · asked by Snojack 1 in Singles & Dating

I really don't understand why it takes guys soo long to catch on to things. You can't drop them hints because they just don't get it...ever! why is this... r they dumb?

2007-12-22 15:54:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this incredible guy two years ago. At first he showed the signs that he likes me then i started to like him too. secretly of cource i am waiting for him to tell me first. this kind of relationship had been going on for a year and then we even had a class together and i thought this year he will tell me because we become closer together seeing him everyday for twoo hours in class. but as the semester progresses he is slowly showing no signs of affection to me.instead i witnessed him getting closer to a girl in our class. they are always happy when i see them. this hurts the most really. i feel like he likes me a lot but why did not tell me all these years i have been waiting and all my hopes are crushed. after three years i saw them still together on the mall i thought to myself that could have been me. it really hurts to see it because i regret myself not telling him that i know he likes me and that i like him twoo

2007-12-22 15:53:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok in my last question i was telling u about the guy i like and how he always stares at me but when he sees me staring at him he looks away really fast and yeahh i like him.....ALOT!!!!!!but i have been liking him and waiting for him since august and i have already asked him out but he still wont say yes!!!!what should i do??

2007-12-22 15:50:09 · 5 answers · asked by love stinks 1 in Singles & Dating

it's so frustrating!! omg..i'm almost 16, and she goes thourgh all the stuff in my room. she checks my drawers, clothes, my wallet (she goes through my money, receipts, pics of friends, etc) and she looks at all my pictures that i have in my closet. she also looks through my purse, and she reads my notes from my friends, and she checks the pockets of my school pants and jeans. once she found a pill wrapper in my pocket and went crazy, asking me what kind of pill it was, where i got it from, why i needed it, who gave it to me, etc. also whenever i'm on the comp she always sits by me or constantly walks past me to see what i'm doing on here. whenever i'm on the phone, she tries to listen in on my convo's..
is there anything i can do? i confronted her about it once and she just made up the excuse that she was "organizing my stuff" which is a a complete lie..

2007-12-22 15:49:04 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My parents are very nice educated individuals. They raised me and my sister well and I'm happy to have them. However...recently I brought home a man who I would love to marry once I finish school and raise a family with. I love him for who he is and he makes me happy.

BUT, when he went to meet the parents, he was...who he is which is a person who is not going to put on a facade or front. My mother ended up getting into it with him...because he doesn’t have or want a degree (this is all on thanksgiving as well) and now they do not like him. She called him a "sociopath" and doesn't want me to be with him.

I'm torn.


Have you ever married someone your parents didn't like? Was it worth it?

Please Help!

2007-12-22 15:47:27 · 11 answers · asked by JHammonds 2 in Marriage & Divorce

but its happened some before & he didn't keep that promise.

2007-12-22 15:46:13 · 24 answers · asked by rapunzel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I don't have a car at the moment which sucks but how I am going to take her out? The hole "hey my mom will give us a ride" thing really does not sound good lol

and I am an only child and my cousins are older and have kids and such sooooo am I completely screwed or is it just me?

2007-12-22 15:46:03 · 2 answers · asked by Ghost 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been going out for a year, pretty serious, or so I thought. Well, turns out she signed up for a free dating site called plentyoffish. She met some guy off there behind my back and went out to dinner with him. Didnt tell me and I found out by fluke! She tells me it was just as friends, and that she had told him she had a boyfriend. She also said it didn't feel right so she told him (before I found out) that she didnt think she should see him again. But in the email i saw to him from her, she said she cant wait to see him again, and she countered that by saying she told him after she had sent that. She said that since she moved to a new area where she doesn't know anyone she just wanted to make new "friends". She seemed pretty convincing, but do you guys buy all this, or do you think she was out playing the field looking to upgrade? Would you dump her? Thanks!

2007-12-22 15:43:48 · 21 answers · asked by Jack B 1 in Singles & Dating

And this: She was closest to me still or what? I sort of knew the Cancer and how her son feels as she had a bad cough which I make fun. " One point" we fought after I worked on her Chistmas tree and I went on cleaning the apartment of nicotine, but I wanted to prepare it last Xmas But here 1 thing that brought things on me spending 8 hours a day & she wouldn't date me so I called a g/f on her phone and got to know some of the newone yet I still made smokes for her and people coming in But xmas till May we held our grudges but there was still borrowing of smokes or the littlle favors I did or would do. & she would let me in but I get the smokes & change back and still jump if she need someone to get her a couple of "Cokes" or E-mail to her son's to call her the year prev I had helped her out and worked the keyboard for her youngest child and found rides out of town to see him now to worry after the New Year if she'll still be smoking but both boys have blocked me except the od

2007-12-22 15:43:04 · 5 answers · asked by David H 3 in Friends

Everyone always says they'd like to keep in touch when they don't really intend to. How do you tell someone you want to keep in touch and let them know you mean it, especially if you're not best friends?

2007-12-22 15:42:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anita 5 in Friends

i like this guy that my friend also happens to like. he said he likes me but i kno that he still likes her. we flirt like crazy but idk if i should do anything cuz of my friend and because he cant choose between us. should i go for it or should i foget him?

2007-12-22 15:40:59 · 21 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

my friends say it feels good but i need more of an idea

2007-12-22 15:39:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating