My girlfriend just suggested that we go out more but separately I said that is fine I just didnt want her to get drunk out of her mind without me and she said didnt agree with my condition. What should I do I need help.
2007-12-22 16:11:19 · 23 answers · asked by HercaLuis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no reason to be jealous.. and if she is a smart girl then you shouldn't worry about her being drunk.. yes sometimes drunk people can make poor choices but if she truly cares about you then she wont do anything stupid or cheat on you.. you still know what your doing while your drunk. If my boyfriend ever told me that I couldn't get drunk with my friends then I would probably break up with him. Time with your friends is very important and getting drunk is the best part! Don't be jealous just tell her to be careful and if she needs a ride at the end of the night go get her! Then you can have the best of both worlds she gets to have fun with her friends and you get to see her at the end of the night (while probably taking care of her) lol! but at least you know shes with you and safe.. how would you feel if she told you that you couldn't go out with your guy friends and you knew you were going to do nothing wrong but have a good time.. Don't be jealous over this.. it could break you up.. you need to trust her girls can have fun without cheating on there boyfriends.. i do it all the time and ps girls need girl time just like guys need guy time!
2007-12-22 16:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not be jealous because it makes you seem like you are insecure that she will cheat on you. If you are so concerned, you should not agree with her suggestion to go out separately. Clearly, you need to learn to gain trust in your relationship plus man up and let your girl know how you feel. If you does not respect your opinions even if she disagrees why are you even with her? It just seems lame to me.
You could suggest that if she go out not to go drinking or not to drink too much. To earn her respect follow the same rule this way it wont seem like you are coming down on her. If that seems problematic you should rethink your relationship. Depending on how long you have been together and how long you will choose to settle will ultimately lead you to where you will end up. You have a decision to make, choose wisely!
2007-12-23 00:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by ♥CJ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her more about it.
my boyfriend and i have almost of the situation.
Tell her that you feel uncomfortable with her going out
and getting drunk, its okay if shes just hanging out and
hanging a couple drinks compared to getting drunk
out of her mind. Give her some space but also keep her
close. Example' if she wanted to go to a party and get drunk maybe get someone to look after her to make sure she doesn't do anything that would harm your relationship, or just ask her not to get drunk, and if she wanted to get drunk, go with her. Its better to be safe then sorry.
2007-12-23 00:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would she want to get drunk out of her mind? Every couple needs time apart in order for a relationship to work, it just needs to be a trustful separation.
2007-12-23 00:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by Belle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Going out separate means just that. No conditions attached to it. Sounds to me like she's on the prowl for someone else.
2007-12-23 00:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by mikk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are worried for her safety and that you care about her enough to just ask that she limit her drinking to a reasonable amount when she doesn't have you there to make sure nobody does anything to her. If you two are close enough she should understand your concerns and do her best to accomadate that request for her own safety as well as your piece of mind.
2007-12-23 00:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do nothing, if you say don't get drunk she will come back drunk. Take a picture of her when she gets home and show it her next morning that may help as all women are beauty conscious.
2007-12-23 00:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when i tell guys i would like to go otu mroe without them...it's normally a sign that i am slowly breaking it off with them....but i;m just not sure how to with otu hurting there feelings. So yeah i guess be jealous
2007-12-23 00:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look Man kick her to the curb she sounds like a Chicken Head! Hola!
2007-12-23 00:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by boxnndatol22 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you want a monogamous relationship, and she's looking for a little more freedom. If she refuses to compromise, and you're still looking for exclusivity, it might be time to call it quits. There is no way to force her into doing what you want, and if she isn't interested in what you're interested in, you should look for someone else.
2007-12-23 00:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by Helen 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋