i am 45 i feel that i am not important to my friend even Thu i helps them allot?

Question

i dress well ,humple i speeks loud ,, frendliy . good income what is my problem they call when they need some thing from me only

Answer 1

Uh, learn how to spell.

Answer 2

Your problem is that you give and give and give and never ask for anything in return.
You want your friends too much. You will do anything they ask just to keep your friends. They then take advantage of your good nature.
The next time your friends call and ask for something just say no, but then ask them to do something for you. See what they say.
Me thinks they will say they cannot do it or what ever it was that you asked.
Then you will know for sure if you are important to them or just someone to do things for them.
Dressing humble and speaking loud are not things people like to be around in public. Being too friendly makes people very uncomfortable also.
If your income is as good as you hint, you
should know better than to act like you do.

Answer 3

May be that's way they do it. Because your always helping them . You allow them to use you. What you have to learn is. How to say know! It's hard I know . I have the same problem. I like to please people and make them happy! So lets work on it together! : ) When someone asks us for something we can't do . What should we sayyyy........I'm sorry but, my answer is know !!!!! : ) See you did it !

Answer 4

that sounds like you help them out and they really don't appreciate it.. or they expect it.. if they always ask you to help them .there not friends but more like users.. i would tell them all to get lost and find real friends..

Answer 5

If you allow people to use you they will like a wet towel! Find friends who give to you instead of take, take, take!