I've known this guy for about a year and a half now and we both agreed that we were developing feelings for each other. We're good friends and know alot about each other and trust each other. So we took the relationship to the next level. We didnt make it exclusive or anything. Then all of a sudden hes acting distant, not replying to messages, and it seems like hes avoiding seeing me. I know that means theres somethings up, so I'm kind of confused as what to do about it. Should I give him space, but if I do that will I lose him? .....I need advice.
2007-12-22 16:15:03 · 7 answers · asked by ker07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay friends
2007-12-22 16:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you went to the next level you began to notice things you didn't as friends. Did he always answer your calls or texts when you where just friends?? Maybe nothing has really changed for him and he's possibly regretting that he took it further than friendship. Ask him, remember you where friends first and could talk about anything right? So that should not change no matter what. Good luck
2007-12-23 00:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by Bandrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try to contact him, and subtly let him know you're wondering what he's up to. If he doesn't respond to your subtle clues, then it's time to move onto a different plan of action. Spend your time with other people as well, let him know what it feels like to be in your shoes. This way, if there's another woman then you have a backup plan, and if there isn't then he knows not to treat you that way or he might risk losing you.
2007-12-23 00:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by Helen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH! Well.... at school, give him a note (like in his bag or his locker or something) and then in that letter write someting like "What's happening" or something. Then... just have fun, hang around your friends, and eventually he'll come back, but look very sad that something might be hppening to him!'
Good luck! Hope everything goes wel!
2007-12-23 00:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Awesomenessss <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first, tell him, makes sure he knows that you are feeling pushed away, maybe this was just something that you guys went through, but you don't really like eachother. But then again maybe not..... Make sure that he know's that okay!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-23 00:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by LiiLY PAD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay as friends
2007-12-23 00:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by Meow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to him in person.
2007-12-23 00:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋