Family & Relationships - 22 December 2007

this one girl i was to shy to talk 2 last year in 7th grade but now in 8th im her friend and we have a lot in common and talk like every day. the other girl is new to my town [fairfield] and she is also my friend and we hav not as much stuff in common but we do have a lot of fun round each other. now i dont know who i like more.

2007-12-22 02:40:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend wanted to take a shower with me and were both guys. I never new he was gay. i don't want to hurt his feelings so what should i say? i told him maybe later just so he wouldnt ask again.

2007-12-22 02:38:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

His name is Jordan, and he's in my gym class. He is so sweet to Erin (my best friend ever). For example, he got her a really beautiful ring for her for Christmas. And in gym, he's always talking to me, asking all these questions about my self. I want to tell somebody so bad, but, the secret just ends up going to the one it was about. Me and Jordan have exhanged e-mail, and have IM too. He is so sweet, but he's my best friends boyfriend. Tell me what I should do....!

2007-12-22 02:38:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 02:36:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It was my idea to save ourselves for mariage. But now its been 4 1/2 years & i feel like i am ready to have sex w/him. He says he has no problem with waiting (we r both virgins) but i feel like i want to find out if he will be good in bed BEFORE i make the huge commitment of being married to him. & also the stuff we DO do w/each other has gotten prety routine. He is satisfied but I am not. Has anyone else done this before? How did it work out for you?

2007-12-22 02:35:47 · 33 answers · asked by Angelisurifrie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well the girl i talk about in most of my questions, and how i ask that i should ask her out, well yea should i just stay friends with her bc just to be safe i don't want to get rejected. check out my last question too

2007-12-22 02:31:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...and then spend all night tugging and adjusting like they have fleas? Don't you know that your clothes don't fit before you put them on???

2007-12-22 02:29:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 4 years. Prior to us meeting/dating...he had a female best friend who was married, yet cheating on her spouse with my husband...and he (my husband) cared for her very much....well, let's say A LOT. When my husband met me, his friendship with this girl took a backseat and they haven't spoken in over three years.

My husband's good friend called him up yesterday to share some "spectacular" news....this woman got a divorce from her husband and is now dating my husband's good friend. (The three of them were friends years ago).

So, I'm thinking, greeeeat. I trust my husband, but how will I feel when we hang out, should we ever now. My DH's best friend asked if this was "weird" for him and my husband admitted it was....so that just makes me feel uncomfortable.

Should I just take this in and continue to extend the invite to be social? He is my husband, and I trust him...but I can't help feeling somewhat awkward!

2007-12-22 02:29:35 · 31 answers · asked by Lovin' Life As Mama & Wife 6 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy asked me for my cell phone number on thursday
and i gave it to him
and I've been texting him a lot
and i really like him
well i only have 500 texts a month
and i was already out of about half when i got his number
now i only have about 50 left and my phone month ends in 13
days
if i use my cousins phone 2 text him later
(my cousin has unlimited texts)
will it be weird for him?
will he think i'm obsessed or somethin?
please help!

btw:
he is the one who normally starts texting me
but i always reply
:P

2007-12-22 02:28:22 · 32 answers · asked by Katers 2 in Singles & Dating

how long should I wait before I start dating her?

2007-12-22 02:28:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay yes...awkward. i know but why is this. i also feel like my boobs have been gotten bigger...so why am i getting the sudden urge to do certaint stuff with a guy ;)

2007-12-22 02:27:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am possibly going to start working as a female escort for a very short time to earn quick cash. My main concern is that it will get out in the future and not be kept private. The guy running the service says it will never get out because the clients have more to lose than the girls if it does, and it would also cause a lot of legal issues, that all makes sense but I would never want it to get out at all in the future.

I do not want to hear how it is immoral or wrong, just real answers to the question.

Any escorts that have done it but kept it in the past and private? Do you think it is possible to keep it a secret if you never tell anyone?

2007-12-22 02:27:17 · 14 answers · asked by blue55 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's a girl I like - we're just friends. But she didn't reply to my last text today, asking if she's going anywhere for holidays. Sometimes she's like this though - not replying to texts. But other times she would reply.

Is it bad? What should I do? What should I text tomorrow?

2007-12-22 02:26:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 02:24:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Like OKAY, I might be shyer than my twin sister but that's doesn't mean I'm totally boring. I mean I might not be the most funnest talkative girl in the world but seriously, why did god make me this way? My sister got out of her shyness a little bit I mean she knows what fun is, but me, I'm just a stupid idiot who has nothing fun to talk about, I mean I am fun but my boyfriend's best friend was joking about how He went out with the wrong one. Ugh.. I dunno.. does anybody else find it alot offensive when someone calls you boring? Has anybody ever been called boring?!

2007-12-22 02:22:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He had been hinting around this week that he wanted to sleep at a buddy's house last night. I said I wasn't cool I with it. So he went out last night, never came back home and I called him this morning on his cell to say "Are you alive?" and got all defensive and said he simply never slept, he's been shopping for X-Mas after he went to the bar cause the store are open 24-7. He had told me that today he was going to go shop very early in the morning, but I never thought it would mean he wasn't coming home. I should also note he's never "not" come home before but lately he's been going out a lot. How mad should I be?

2007-12-22 02:21:22 · 25 answers · asked by shortey2424 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what would be the best way...............?

2007-12-22 02:15:32 · 7 answers · asked by atl_red_angel 1 in Singles & Dating

I think that girls don't fart due to evolutionary reasons.

In the caveman days there were 2 types of girls - farting and non-farting.

But the farting ones turned men off too much, so they never reproduced. So their farting DNA was not passed on.

The non-farting ones did attract men, reproduced, so passed on their non-farting DNA.

It's survival of the fittest/non-fartiest.

2007-12-22 02:15:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work really hard and never have any pennies left for myself and he knows this, yet continues to run up huge electricity and phone bills. I have asked him for over a year to find alternative accomodation but he just wont go. I dont cook for him or give him money and he has moved his girlfriend in also. I know he needs to go but how can i force him????

2007-12-22 02:13:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-22 02:12:09 · 11 answers · asked by ethn h 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom n I had probs since I was 8 and her first son went to college. Now im 19 n the household is worse. She argues wit my dad about cheatin n he aint but she is and we got picture proof. she kicked all her kids out da house and dont care bout her grandkids. steals and breaks everyone property of family members. left her brother homeless. she kicked me out May 29th. I miss home. I want my dad and my brothers. its the holidays and i cant do it. i cry myself to sleep. my dad is the only one paying the bills but she wont let me back in da house. it hurts me so much. i miss the old christmases i use to have. when i went home once she called the cops on me. i dont know what to do. can someone give me advice...

2007-12-22 02:10:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i've been dating a 39 year old man. i've learned that he has cheated on every girl he ever dated except the 8 mth relationship before me. he called me three days after that relationship ended and said 'call me, i'm single'. my question is, do you think he has a pattern? is it possible for a person that has always cheated to find 'the one' and settle him? or do you think it will continue to happen. he is constantly talking to women on the phone and email. he has so many email accounts I don't even know how many. eternal bachelor?

2007-12-22 02:04:32 · 4 answers · asked by jolly 1 in Singles & Dating

He stuck it in on a dare and we don't want out parents finding out.

2007-12-22 02:00:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 years. Just recently during intercourse he'll just start all of the sudden laughing. I ask him what hes laughing at and why hes laughing and all he says is it just feels good, but i dont get why he laughs if it feels good? He does it almost everytime if not everytime we are having intercourse. What does this mean? Some please help me i dunno whats wrong. What is he laughing at? I dont understand.

2007-12-22 01:57:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

PLEASE TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I DO????I LOVE HIM BUT DONT WANT TO SHARE HIM WITH HIS SISTER....

2007-12-22 01:54:11 · 4 answers · asked by ast 1 in Singles & Dating

This morning, I received a Christmas card from a guy that used to be my friend a very long time ago, but not anymore. The thing is, I always knew he wanted more than friendship, but he accepted that we could only be friends. However, I had to end our friendship when he became very obsessed and clingy towards me. He also used to send me text-messages telling me that he had no reason to live, except to look after me and he needed me to live, etc. I got freaked out by it and had to end our friendship. I thought I was free of him now and I've been happy since, but this morning, I received a Christmas card from him and it's made me feel really uncomfortable that he's still thinking about me.

What should I do? Bin the card and ignore it or post it back? I really just want him to FORGET about me and leave me alone. I wish I'd never met the guy. I wish he'd just leave me alone. My best friend and cousin are supporting me but even they can't do anything.

2007-12-22 01:52:05 · 16 answers · asked by highland_white_wolf 2 in Friends

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2007-12-22 01:51:57 · 6 answers · asked by Lovebear 1 in Friends

Me and my ex girlfriend bought a car together year and a half ago we traded her car for the new one. I pay for it. We have now split up. Who does it belong to? I'm the primary borrower and she is the co-borrower.

2007-12-22 01:50:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-22 01:50:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so there is this kid that attends my high school. Hes not the best looking guy but hes good enough for me. I've known him since we first started high school and now im in 10th grade. We are friends and i have a class with him. Though we dont speak to each other a lot. Just a conversation every other day. I really like this kid and i want to tell him but when this other girl i know told him that she like him last year he just said pain out no to her and said he was sorry. I dont want to get rejected by this kid. For that is one of my biggest fears. So should i tell him or should i just keep it to myself.

2007-12-22 01:49:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating