well the girl i talk about in most of my questions, and how i ask that i should ask her out, well yea should i just stay friends with her bc just to be safe i don't want to get rejected. check out my last question too
2007-12-22 02:31:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea but if i get rejected then there is no other girl i like so now that would be bad
2007-12-22 02:39:07 · update #1
You only live once. Don't live with regrets. Ask her out. If she rejects you, then move on. Life is too short to obsess about things that you cannot change.
2007-12-22 02:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you go through life not wanting to be "rejected" you may as well just live in a closet!
So what if she says she can't go out, that does not reflect on you at all. But what if she says yes?
Stop living your life out of fear of rejection or you will be a very unhappy person. Deal with rejection when it comes and move on, that is life. A persons opinion of you should not make you scared (unless you are a real scum, which I am sure you aren't : )
Just do it, ask her; "so what are you doing _________"? Remember this is very close to Christmas, so she may have plans with family, keep that in mind too.
2007-12-22 10:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask this girl out; don't end up regretting that you were able to. You'll get over rejection soon enough. If you tell her your feelings, even if she doesn't like you, she still might be your friend. At least try.
2007-12-22 10:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by Edward 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything worth having has a degree of risk, so you have to decide if the potential for this relationship is worth the risk of rejection. If you go through life afraid to take risks, you are not likely to have many of life's great joys either.
2007-12-22 10:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kid just ask her out u have one life and bein rejected isn't that bad and if u liked her then u would go for it!!! ok so just do it ok cuz u might not get this chance again but if u do ask her out do it in person cuz she will rly like that and think u have the balls to ask her out( unlike some other jerks)
2007-12-22 14:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by ♥~MANDA~♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared for her to say no so that you won't be disappointed...maybe you could write her a card expressing how much she means to you and that you don't want to damage the friendship (give her an easy out so it won't be wierd after). It sounds like she likes you a lot too so I say GO FOR IT! Good Luck and I hope she says YES!
2007-12-22 10:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends so sit her down and talk to her. tell her you have feelings for her and wondered if she feels the same. you might be surprised with what she has to say
2007-12-22 10:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋