Family & Relationships - 22 December 2007

When I was a kid, our house was ALWAYS so clean and nice.Now that Ia m grown I can never keep it clean at all. Its really bad. clothes on the floor, dusty, etc...I have one child and I spend time with her. hubby is out working and or school.My daughter and I go to school too(3x a week). Friday started xmas vacation.I am also a stay at home mom.how can I keep it clean????

2007-12-22 06:00:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is a guy that I am friends with. We are really nice to each other. he always makes me happy. I have thought of him as a brother...but I guess he thought of me different

I think he thought I liked him because I am really nice and joyful when with him.he used to be really nice to me and would make me laugh a lot.

he got his friends (mine too) to ask me out for him..and I said no (bluntly) because like I said, he is like a brother. his friends started joking and saying "he thinks he can get with you" so I was pissed. I thought he just wanted to be friends to get with me.

I didn't act any different around him (to keep our friendship) he has been not acting like he used to around me..i mean if I go up to him and start talking to him he will be nice.but he never comes to talk to me anymore..its only rarely he will act like he used to...do you think i hurt him?

2007-12-22 05:59:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I bought a nice clothes as a Christmas gift to my dear wife who was 23 years younger than I. I said we should dinning on Christmas eve. Weather report predicated 22nd Dec. 1997 was Onino cold day. I told her that it was becoming very cold, she should wearing overcoat not that jacket I bought her, but she was too young to take my advice. She left our room for office. And after some 15 minutes I receive her call from hospital. She rode bicycle roughly against the cool wind whithout hat. Her artery of her top head broke. In hospital 43 days, finally she went to Heaven at age 45, leaving me a daughter and a son. Please pray for her that she might ascendent to God the earlier. Thanks

2007-12-22 05:48:41 · 15 answers · asked by freshman 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex wife cheated on me with 3 men at one time. I caught her in the act. I filed for a divorce in Feb. She got pregnant in March. Took me to court for child support I told the judge it was not mine. I was not living with her or near her at the time this happened. I got the divorce final in August. And now I am stuck paying child support for a child that is not mine. I cant afford a DNA test to be done so I am going through DSS for help. What else can I do? My ex wife admitted she had a "current boyfriend" at the time she was doing the testing. I just need to know what my next step is to take here...

2007-12-22 05:44:22 · 23 answers · asked by lil1woman79 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I felt sooo much more love when we dated. I didn't want for much and I never questioned his love for me it was that obvious but now that we've been married for 2 years I fell like
less of the woman I came in as. I feel soo unattractive like a piece of meat just there to be devoured whenever he likes.
the affection is not the same and I know its not because of how I look yes I have gained a few pounds more that when we dated but so has he and there really is no drastic difference in my appearance.I get the same if not more of a reaction from single and married men so I know im still working it in the looks department. HELP!!!!!

2007-12-22 05:44:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Someone said to me that they wanted to give me a Dirty Sanchez and i have no idea what that is. Please help?

2007-12-22 05:42:42 · 4 answers · asked by schizoid 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont smoke, cant stand to be around the smoke..couldnt imagine living with a smoker although both my parents smoked when I was a child.

2007-12-22 05:39:18 · 10 answers · asked by fgdhfghr 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

We let out brother in law move in so we could help him out , the day he moved in he quit his job and started letting his girlfriend stay the night everynight , he hasnt paid us a dime in rent and doesnt clean up after himself , I have a baby on the way and my husband works 18 hours a day . To make the situation worse he spends all his money on beer and leave beer cans everywhere , he parties everynight and keeps us up and he invites people we dont know over to our house , he has a daughter who lives with his parents and he hasnt seen her once since he moved in with us , he gets food stamps every month but eats all our food and when we run out he doesnt buy new groceries instead he goes out and buys steak dinners and eats with his girlfriend right in front of us . We asked his parents what we should do and they basically told us it was our problem and that he wasnt moving back in with them , We want to kick him out but he has no where to go . What the heck should I do ?

2007-12-22 05:39:12 · 8 answers · asked by applesauce 1 in Family

ok so my boyfriend and i have been having problems latley like BIG problems there's always yelling and screaming when we're alone but at school with friends we sorta pretend everything is ok. And all the fighting is about the stupidest things like i couldn't go to dinner with him one night cause i had made plans with friends so i suggested we do it the next night and he started yelling at me about what is he suppose to give up football and his friends when i won't do that for him or w/e cause i completley forgot he had practice. And latley all I've been doing is crying which i like never do

so i just wanna know is this sorta thing normal or is like done for us?

2007-12-22 05:38:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my husband the most. we r married for 1 year. He seems to have no interest in sex from beginning. Reason is he has been mastrubating differently from beginning. I am getting fed up of him as he is not having sex with me at all. Spoken abt this loads of time with him. We always end up in fight in this issue. Any ideas how to improve my sex life?
P.S: In everything else, he is lovely and I cant think a life without him.

2007-12-22 05:31:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was talking with this woman ( I guess it was a woman) she said she has to walk 11 miles, her and her brother to use internet.She said her brother was kidnapped by lender's one time until they square them away with debts.This lady @ internet cafe where she was using computer @ was demanding her to pay up for her service's with internet.This person has been wanting me to send money every week to pay her debts.For her medicine, internet,etc...etc. She has been sending me IM's saying that she is my wife and I'm suppose to help her.She told me her mother asked me to send $500.00 to pay for her medicine and medical needs. I told her I wasn't a rich American and then that was when the mess hit the fan!! She started calling me virus sender etc...etc everything under the sun.Her and her family is suppose to run a Christian Ministry in Trichy.Tamil Nadu.Beware of this person if you come in contact with her. I'm about 90% sure this is fraud.Mostly Nigerian and Eastern Europe do these things.

2007-12-22 05:30:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 05:28:20 · 15 answers · asked by kimberly k 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 years now and he used to be so sweet and queit and treat me real good he used to call me beautiful/sexy everyday but now its like he changed to someone else hes very open,loud,bossy,demanding sometimes.he looks at others chicks in front of me and it hurts me i know all guys do it but still.He rough he has never hit me but he playful does but i don't like it.He just seems like an asshole and i want the old boyfriend back.Please give me some advice why does he act like this now???

2007-12-22 05:28:08 · 4 answers · asked by blastxgirl1820 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When i go out, i start to look at mature women more especially those well dressed, pretty n sexy ones. can anyone answer me y?

2007-12-22 05:24:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if so ;why do you let it happen .

2007-12-22 05:22:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I told this girl that I can't go to her sweet 16. Before this, she calls me about 40 times a day, but what makes her think that me not picking up the first 3 times, I'l pick up the next 40?

I don't want to go to her sweet 16. Damnit, why is it so hard to understand. Her friend likes me, and I don't like her. That's prob the reason why she invited me. Now her sister is calling me, and I again, wont pick up the next 500 times. She's saying shes gnna punch one of my friends because she thinks I talk to her on the phone all day, when all I do is text her.

Now they are trying to bribe me, "go to my sisters party, or else I will have to deal with you later"


It like voice mail after voice mail. I don't want to go into a cursing frenzy on the phone, especially right now. For gods sake, why the hell did I give her my number.

what do i do?

2007-12-22 05:22:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

referring to me? The bathroom tile looks pretty clean.

2007-12-22 05:21:55 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My family has gone insane. They started having fights against each other. There are two sides: my grandfather's and grandmother's. They always try to drag their grandchildren into their battles. I try to get everyone to talk it out. However, they all speak a native tongue that I don't understand. HELP!!!

2007-12-22 05:20:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a question would it be inappropriate for me to confront my mother in law about the way she talks to my husband and the way she treats him!! She treats him like ****!!! Would it be wrong of me to get involved??

2007-12-22 05:18:26 · 32 answers · asked by Blah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok a few months ago i split fron my boyfriend. Weve been 2geva loads of times but i just dont feel the same way as what i used 2!! Last nyt he kept ringin me askin 4 me back and sayin reli sweet tgings like ur the onli girl i can see myself with and that hes not happy when hes not with me. i feel really bad and he sed hes ringing me 2nyt. i dont kno wat 2 do!! help plzz. how can i let him down gently? x

2007-12-22 05:06:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

On a scale of 1-10 in regards to attractiveness, I guess I would rate myself with an 8. It flatters me that at my age, I still get guys of different ages to look at me, but somehow it makes me feel uncomfortable when I know that guy is married. I just ask myself, why r u looking at me like that when we both know ur married? Especially at work.

2007-12-22 05:02:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm in 8th grade and your all gonna thinnk me and myy boyfreind are crazy but we want to spend the rest of our life together and someday get maarried....can any of you please give me some advice and tips on how to do my part in this realatioship by trying to keep use together for such a long time


should we keep a pure realatiohship??? if so how pure....like what should we do and not do????


just give me tips please and some tips for me to tell m boyfreind would also be really great!!! :)

2007-12-22 04:59:05 · 3 answers · asked by got.to.get.over.him. =] 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm going out with my best guy friend. we are both 13. and everything was great with us but now he's started to ignore me. i call him sometimes; but he never answers. and he doesnt make an effort to talk to me at school. it seems like hes ignoring me. ive also just found out that one of my friends {who is also his good friend} likes him. and we were supposed to go out tonight but he hasnt call me back for like a week. so idkk what should i do? or whats his problem?

2007-12-22 04:58:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We want eachother so bad we are both in relationships, he only wants sex but i have strong feelings for him, i know its a waste of time, it can't go anywhere as he will never change. If he can cheat on her he'll do it to me. I don't want to fall for him my head tells me this but my heart wont listen. My boyfriend is loving loyal and caring i know nothing good can ever come with the other guy but i feel what i feel. I want to, need to see him but it's the holidays so i can't. I feel so sad. Do you think your head can over rule your heart?

2007-12-22 04:58:09 · 25 answers · asked by honey 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I are most likely going to the same college next year. I want to room with her, but she doesn't. She is afraid that if we room together we won't be friends anymore. I think we will be fine, but I can't convince her. Should we room together?

2007-12-22 04:56:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anna Banana 1 in Friends

For my bf's B-day i gave him 20 bucks because
i couldn't give him anything because
the roads were icy.I was going to give a skateboard but i couldn't.
Todays my friends b-day party
and i just got her a gift card.
I feel bad
because
i can't them real gifts.
I am a good friend and a gf,
but i still feel bad.
Do you think that i have a reason to?

2007-12-22 04:52:56 · 2 answers · asked by Webkinz ROCK 2 in Friends

I tried going on a dating site & wasn't allowed because of my age. Its really frustrating cos I need to get over my ex bf. What do I do?

2007-12-22 04:42:36 · 14 answers · asked by Osie 1 in Singles & Dating

i met this girl in college 2 years ago, At that time i had a big crush on her and I still do, so i sent flowers on her birthday two years ago. , but i dint have my name on them she called me and thanked me for the flowers at that time, But nothing serious happened between us, we took a few courses together after we met, Recently she told me that she thinks i am cute, and that she had a crush on me the first day of class but she had to stop after learning that i was a Muslim. Couple day ago i was online and she asked me when my birthday was, i told her that it passed, and she asked me if i was going to send her flowers for her birthday, I was like how about red roses this time, and she told me that she likes Pink roses. .And she invited me to her b-day party which was yesterday, so I went and she was there with 3 other girls no boys, she was nice to me, then after the club, I was driving home and I text messaged her “saying text me when you get home please”. Then she responded an hour later saying that “I am home, thank you for being there, Gosh too bad we are different religions otherwise I would date u”. I didn’t ask her for a date or anything. Is she trying to tell me something? This was the only time we actually hung out, out of class and I had not seen her in a while. But we have always been keeping in touch over msn. What should i do? Her roses will be delivered today with a message saying
“I saw these roses and, even though they were beautiful, nothing can compare to the beauty i see in you”. Was sending the roses a mistake? Is she telling me to stay away from her by getting religion involved? I didn’t ask her if she would like to date me.

2007-12-22 04:39:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you make someone jealous, does it backfire??????

What are your personal experiences???

Thank you!!!!

2007-12-22 04:38:10 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ღαsнℓэч vαиэssαღ♥™ 4 in Singles & Dating

I have recently realized from reading all these questions and answers that there are so many confused people out there. And they seem to be most confused about love and their spouses. I'm not knocking those people because I am currently one of them.
I just don't understand how people's feelings can change so fast. Why are people constantly falling in and out of love with each other? Why don't people stick around and try to work out their problems anymore? And if someone REALLY loves you, how is it so easy for them to be without you?

2007-12-22 04:34:36 · 9 answers · asked by UT_VOLS 2 in Other - Family & Relationships