Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 years now and he used to be so sweet and queit and treat me real good he used to call me beautiful/sexy everyday but now its like he changed to someone else hes very open,loud,bossy,demanding sometimes.he looks at others chicks in front of me and it hurts me i know all guys do it but still.He rough he has never hit me but he playful does but i don't like it.He just seems like an asshole and i want the old boyfriend back.Please give me some advice why does he act like this now???
2007-12-22 05:28:08 · 4 answers · asked by blastxgirl1820 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
theres a time when every one realizes who they are as a person. maybe he's finally found himself and he turned into an asswhole. just let em go and find someone who treats you better. maybe he'll change after you leave
2007-12-22 05:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by bruwnie92027 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A textbook abuser in the making. They are extremely charming at first, loving, seem like the perfect boyfriend. But once they get very settled into the relationship, their real self emerges. They become controlling, possessive, angry, critical and mean. The playful hitting is a huge red flag. Regular guys don't do that. This is a precursor to real hitting.
I'm very concerned about this - please get out of this relationship before it's too late.
2007-12-22 06:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thrill is gone.
If you are both out of high school and have been dating that long, and he still has not asked you to marry him, then YOU need to move on.
No point in wasting your time with a twit you have clearly outgrown.
There are considerably better and more mature fish in the sea.
2007-12-22 05:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar boat. I wish I could help but I'm confused myself.
2007-12-22 06:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋