Family & Relationships - 22 December 2007

well,2 start with,i toatlly have no respect 4 my dad coz the thing he did 2 me.i dont wanna tell what he did 2 me bt it was terrible.that was ages ago bt i cant seem 2 wipe away da memories.our relationship has been really rocky 4 ages.its only gotten worse n we fight like 5 times a day.now hes suggested that i move 2 my grandmas place.im 16 by da way.hes this gr8 guy outside with all da neighbours n frnds n my teachers bt hes a completely different charachter with the family.everybody[outsiders] tell me what a gr8 guy he is.
now even when he tells me something 4 my own benifit,i dont feel like listening 2 him.i admire him bt i dont really like him.
sometimes hes nice n selfless bt thats rare.am i misunderstanding him n causing 2 him behave in a bad way?
bt he even reminds me that hes paying me 4 my education n stuff n that is really sickening..
or am i just a really ungrateful compalining daughter?sometimes i fell i really hate him.
desperately need serious answers.pls help

2007-12-22 03:56:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-22 03:56:38 · 23 answers · asked by arrinne 1 in Singles & Dating

i am damn sincere to him,and i do everything to make him happy and to take care of him.but he never reacts,still says he loves me.should i leave him or..any suggestions

2007-12-22 03:55:59 · 16 answers · asked by esha 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 14. i had a "kind-of" boyfriend already. But it was never made official.

2007-12-22 03:54:47 · 20 answers · asked by welovethegypsy 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi we currently live in a 4 bedroom house and I am 5 1/2 months pregnant with triplets and we have three kids Tyson ,6 Hayden and Ella, 4 & 2 1/2 + a neice and nephew whom we are adopting Kaya, 4 and Nic, 2. How should I divide the rooms up? We are thinking about adding on a nursery and another bedroom.

2007-12-22 03:54:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

about their experience with a man that they just made love to? Do you tell your friends about it?

2007-12-22 03:53:54 · 10 answers · asked by rockwynd1 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 16 and my brothers 18 and were the only two plonkers who didn't turn up on the guest list. She said she didn't want us to go because she wasn't invited (it was my cousins 24th b-day party and only the kids were invited). She said no to us both and then she expected us to sit at home for the whole evening and be nice to her. This is totally unreasonable. Today we had a row about it (I know its stupid because its only a party) and she said I was becoming slutty because I wanted to go to a party. WTF?

2007-12-22 03:52:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Basically.. I like this boy and he really likes me coz he tells me all the time but i keep pushing him down becoz he is my ex's best mate, but i really like him. I still have small feelings for my ex and i no if i go out wiff his best mate he will hate me forever! but he kinda did the same fing to me, but i made him stop the relationship he was about to begin wiff my best friend, i feel like i should go ahead wiff it coz he did the same to me and he's been treating me like **** so why not? but i dont want him to go mad and do the worst :| HELP!

2007-12-22 03:52:40 · 7 answers · asked by La LA 1 in Singles & Dating

yeah there's this girl at my school who's really pretty, and i like her because she is so caring for others and so sweet, and the thing is that i think she likes me back!
When we are in class, she kinda looks at me then i look back and then she smiles and turns.
What should i do!? we are friends but, what if i ask her out?
What do you think? i really need girl advice

2007-12-22 03:52:07 · 14 answers · asked by Luigisf 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 03:51:40 · 3 answers · asked by SHIVA 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

There Is This Girl In My Class Who I Really Like But She Does Not Like Me. What Should I Do?

2007-12-22 03:50:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Garbage gets thrown out and stays out!

2007-12-22 03:49:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do u have any pet peeves in girls?
like her wearing makeup, eating too slow, not getting ready in time, stuff like that

2007-12-22 03:49:39 · 9 answers · asked by shoes=life 2 in Singles & Dating

I just can't control my temper. I hit my younger brother who has Down's Syndrome when he doesn't listen to me. I have kicked his legs, slapped his face, punched his arms, and shouted at him. He just cries, but still won't listen. I always feel awful after doing these things to him, and I make up for it by buying him things or food that he likes. The thing that makes me so guilty is that he doesn't hit me back and he doesn't get mad. I don't want to hurt him again, but I just have a very bad temper. :(

2007-12-22 03:49:20 · 10 answers · asked by noanswer 3 in Family

2007-12-22 03:49:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i have this 'best friend'
well at least thats what she thinks
i seriously think shes is freaking psycho shes obsessed with her bf and shes always making me be their freaking messenger!

thats all she freaking cares about is her fcking bf
i dont even know what to do anymore

its like the only reason we are friends is because i talk to her bf for her when they have problems and she talks about him all the time she never shuts the fck up about him!


what would you do in this situation?

2007-12-22 03:47:55 · 8 answers · asked by jolie. 1 in Singles & Dating

I think it was Paul McCartney's second wife, she got like 400 millin dollars or something after only 2 years of marriage! Does anyone know? Do you know of any other high-paid exs?

2007-12-22 03:47:01 · 2 answers · asked by primalclaws1974 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a guy and lots of people i know just come up to me and touch my breast. wth is up with that?

2007-12-22 03:45:36 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the first 3 months of coming back to school I was bullied by this girl who played with my mind by being really nasty to me and was really nice to my two best friends, both of my friends knew she was doing this and they still where best friends with her, she didn't stop with her games and my "friends" still didn't stick up for me. I got really low so I went to see my head of lower school and she got things loking more optimistic, I was going to move to the other side of my year and be in totally different classes to them, I do have a lot of friends in my side but I didn't feel there was any other choice. My 2 friends weren't really bothered but everytime I went to see my head of lower school they quizzed me about when I was going to move,, then one day one of my "friends" just started on me saying oh just shut up and stormed off, my other "friend" straight after her. It's been about a month since then and I've got some really good friends in my side of the year that have..

2007-12-22 03:42:26 · 9 answers · asked by ωєℓѕн 4 in Friends

2007-12-22 03:42:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 2 kids my boyfriend and I have lived together for a year now and we have talked seriously about getting married and buying a house and having a child together so much we thought of names, I know he really wants a child of his own and to be a father that is why it shocked me so much when he said this " If we stay together I don't want to have children with you, because it will take all the fun out of it because you have already had 2 and I’ll be discovering new things that you already know.. And it just wouldn't be any fun" but he not 100 % sure that’s just how part of him feels he says he still loves us and wouldn't just leave and I told him if we are not what he wants than he needs to leave right now he said he is not sure and he doesn’t want to leave... So should I make him and save the heart ache for myself and my kids cuz Its going to be really hard now but I know it will be worse later on if he decides to leave or should I let him stay and decide later what he really wanted

2007-12-22 03:41:14 · 17 answers · asked by Kristin M 3 in Singles & Dating

heres the thing my parents are christians and they think im under the age so they dont send me out (parties/over friends houses) its so sad and angry that i see all my friend, even worse EVERYONE!!! going out to parties and i have to stay home, theres nothing i can do but wait Util im 18 but i need a way to feel better about this what can make me feel bEtter i tried talking to them but that wont work, omg i am going to be at home on new years eve :'(

2007-12-22 03:38:56 · 7 answers · asked by garrisongurl_16 1 in Family

2007-12-22 03:38:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been told that when i have a few drinks my voice changes i become more confident and i sound more sexy. when i have a couple more i then start slurring and sound /look stupid.

i recorded myself and i do sound pretty good. how weird is that. but my normal voice is quite meek and mumbled.

anyone else in same boat?

2007-12-22 03:38:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 12 and in 7th grade. On Christmas I plan to take her with me to my sister's house to celebrate Christmas. My daughter doesn't want to go. I asked her why a week ago and she said that she doesn't want to tell. I promise her that if she tells me I will help her and understand her. She told me that it is because I don't allow her to bring friends home afterschool when I am not home and she really wants to spend time with her friends afterschool. I made a rule since day 1 that I don't allow any friends in my home when I am not home even if I know them very well. She said that only if I allow her to bring friends home, she will go to her cousins house. I told her that I will not allow it and I want her to come with me on Christmas. She said that I lied and I promise her that I will understand her and I didn't. She said that she can't trust me anymore and now she is a complete loner with no one to trust. I don't want to get upset but I don't what to do. Any suggestions??

2007-12-22 03:37:10 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Sharing a house with a couple and two little kids. Lovely children but they can be lippy at times. One of them tends to spit in my direction as well.
Tell her "don't do that" and she laughs in my face.
Wishing to follow the parent's cue, I asked dad how he deals with her rudeness. " I just love them" he said. No help there. Does anyone know of any books?
The problem is not disciplining kids. I'd know what to do with my own.
It's OTHER people's kids with all the authority/boundaries and mixed -message-to -the-child-problems that could raise.

2007-12-22 03:37:05 · 8 answers · asked by persistent 1 in Family

i need to ask you something... I know it sounds twisted, but I really am trying to get the best, most original answer - please reply: I am writing a science fiction love story. It's kind of twisted, but I need some help with wording. Okay, I'll tell you the part real brief. I had a boyfriend who was a real creep. He cheated on me, treated me like crap - etc. He was also a womanizer who mistreated my girlfriends. One day, a witch shrinks him to about 1/4 inch tall and I decide to toss him into the leg of my stocking overnight. The next day, I am late for college, and I dress very quickly - putting on the hose - forgetting that he's there. lol Well, I remember just as it's too late. I have no time to unchange and there he is trapped against my thigh with the tight nylon material. He screams, but no one can hear him.

OK the story goes that I decide not to let him out. Pretend you are me. What would you say to him as he begs?

NOOO!!! PLEASE!!!! LET ME OUT!!!!

(try to be creative)

2007-12-22 03:36:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I've had about 60

2007-12-22 03:36:04 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Will a woman get pregnant if the man is wearing Two pairs of underwear and shorts, and the woman is not wearing anything?

2007-12-22 03:35:42 · 5 answers · asked by bolinger65 2 in Singles & Dating

i met this girl in college 2 years ago, At that time i had a big crush on her and I still do, so i sent flowers on her birthday two years ago. , but i dint have my name on them she called me and thanked me for the flowers at that time, But nothing serious happened between us, we took a few courses together after we met, Recently she told me that she thinks i am cute, and that she had a crush on me the first day of class but she had to stop after learning that i was a Muslim. Couple day ago i was online and she asked me when my birthday was, i told her that it passed, and she asked me if i was going to send her flowers for her birthday, I was like how about red roses this time, and she told me that she likes Pink roses. .And she invited me to her b-day party which was yesterday, so I went and she was there with 3 other girls no boys, she was nice to me, then after the club, I was driving home and I text messaged her “saying text me when you get home please”. Then she responded an hour later saying that “I am home, thank you for being there, Gosh too bad we are different religions otherwise I would date u”. I didn’t ask her for a date or anything. Is she trying to tell me something? This was the only time we actually hung out, out of class and I had not seen her in a while. But we have always been keeping in touch over msn. What should i do? Her roses will be delivered today with a message saying
“I saw these roses and, even though they were beautiful, nothing can compare to the beauty i see in you”. Was sending the roses a mistake? Is she telling me to stay away from her by getting religion involved? I didn’t ask her if she would like to date me.

2007-12-22 03:34:50 · 4 answers · asked by SuperCobra 1 in Singles & Dating