well,2 start with,i toatlly have no respect 4 my dad coz the thing he did 2 me.i dont wanna tell what he did 2 me bt it was terrible.that was ages ago bt i cant seem 2 wipe away da memories.our relationship has been really rocky 4 ages.its only gotten worse n we fight like 5 times a day.now hes suggested that i move 2 my grandmas place.im 16 by da way.hes this gr8 guy outside with all da neighbours n frnds n my teachers bt hes a completely different charachter with the family.everybody[outsiders] tell me what a gr8 guy he is.
now even when he tells me something 4 my own benifit,i dont feel like listening 2 him.i admire him bt i dont really like him.
sometimes hes nice n selfless bt thats rare.am i misunderstanding him n causing 2 him behave in a bad way?
bt he even reminds me that hes paying me 4 my education n stuff n that is really sickening..
or am i just a really ungrateful compalining daughter?sometimes i fell i really hate him.
desperately need serious answers.pls help
2007-12-22 03:56:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
im moving 2 my grandmas place 2morrow.
2007-12-22 04:07:39 · update #1
I think that every girl in the world has a hard time with their fathers, most of the time their way over protective.
Im sensing that your case is different though, but honestly, if your dad wants you to move out of his own house, and your his 16 year old daughter, that's pretty selfless of him to do.
Your not ungrateful, I can tell that you love him as a father, but the way he treats you is not good at all, and my advice...Is to go live with your grandpa, if he's nicer to you, and will give you a better life.
In this case you have to think about what's best for you, not your father. Good luck !
2007-12-22 04:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes dads are that way because they think it will get you to show more affection for him. Maybe if you tried it his way first and see how it works out. Now, if he is KIKIN you out of the house then I would remind him that you are his daughter and unless you did something really bad that can be called child abuse if he hasn't set somewhere up for you to stay! Now he is paying for your education shoe if he was my dad I would be grateful because some kids can't even get their parents to pay for their education, and also he will probablt help you when you need the money for school or food or even your children when you have some if you don't get off to a good start and if you be nice to him during his time of need, then maybe in your's he will help you. And what ever happened to you mom's oppinion on how he treats you? Does she just agree with him because mmost of the time the mom will go the easy way and just give you the money without complaigning because they show more affection toward their children in some cases but in others they can be a little selfish expecially durring a poor sitiation. Now. Don't go to your dad telling him oooh and ahhh look what this girl said about you that would be mean. I think he would be a really nice guy once you get to get closer to him or get to know him!
2007-12-22 12:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really get on with my dad all the time, but I realised that he is the one who brings the money in so I really respect him for that. We're so alike in so many different ways I think thats the reason we don't get along, but I've learnt that he's the only Dad I'm ever going to get and I don't want to waste it!
Have you tried talking to your dad about how you feel?
It might help (:
Good Luck x
2007-12-22 12:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe, my dad has sacrifices a lot for me and he even did not show , I worship my dad
2007-12-22 12:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU need to FORGIVE your Dad--or you will ALWAYS be sickly---needy---never trusting.
TELL GOD--He LISTENS--I PROMISE!!
Tell Him EVERYTHING you FEEL!!
I wish my Dad were STILL HERE!!!
2007-12-22 12:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋