i am damn sincere to him,and i do everything to make him happy and to take care of him.but he never reacts,still says he loves me.should i leave him or..any suggestions
2007-12-22 03:55:59 · 16 answers · asked by esha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself...is this a trait that you could live with for the rest of your life? Then you will know your answer.
2007-12-22 03:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by B C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you see your life, could you imagine it without him? Is the thing that attracted you to him still there, or are you ready to move on? Sometimes, we see dissatisfaction in everything all around us - which is a healthy sign to take a step back and take a good look at the picture, give ourselves a mental vacation, and decide what is precious to us. Also, he could very well be The One, but are you ready for that yet? It's who you know, when you know it, and where you are that factors into ultimate success. I applaud your efforts to remain warm, loving, and remain true to yourself. Wishing you every happiness in love.
2007-12-22 12:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by roadrunner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are smothering him. This is a very good way to lose your bf.
Most men do not know how to express or say "love". Only women demand "words".
If he is still asking you out on dates, all is well.
You are going to have a terrible future if you do not get control of your needy emotions. Bet you demand attention from just about everyone you know including your parents. You need to see a therapist about this before you get married or you will end up in divorce.
2007-12-22 12:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you know he loves you,why do you need more words?
I totally understand what you are saying,but obviously your having doubts,does your heart tell you he loves you?
or are you having to look for little peices of truth?
Explain to him what you need and help him to learn how to
be a giving person.
2007-12-22 12:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by uptoyou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is really shy, don't leave him, at least not yet. Try to get more comfortable with him and him with you. If it still keeps up, I guess you could leave him, but maybe he just doesn't know how to respond to this and you could potentially help him. Best of luck
2007-12-22 11:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop doing "everything to make him happy", that is not your job. I guarantee, stop acting like a door mat and he will wonder what's going on.
2007-12-22 11:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dun knw hw old is he... but since u re telling u sincere to him then forget the issue abt leave him and go.. be wif him.. hmmm sum guys dun like nor shy in public place to be wif their gf.. and loves privancy.. maybe ur bf is in tht category..
2007-12-22 12:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by The Perfectionist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me TELL YOU,............
I am MARRIED to one like that.
If they didn't get hugs and the such when they were young, they don't know how to give it, either.
YES, LEAVE. There are a zillion men out there, just waiting for someone who likes to give affection BACK TO THEM, TOO!!
I have to do all the approaching--and it stinks.
I feel exactly like YOU do.
Go find someone who appreciates the hugs AND that HUGS BACK!!!!
PLEASE DO THAT FOR ME!!!! For YOU !!
2007-12-22 11:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump him...nobody has to be taught to express love. Unless he is and you don't see it.
2007-12-22 11:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take those online quizes that tell you. talk to him about it if possible.
sorry, that doesn't help very much does it. i'm no relationship expert
best wishes
2007-12-22 11:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by Ivy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋