Family & Relationships - 22 December 2007

whats the best pickup line you ever heard?

2007-12-22 03:33:51 · 9 answers · asked by JAMES 2 in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy for 4 years and we decided that we were growing apart and decided to take a "break", During this time he fell in love with this other girl he said. I know the girl and we have always had problems. I still love him to death and they broke up and he started talking to me again but now they are talkin again and she has started texting me and calling me to insult me and tell me hurtful things, some of which he has said. He says he loves me but hes just confused. I want to be with him but i also want to move on because im scared of being hurt again. She is very pretty and has lots of money and im just not sure how i could compete with that. I pray and pray but for almost a year now my situation just seems to get worse. Someone please help me! She treats him so bad and i treated him so good, i just dont understand. If there are any suggestions or anyone who has been through this please give me some advice on how to handle this.

2007-12-22 03:32:35 · 18 answers · asked by southernsweetie 1 in Singles & Dating

So I thought this guy liked me. He gave me his number, called me 10 times in one night trying to get ahold of me, and always looks at me. We use to talk and were friends but this yr we kind of stop talking to each other. I thought maybe he was to shy to talk to me. Anytime one of my friends mentions me and is always trying to listen to the conversation. So I thought I would call him and when I did he had someone tell me that this wasn't his phone. I talked to him the next day and he sat there and lied to me with smile on his face the whole time. (It really was his phone) IDK what to think. I don't want to like him because he is acting like a major jerk but he completely confuses me. Why would he act like he likes me then the next minute act like he hates me?

REPOSTED to state this:
We use to be friends, then he just got really shy around me. He has hurt me alot just as a friend.

2007-12-22 03:31:53 · 5 answers · asked by yellow birds 1 in Singles & Dating

at lunch he was staring at me at pe he was staring and he smiled at me

2007-12-22 03:31:46 · 6 answers · asked by missa 3 in Singles & Dating

Im 18 i want to move out and live on my own my situation at home isnt good.. im really not happy...i cry all the time. But i cant afford it with my job can the state help me.

2007-12-22 03:31:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i know a "friend" and he always says that i look nice and stuff,and always comments on my hair and how much it suits me! is he just being nice ? or does he want to ask me out ?

2007-12-22 03:31:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel like i am so alone, not much of friends , and my mood has become worst after i broke up with my girl friend. how do i make more friends ?

2007-12-22 03:30:42 · 4 answers · asked by curiousity 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this boyfriend named donte'. He's so sweet!!! I am just now starting to worry though!! he has 6 girlfriends!!!!!! :(*** All his girlfriends call me and are always bugging me about it! I noe he's cheating on me... i noe all there names and everything.....................and what im really trying to say is that .. should i still go out with him if i love him anough!!! I really do LOVE him though.. ty and bie.

2007-12-22 03:26:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend whom i ve never met...hes int he military..i met him online..and well we have been talking for months now...i really am liking everything about him and i wanna tell him howmuch i like him but i am too shy to do it over the phone...i plan on doing over email..and well hope for the best i guess...i really like him and i hope he feels the same..i wanna go about writing it so i dont scare him off...im hoping for the best1

2007-12-22 03:22:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mine's a school caning

2007-12-22 03:21:56 · 19 answers · asked by Billy Hughes 1 in Family

I'm pregnant and my said about a month ago that he wants to separate. I have been faithful but he says he needs time to figure out where he's going in life. There were signs of this from him but I was in denial. I've made plans to separate but I want so desperately for things to work. He has been to our appointments, bought me maternity clothes etc. and we haven't discussed him moving out in about a week although we both have plans to move the first of the year. So why is he doing all of these things? What should I expect next? If I mention him moving, he tells me that he doesn't want to talk about it and I'm being negative... any suggestions?

2007-12-22 03:20:54 · 21 answers · asked by primaldestiny2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok... emma is getting out of hand.
she bought me a lobster for christmas as a pet.
she thinks im two timing her with my pen pal (how happens to be a famous teenage celebrity, her name is emma aswell so it gets realy confusing)
im 16, why do i need the hasle?

help please.

Darius

2007-12-22 03:20:53 · 13 answers · asked by Darius C 2 in Singles & Dating

Hes not a bad guy just so needy he cant do anything for himself he asks my opinion on everything and has an answer for all I say Hes just a pain but i do love him and he is good to me for the most part
He is going to counseling but doesnt seem to help to much yet

2007-12-22 03:19:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-22 03:17:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy i have known for like three years and he's like my brother and people keep saying we should go out but i could never like him like that! Then last night we were playing 7 minutes in heaven and he said he liked this girl and he kissed her and i was like....hurt or something! Is this jealousy or do i like him?

2007-12-22 03:13:29 · 8 answers · asked by babii_gurl_vegas 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend told me that his ex-girlfriend once told him that he shouldn't believe in because he's only 14 and that you can't be in love when you are that young.
But we have been going out for ome time now and he says that despite what his ex girlfriend says, that he loves me and he knows that for sure. I tell him i love him back but i dont think he believes me because of what his girlfriend said ((he think it applies to girls like me)) i dunno what i should do in this situation. Is his ex right?

is fourteen too young for love? and how do you know if you are in love?

2007-12-22 03:12:02 · 16 answers · asked by Maria f 2 in Singles & Dating

how long does it take before you put out for a guy?

2007-12-22 03:11:37 · 34 answers · asked by JAMES 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy was head over heels for the gurl!!!! she broke up with him to go out with another guy then he found out from SOME ELSE that she cheated on him while they were together!!!!! Its like whenever she gets dropped from other guys she runs back to him!!!!!! WHY WOULD HE TAKE HER BACK!!!!! am i missing something!!! WHOA!!! She tried so many times to get him back but he wouldnt give in!!!! then she would go to another guy and that guy would she drop after a month or so!!!! WHY WOULD HE GIVE IN AND TAKE HER BACK!!!!

2007-12-22 03:10:37 · 29 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Singles & Dating

Im sick of being depressed... everytime I see this person that I thought he's my bestfriend,i always feel tired, angry or whatever makes my feelings heavy,i was always there times of trouble but when im at the times i need someone to talk to...he never been there... I feel so depressed... I want to remove him in my mind...

New Year, 2008, i need to do something..i need to avoid that pero but i dont want him to think that im avoiding him...
I want to move on...im so sick of it...so sick... Im still hoping that he would want to talk to me, with any moves to make him response from him... But im tired of hoping.. so tired... my mind is full of negative things... I want him to feel that he can't live without him...help guys...help me guys help me! list all teh things that i need to do in this way: (see below)

1. stop this that..
2. do this that
3. blah blah
4.
5.

i would really appreciate it. if you help me....

go guys im listing them down!i will be waiting!! Thanks so much!

2007-12-22 03:06:52 · 16 answers · asked by sean 1 in Friends

My husband and I were arguing two nights ago. And he tackled me and started hitting me in the face. I have quite a few bruises. But nothing serious. But the big thing is that our other two children were there and I am 7 weeks pregnant. He has apologized and swears that it will NEVER happen again. He seemed very sincere. This is the first time this has ever happened since we have been together.I have forgiven him. But I am just wondering if it will happen again. What do you think the chances are if he seemed REALLY sorry? Please don't be rude I just need some advice.

2007-12-22 03:03:02 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been talking to this girl that I really like at school over the phone and via email. However the conversations have been "few and far between". I got her # last week and since then I have called her twice, but she has never called me, even though she said she would. In addition, her email correspondences have dropped from a few paragraphs to a few sentences. Does this mean she doesn't like me anymore (I know she liked me when I first asked for her number, the signs were unmistakable) or is she waiting for me to contact her again?

Thanks!

2007-12-22 03:02:07 · 12 answers · asked by HT-5 2 in Singles & Dating

i can just see one of these days i will get myself in huge trouble. i know its not the place to do it but i do anyway. and i see others smiling if i so much as even talk to another man. how do i stop

2007-12-22 03:00:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't talk to anyone because my mom will find out an dif she does then I will be shuned in this family. Anytime I have a problem she thinks I jsut want pitty and It really hurts. She is so crule and it seems like she just wants to hate me and think im lieing but really I have never lied to her and I never will. I feel so withdrawn from my family. All I do is sit in my room and do my school work. My academic career is amaizing so far but nothing seems to be enouph for her to trust me. When I do meet other families and other poeple they love me and see great things in me but my mom says that is jsut becasue they don't know me. How can that be true, I know I can be loved for who I am. I jsut want out of this family as soon as I can but there seeems to be no way out, no where to go and no one to reach out to.

I could just really use some advice please.

And don't tell me to talk to a councelor or call a hotline cuz I can't hide things like that from my mom.

2007-12-22 02:59:17 · 10 answers · asked by Sammie 2 in Family

There is this girl who never liked me and she bossed me around for years. When she joined the bitchy click she thought they would make her feel great and popular in school. Now they have are making her suffer. Peer pressure is the main thing here. She comes from a wonderful family who are so kind and loving and they work hard to give her whatever she wants. She used to be clever but now her grades have gone way low. lower than the grades of chimpanzee's IQ test. Now she wants my help because she sees me as the only one who can help because I'm not a ***** and I'm always undercover (not noticed at school). She can't walk out of her clique now because she is in the same room as they are and they give her stuff to make her look like she's in the clique (nice clothes, expensive jewellery, etc) and for that she's their slave. Should I help the girl?

2007-12-22 02:57:01 · 6 answers · asked by Nikzor 2 in Singles & Dating

when your husband or boy friend is sleeping next to you, does he ever get hard and want to have sex while he is still asleep?

my husband does, and I was just wondering if I was the only one that does have sex with a sleeping partner.

(BTW... while he is awake, he's too sore, or tired to have sex most times.)
He knows, and would reather sleep. (I've asked) he said that he can't fell pain while he's asleep.
(this man could sleep through WWIII!)

2007-12-22 02:51:43 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I had and old friend/ex whom I have know for 11 years, but we havent seen or heard from each other in about 7 years after high school, because I have moved away. Recently, I found a way to contact him,but I also found out that he might be married. I don't want to rekindle any romance (because I'm dating someone also),but just to possibly resume a friendship, if possible.

2007-12-22 02:49:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

chewing junk food, slurping beer and staring at TV intensely, barely nodding at your direction. And you need some time to come to your senses and understand that this strange man is your husband of many years?

2007-12-22 02:49:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do guys always expect their gf to know when there mad or sad and if they dont notice then they get mad!

Pls help

2007-12-22 02:48:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was attacked by two thugs in my place in Florida back in July and had to off them. She thinks that I'm cold-blooded because I protected myself...what was I supposed to do, die a noble death??? Sorry, but I'm not Martin Luther King or Mahatma Ghandi...

2007-12-22 02:44:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can i make it stop?!

when i say selfish i mean really selfish! and now her dad has moved back in and her brother comes down sometimes and their all the same!!

i can't deal with this!! HELP?!

I'm going to shout soon!

2007-12-22 02:41:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family