this guy was head over heels for the gurl!!!! she broke up with him to go out with another guy then he found out from SOME ELSE that she cheated on him while they were together!!!!! Its like whenever she gets dropped from other guys she runs back to him!!!!!! WHY WOULD HE TAKE HER BACK!!!!! am i missing something!!! WHOA!!! She tried so many times to get him back but he wouldnt give in!!!! then she would go to another guy and that guy would she drop after a month or so!!!! WHY WOULD HE GIVE IN AND TAKE HER BACK!!!!
2007-12-22 03:10:37 · 29 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's at least getting some he shouldn't care. It only gets worse with age, the cheating and lying and manipulative nonsense. She's already using him: I hope he's at least using her back, so he gets SOMETHING out of the deal, rather than just his being her fall-back emotional support.
2007-12-22 03:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by danopticon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she keeps going back to him because he keeps taking her back. in her mind he is a fallback plan, that will always be there to take advantage of if her love life is on the rocks. he probably really loves her or he wouldn't be putting up with stuff like that from her which makes telling her no all the more difficult. the best thing he could do would be just to tell her "look i'm looking for something more permanent and if you don't want me as i am always then don't let the door hit you on your way out" and if she cheated once she may do it again it just depends on her motivation for cheating
2007-12-22 03:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by tamara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think that she likes him that much because if she really did then she wouldn't treat him the way that she does. I think that she just uses him because she knows that he will take her back. It seems like she is being selfish by not giving him the time to heal and move on. It's time for him to get some balls and tell her to move on!
2007-12-22 03:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by Crazy in love! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't figured this one out myself because my brother keeps going back to his scumbag of a wife though she keeps leaving him for other guys. For him though I think it's because she is all he knows, he's been with her since he was 18. I don't know much about the situation you are talking about, but I bet it may be something similar.
2007-12-22 03:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because he ahsn't learned his lesson and usually you are infactuated by something you can't control or can't have,sounds like you like this guy maybe you try talking to him give him a reason not to go back anymore:)
2007-12-22 03:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater usually will stay a cheater.a person can change though as well as change back to the way they were before.I dont think that he should mess with her like that again sounds like he deserves better
2007-12-22 03:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by Redd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive learned this and i want you to remember this one is way too many and 1000 is never enough needless to say once a cheater always a cheater unless they have a very quick change of heart
2007-12-22 03:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by jisby13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently he is in love or just dumb.
Once a cheat, always a cheat. quit taking her back may end up catching a case
2007-12-22 03:14:28 · answer #8 · answered by bugsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but YES once a person cheats they will always cheat
some people cant help it its an adittion
2007-12-22 03:22:46 · answer #9 · answered by marie Durossette/Hall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because love is a funny thing it makes you do strange things i did the same thing with my ex until i was tired of being lied to he didnt cheat but he didnt care either
2007-12-22 03:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by saba_wolf_dragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋