So I thought this guy liked me. He gave me his number, called me 10 times in one night trying to get ahold of me, and always looks at me. We use to talk and were friends but this yr we kind of stop talking to each other. I thought maybe he was to shy to talk to me. Anytime one of my friends mentions me and is always trying to listen to the conversation. So I thought I would call him and when I did he had someone tell me that this wasn't his phone. I talked to him the next day and he sat there and lied to me with smile on his face the whole time. (It really was his phone) IDK what to think. I don't want to like him because he is acting like a major jerk but he completely confuses me. Why would he act like he likes me then the next minute act like he hates me?
REPOSTED to state this:
We use to be friends, then he just got really shy around me. He has hurt me alot just as a friend.
2007-12-22 03:31:53 · 5 answers · asked by yellow birds 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You had better understand that you are never going to make anyone "Miss You". Can't you understand and accept that this guy, whom you admit has lied to your face - is absolutely not interested in you? Why do you persue this relationship. It takes two to have a decent relationship and in this case you are trying to force #2 back into it when he has no interest.
Be kind to yourself, Get away from this bad situation. Find someone who appreciates you and all you can contribute to a good relationship with mutual respect and admiration.
Move on for your own good. Remember - you cannot force someone into a relationship unless they want it as much as you do. Live and learn by this sad lesson. The hurt will pass. You can find a new person and go on to a new life.
2007-12-22 03:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by organbuilder272 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you don't need to even worry with him your worrying over something that you don't have looks like .... but if you wanna get his attention look like your having a good time with other guys or you girlfriends just act like you don't have a care in the world b/c guys always seem to want things they cant have
2007-12-22 11:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by jisby13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is time to let go, if he does like you and he sees that you have moved on then he will be crawling back...trust me...If he doesn't then things were not meant to be and you have to just move on...
2007-12-22 11:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by confused<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Don't contact him anymore and move on, that is the best way to handle people that play games.
2007-12-22 11:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How does that make him a player? He's just immature.
2007-12-22 11:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by [♥]ÿºú-kñºw-whº[♥] 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋