how long does it take before you put out for a guy?
2007-12-22 03:11:37 · 34 answers · asked by JAMES 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That depends on the girl and it depends on the guy. If there is chemistry with the guy then he might just get lucky. Some guys you just really feel something with them. Like some strong sexual chemistry. As for me I can usually tell right away. Some guys are good for just sex ,while others are fine but you aren't interested in them sexually ( too much ego, too many other girls, etc), And some are good as a friend only ( cute BUT not sexual enough, gay, taken)And others are a perfect blend of hottt with chemistry too!!!
2007-12-22 03:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by *♥* Igotorbs*♥* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't imagine giving into a guy before like 3 months or so or sometimes i dont for a long time untill i know he is a good guy and i can depend on him for not using me just for the whole sex thing!
2007-12-22 03:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by justme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on who you are as a person. Some do it on the first date, some wait until marriage. I'd say that it is probably best until you at least really know the guy well enough, although I'm a big advocate of being in love first.
2007-12-22 03:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by jadeeyedgirl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've only been with one guy, and we waited about 6 months and still together. If it doesn't last between us and i start dating others i would want to wait a couple of months. Depends how he treated me in the mean time.
2007-12-22 03:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 or 3 months
2007-12-22 03:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by jisby13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
2 or 3 months
2007-12-22 03:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that would depend on the level of attraction between the two people. It could be one day or 12 mos. It just depends.
2007-12-22 03:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by Crazy in love! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wait till after marrage because after your married then you know that he is devoted to you...or he would be more likely than not. I don't think any guy is gonna go through the whole proccess of having to date the girl, go through the marrage proccess, spend thousands of dollars on a ring, and then finally "get what he wants" and then just leave her. Same for a girl too.
so i say wait till after marrage.
2007-12-22 03:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by happyforgotten 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on who it is, if they are of age, and interesting to me or not, now putting out and putting it out is two different things you do know that don't you, it really depends on what I want, if it is a man that turns me on they will know it as soon as I can let them know it what happens from there well time tells
2007-12-22 03:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by Friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was 4 years we started dating in the 8th grade and we didn't have sex till we were married.♥♥
2007-12-22 03:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by ♥LS♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋