Family & Relationships - 22 December 2007

ij ust send already about my own dad didnt even believe in me that its was okay to take my x mas gift from my neighbor house that they already told me it s okay to take my gift back home. but my dad just made me go back to my neighbor house return my gift so that they can come back and bring the gift to me in person. but my own dad think i stole my own x mas present that was giving to me , the gift box had my name on it .

2007-12-22 07:37:36 · 3 answers · asked by statecalifornia2009 7 in Family

She is on birth control and says it is affecting her drive....I believe her but what are you thougths.

2007-12-22 07:36:50 · 5 answers · asked by eternalsouljaandson 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

MY WIFE AND I ARE SEPARATED. WHEN SHE LEFT SHE ALSO LEFT ME WITH OUR FOUR KIDS. THINGS GOT ROUGH SO I WENT AND APPLIED FOR STATE AID. JUST TODAY I GOT A LETTER FROM THE HEALTH AND WELFARE SAYING MY AID BEEN REDUCED BECAUSE MY WIFE APPLIED FOR AID SHE CLAIMED MYTWO YOUNGEST AND THEY HAVE BEEN LIVING WITH HER. NO THEY HAYE NOT SHE ALSO MOVED AND WONT TELL ME WHERE. IS THERE ANYTHING ICAN DO. SHE LIED AND SHOULD NOY BE ABLE TO GET AWAY WITH IT.

2007-12-22 07:33:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so im fairly new at my secondfary school, i started at the begining of year 10, and im now a term in. But loads of guys have crushes on me, and im not being boastful here. But, if i feel comfortable with a guy, even just as a friend i flirt with them, but then i fuind them feeling akward around me, and either REALLY showing it or telling me they like me. It always TOTALLY destroys the friendship, cause all they want is a relationship and "cant bare it not to be that way", and i feel to akward to talk to them. I didnt lead them on, or at least not on purpose, thats just how i behave around guys.

And then the vice versa...When i like a guy, they just want to be my friend! I THINK i bahave the same, but it doesnt seem to have the same affect...=[

Can anybody help me and give me advice! Thankyou.

2007-12-22 07:30:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When we are making out sometimes my boyfriend pulls me on top of him so that im lying on him. then he pulls me up and down so that im kind of rubbing against him. is this normal? and what does it mean? Oh and were both 17. also is it a bad thing?

2007-12-22 07:30:30 · 6 answers · asked by blondie<3 2 in Singles & Dating

well the point is that i have a neighbor whom are my friends and even i work for them doing a housesitting job over 2 yr. yestersday they asked me to come over to their house to pick up one of the keys that usually get from them . when theyre out town on their buinesse trips. so they baseuallly trusted me with everything else,. well anyhow they told me that when i housesitting for them that they brought me another x mas gift and i can go there to pick it and take home with me . so they were fined with it to take my present whenever i have the chance to. . so i just went to pick up my gift from my friend house . then my dad asked me what was in my hand i told him its my x mas gift that dennis and sarah gave to me. then after that my dad made me to go back to the house and return my present back to my friends house . cause he think its not mind gift , i explain my dad the whole stories that they asked me to take it . but no my dad didnt even believe the gift was belong to me.

2007-12-22 07:29:51 · 4 answers · asked by statecalifornia2009 7 in Family

he cold to me and mean

2007-12-22 07:29:51 · 8 answers · asked by Angel L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this boy at work is so hot it's unbelieveable..and i look a lot younger than my age. I don't want a relationship with him, he's a bit dumb, but my god he is soooo pretty! Am I sick?

2007-12-22 07:29:44 · 46 answers · asked by rachel 2 in Singles & Dating

Heres the ture story,
I know all of this cause he told me everything...

When my friend Carlos was a little kid around the age of five and six he met this really nice girl only one year younger than him, her name was Elizabeth. Elizabeth was son of his moms very good friend and Elizabeth had an older sister that was 13 at the time that they were were six. So scince his mom always worked and couln't take care of him all the time she would take him to her house so that her sister Brittany could take care of him while his mom was gone. And sometimes they would just come over his house because he has an older sister named Ana and Britanny are best friends from school. In the meantime him and Elizabeth became friends. He still has memories of some of the good times they had. So one day comes when his mom gets promoted at work to Executive Producer of some company and she's getting paid way more money so she decides to move when he's 11. After his family moves to a much better house and all and now they live in the same state but in diffrent cities. But both of them are still in Broward. So after he moves he continue to talk to Elizabeth everyday on the on the phone, then 4 times a week, then 2 times a week, then 3 times every two weeks, and eventually to the time they only talk to each other once a month a sometimes not even. But he still sees her sister Brittany almost three times a week at his house because shes is best friends with his sister Ana. So you hear about her very recent but not in person. So now we fast forward to the present time. When.....he's 15 and Elizabeth is 13. So now that he's in High School relationships are more common he talks to me about how he wants a girlfriend and all that stuff.So then while he was thinking about who may like him or who he would want to go out with, Elizabeth's sister Brittany says "HI" to him and he remebers Elizabeth! So he thinks to himself "Me and her are like brothers so why not?" So then Carlos text her and calls her to see if she can go to the movies, Elizabeth says Yes but she has to bring her step brother with her. So after everything is set they go to the movies,watch the.....movie, and talk and while. Afterwards, Elizabeth leaves with her step brother Dyaln so he goes home thinking to himself. "That went very good". At the same time all of this happening I'm going out with a girl called Amanda who now is a ***** to me but anyways on with the story. So then the next week he tells me I'm going to go to the movies with Elizabeth a second time and this is where they end up going out for real but all they do is hold hands and NOT KISS. So after the movie was over he told me that could of not gone better and that next time he saw her he was going to kiss her. So now they talk almost everyday and if its not talking its texting. So two weeks after the last time they went to the movies he tells me to do it again, to finally KISS so he calls her "Hey you wannna go to the movies?" "Yeah why not but I have to bring my step-brother again so why dont you bring some of you're friends?" He thinks about it for a minute and say "Sure why not". So he calls his BEST FRIEND which is me, I'm basically family. So calss me says "Hey want to go the movies this weekend with my old friend which is now my Girlfriend? And Milko (He's a good friend of Carlos)?" Of Course I say "Yeah sure why not?" .So the movie is at 7:30 P.M so he tells his mom to take him to the movies and to pick up both of his friends, me and milko. When we get there at the movies we meet up with Elizabeth and her step-brother Dylan. So after everyone gets tickets and all the sancks and drinks we sit down to watch the movie. As the time goes by and the movie plays Carlos grabs holds Elizabeths hand and just waits for a good time to KISS her. But he dosen't want to do it in front of his step-brother because he's one of the biggest tadel tells ever. So he asks him ver nicely if he can go get Elizabeth a refill on the drink. So when he walks out of the theater he starts talking to Elizabeth and right before he goes to KISS her her brother walks in and tells Elizabth that they have to go and then Elizabeth just says bye and walks out. Then once the movie is over Carlos asked me about what I think of him and all those other things. As he goes home he tells himself "God damm it I want to kiss her so bad! We're going to the movies again this weekend." At the same time that Carlos went to the movies with Elizabeth he was going out with Amanda my ex girlfriend which I hate. He didn't barek up with her to go out with Elizabeth so he cheated on Elizabeth the whole entire time. But he broke up with amanda one day after the movie. So next weekend he calls her and ask her to go to the movies but she says she's going with her friends already so if he wants to come go ahead. But this time he just brings me which Im his BEST FRIEND IN THE WHOLE ENTIRE FREAKING WORLD AND HE IS LITERALLY MY BROTHER! And this time we go all the way down to their city,Weston. After we get there we meet up with her and her friends. As we walk past her friends we hear "Damm girl you outdone yourself this time JaJaJaJa" . After he hears those really good comments he sits down next to her and holds her hands and decides to wait for her to KISS him this time. But after the movie is over and nothing happend yet he changes his mind and decide to just go for it so when he goes up to kiss her she says "NO" in a sad voice but she tells him that she still likes him and still wants to go out with him but dosen't want to kiss him yet. Once we get home he has no idea why she didn't want to kiss him. The next day he goes on the computer and logs on into MSN Messenger. He sees that I'm on and that Elizabeth is to so he starts a three way talk with both of them. Then Jessica comes on so he invites her.(Here is a brief explanation of who Jessica is.Jessica is the this girl who he went out with right before school started and now after the Winter Break their going to go out because she's going to break up with his boyfriend after Christmas and they are constantly flirting everday in class.). Before the talk online I was texting Elizabeth why she didn't KISS Carlos? But we never ended up finishin the conversation because Elizabth said that it was a long story so I just told her to go MSN the next day.... So now all four of us are talking Carlos, Elizabeth, Jessica, and Me. Scince he likes being a ***** to Elizabeth to irritate her and just play around I starts a conversation only with Elizabeth and I saty on the other one with all four of us in it The conversation between Danielle and Micheal goes as follows:

I'm black.
Elizabeth is pink.

Nokiashorty dice:
Umm I still have to tell you something....
liz dice:
ok! tell me!
liz dice:

Nokiashorty dice:
Wait I'll tell you after you tell me what the long story is why you said you like him but you dont want to kiss him
liz dice:
wel
liz dice:
i like him but its jus weird cuz i have known him ever scince i was like 6 and idk but i like sombody else rite now well not like like him but hes cute and i dnt want to kiss him cuz i wil feel acuard
Nokiashorty dice:
One you spelled acward wrong and two what?
liz dice:
omg!
Nokiashorty dice:
lol i cant understand ur Gehtto language
liz dice:
hahah! ok ok!
liz dice:
well i like him but it will feel weird 2 me if we are going out
Nokiashorty dice:
He's not you brother lol JaJaJa
liz dice:
i know but hes more like a best frind to me!
liz dice:
friend

liz te ha enviado un zumbido.

Nokiashorty dice:
Thats exaclty why its perfect to go out
liz dice:
y
Nokiashorty dice:
Causeyou knowed each other for ever
liz dice:
i like going out to get to know the person! i already know carlos
Nokiashorty dice:
Ok, I'm not going to say any more
liz dice:
y ok
liz dice:
w/e
liz dice:
tell me wat u have to tell me
Nokiashorty dice:
I never had anything lol
Nokiashorty dice:
Thanks anyways lol.
liz dice:
omg r u serious.....
Nokiashorty dice:
No
liz dice:

Nokiashorty dice:
Ask me something and I'll tell you
liz dice:
wat does he say about me to you
Nokiashorty dice:
Why do want to no if you dont like him?
liz dice:
omg i said i do
Nokiashorty dice:
I dont get you...
liz dice:
i know...im confusing
Nokiashorty dice:
You are so not fuking!!! leaving
liz dice:
jjajaja! ok y
Nokiashorty dice:
Cause I'm not done talking to you
liz dice:
what do u want to talk about
Nokiashorty dice:
Yeah well anyways last time we saw you at the movies Carlos said thata blah blah but you wouldnt stop moving and your so unexperienced!
liz dice:
wel i was hyper..and i am so not unexpeirenced
liz dice:
how am i unexpierienced
Nokiashorty dice:
Yes he asked you lets get out of here and your like wat for
liz dice:
i wanted to watch the movie! duh!
Nokiashorty dice:
To freaking kiss HELLO!
Nokiashorty dice:
omfg!!! JaJaJaJaJa
liz dice:
i knew that! i sware i did i jus didnt want to cuz my brother wuld tell my mom
Nokiashorty dice:
Your brother wasant there!
liz dice:
the only time he asked mt to go out eoth him was wen we went to go c dan in real life
Nokiashorty dice:
And in Alvin and the gaylords
liz dice:
no he never asked me there
Nokiashorty dice:
Ok but whatever you could of kissed him the million times your brother wasnat there
liz dice:
yea but my frinds were and so was my teacher and my princible
Nokiashorty dice:
Im talking about dan in real life
liz dice:
my brother was with us!
Nokiashorty dice:
Like 2 minutes out of al the movie
liz dice:
no trust me he was at the bottom the hole time spying on me i knew he was
Nokiashorty dice:
What a little bicth no offense
liz dice:
hahah! its ok i hate my brothe hes a fag
Nokiashorty dice:
But the worst part was that you just WALKED out on us!!!!
liz dice:
i had to go to a funeral
liz dice:
IM SORRY
Nokiashorty dice:
Its okay but anyways thats why your unexperienced
liz dice:
IM NOT unexperienced!!
Nokiashorty dice:
Did you know that he wanted to kiss you?
liz dice:
yes!
liz dice:
duh!
Nokiashorty dice:
Then wtf!

liz dice:
!!!what!!!
Nokiashorty dice:
Why didint you
liz dice:
I TJD U
Nokiashorty dice:
And dont say its akward
liz dice:
I TLD
Nokiashorty dice:
Thats dosent count!
Nokiashorty dice:
Besides who the hell do you like now. One of those rich spoil weston kids! Not you of course but seroiusly
liz dice:
JAJA! NO
Nokiashorty dice:
?.?.?
Nokiashorty dice:
Its hilaroius btw
Nokiashorty dice:
dont leave
liz dice:
ok
liz dice:
teehee! lol
Nokiashorty dice:
Answer
liz dice:
who i like
Nokiashorty dice:


liz te ha enviado un zumbido.

Nokiashorty dice:
sorry i had to draw my sucicide drawing lol
Nokiashorty dice:
jk
liz dice:
hahaha1!!
liz dice:
um i cant tell u!
Nokiashorty dice:
How the hell would I ******* know who ur talking about
liz dice:
trust me u no him
Nokiashorty dice:
Ok well whatever anyways your going to the movies after X-mas
liz dice:
i want to tell u but i am afarid u will tell carlos
Nokiashorty dice:
Tell me what that ur going to the movies? or wh you like
liz dice:
who i like!!
Nokiashorty dice:
You like his friend that went with us to the movies?
liz dice:
no! haha
Nokiashorty dice:
Do I know him?
liz dice:
yes
Nokiashorty dice:
I dont know that many plp that carlos knows i only know u his sister ur sister and thats it
liz dice:
u no my ugly sister
Nokiashorty dice:
Brittany? Right? Yep
liz dice:
hahahaha!
liz dice:
yea
liz dice:
i love her but shes annoying!
Nokiashorty dice:
lol
Nokiashorty dice:
She wont be quite thats for sure
liz dice:
i no rite!! jajaja!
Nokiashorty dice:
dont leave !e!
Nokiashorty dice:
me
liz dice:
i am not leaving u!!
Nokiashorty dice:
lol
liz dice:
i am leaving carlos and skan! jk jk jessica!
Nokiashorty dice:
HAHAHHA
Nokiashorty dice:
I agree with you 100 ******* %
liz dice:
lol! haha
Nokiashorty dice:
Ypou left hahaha
Nokiashorty dice:
He added you
liz dice:
i no i denied it
Nokiashorty dice:
ur freaking getting him so pisst lol!!!!!
liz dice:
haha!
Nokiashorty dice:
He's like up shes mad lol!!!
liz dice:
hhahaha! im not mad
Nokiashorty dice:
Their like ahhh poor her
Nokiashorty dice:
I know JaJaJaJaJa
liz dice:
i dnt fel like talking to 3 ppl at the same time
Nokiashorty dice:
Carlos said ur getting jealous of jessica JaJaJaJaJa
liz dice:
psh hahahaahah
Nokiashorty dice:
lol JaJaJaJaJa
liz dice:
i dont get jelus
liz dice:
thats an emotion i dont have
Nokiashorty dice:
JaJaJaJaJaJaJaJaJaJaJaJaJaJaJaJaJaJaJaJa
liz dice:
its true!
Nokiashorty dice:
What if she stole every guy from you
liz dice:
i still wuldent care! i can find more
Nokiashorty dice:
Oh really
liz dice:
yup lol
liz dice:
like one time
Nokiashorty dice:
Like one time what
liz dice:
i was at a party and my bf was dancing with this hoe and they started making out and i as a realy staright foward person i can say mean things to ppls faces i jus left him
liz dice:
and embareesed him
liz dice:
jaja
Nokiashorty dice:
I thought carlos was ur first bf
liz dice:
hahahahahahahahaha noo
Nokiashorty dice:
Really was he like ur 100th
Nokiashorty dice:
lol
Nokiashorty dice:
dont answer
liz dice:
ok lol
Nokiashorty dice:
dont ask jessica why
Nokiashorty dice:
just say ok
liz dice:
ok
Nokiashorty dice:
Answer
liz dice:
huh wat
liz dice:
aa wait theres to many ppl talking to me
Nokiashorty dice:
lol
Nokiashorty dice:
Really was he like ur 100th
liz dice:
aw! lol
liz dice:
no like 7th
liz dice:
haha
liz dice:
they were all older
Nokiashorty dice:
OH REALLY!
liz dice:
yea haha
Nokiashorty dice:
Thats not what i heard lol
liz dice:
psh! at did u hear
Nokiashorty dice:
From 3 diffrent people
Nokiashorty dice:
actualy 4
liz dice:
4rm who!

Nokiashorty dice:
Carlos, ur sister, ana, and his mom
liz dice:
aaaahahaha thats cuz i dnt tell my personal life to ppl then it gets out and i dont like that
liz dice:
im surprised my sis wuld say that
liz dice:
jaja
Nokiashorty dice:
So you dont want me to tell anyone this even doe the only person that i know that knows u is carlos
liz dice:
haha yes!
Nokiashorty dice:
Oh btw you better be on tomorrow too
Nokiashorty dice:
And why dont you want me to tell carlos who u like?
liz dice:
haha! ok i will just for u! hahaha
liz dice:
cuz! i am trusting u
Nokiashorty dice:
Exaclty ur TRusting me
liz dice:
not to tell anybody! not even carlos
Nokiashorty dice:
So who DO you like?
liz dice:
4 sum reaon i have a feeling ur guna tell him
liz dice:
....
liz dice:

Nokiashorty dice:
I wont if you tell me not to
Nokiashorty dice:
And plus what the hell
liz dice:
DONT
Nokiashorty dice:
I swear I wont
liz dice:
i will give u clues
Nokiashorty dice:
Ok
liz dice:
hes cute haha
liz dice:
if i say to much i will give it away
Nokiashorty dice:
Oh wow that helped do to the fact IM NOIT GAY!!
liz dice:
hahahahah!!
liz dice:
ok ok
liz dice:
hes fun to be around and......
Nokiashorty dice:
and......
Nokiashorty dice:
......

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liz dice:
aa
liz dice:
ok ok
Nokiashorty dice:
lolo!!!
Nokiashorty dice:
u dnt have to tell me
Nokiashorty dice:
I know who it is
liz dice:
who
Nokiashorty dice:
Im not going to tell you for the same reason u wont tell me
liz dice:
omg i will tell u if u tell me of who ur thinking of
Nokiashorty dice:
I know who your thinking of
Nokiashorty dice:
Just think that im right cause i am
liz dice:
who!
Nokiashorty dice:
I know who it is
Nokiashorty dice:
Dont worry I wont tell carlos
liz dice:
who
Nokiashorty dice:
Im not wrong
Nokiashorty dice:
I know
liz dice:
omg who
Nokiashorty dice:
Your the nicest person in the world not a backsatber
Nokiashorty dice:
And why dont you want to tell me who you like?
Nokiashorty dice:
Im not going to say it for the same REASON
liz dice:
aw thanks! haha!
liz dice:
omg jus tel me who u think it iz
Nokiashorty dice:
You tell em then I'll tell you if I was right then
Nokiashorty dice:
I swear
liz dice:
UR TRIKING ME!
Nokiashorty dice:
I swaer I not
liz dice:
hmmm!!!
Nokiashorty dice:
Theres only 3 people that could be it
Nokiashorty dice:
Say no I bulogs
liz dice:
wat
Nokiashorty dice:
Tell carlos Im not urs Im bulogs
liz dice:
HA I DID!
Nokiashorty dice:
JaJaJaJaJaJaJaJaJaJa hes going crazy
liz dice:
haha! i agrre with u!
liz dice:
do u think its u
Nokiashorty dice:
Yep
liz dice:
.....
liz dice:
teehee
Nokiashorty dice:
Im wrong right
liz dice:
no...
liz dice:

Nokiashorty dice:
Now this is going to be so akward
liz dice:
i no i tld u
Nokiashorty dice:
Thats why I told you to just think that i knew
liz dice:
.....
liz dice:
omg!
Nokiashorty dice:
All the girls I've gone out with, i always have the same damm conversation
Nokiashorty dice:
Thats how i knew
liz dice:
haha! realy
Nokiashorty dice:
yep
liz dice:
omg.....
Nokiashorty dice:
omg.. what
Nokiashorty dice:
Dont tell carlos
liz dice:
i dont want carlos to hate me
Nokiashorty dice:
I'll tell him playing around and she what he does
Nokiashorty dice:
He stole my gf before anyways lol
Nokiashorty dice:
but i hated her so i dint care
liz dice:
GASP WAT A HOE
Nokiashorty dice:
I swear i dint care o dont think im a pussy
Nokiashorty dice:
Now we both hate her
liz dice:
haha! i dont
liz dice:
omg it was amanda carlos told me aboiut her
Nokiashorty dice:
Yep the emo pice of ****
Nokiashorty dice:
Oh and btw is this why you didnt kiss carlos?
liz dice:
becuz i liked u.......\
liz dice:
dont tell
liz dice:
omg
Nokiashorty dice:
Im not going to say anything I promise
liz dice:
i have to go!
Nokiashorty dice:
What
Nokiashorty dice:
Ok but go on tomorrow ok?
liz dice:
Bye


So after the conversation I told myself I have to tell Carlos this so then I printed out the whole entire conversation and I took it to school the next day. I showed it to him and he freaked out!!!! The first thing he asked me was if I liked her back and of course I said no but I knew the truth was yes. Then I went over his house so I could go on the computer and talk to Elizabeth and he could see everything we wrote to each other. But then he internet wasant working and he told me to satrt texting her and telling me to ask her if she had to pick one of us which one would it be? And she said basically everything me and not him. Then he got so mad he bursted out " What the **** that little whore has no ******* idea what the **** she want!!! How can she like a kid she hasant talked to ever and only seen him twice instead of me who she has knowed for fuking ever?!!!!" Then he grabbed his phone and started saying **** to her and I grabbed mine and started to say sorry to Elizabeth cause I never knew he was going to react this way.

Now here is the question:
Should I go for her or should I just leave her and tell her its not right for me to steal her from my Best Friend, but I'm sure that after X-mas Carlos is going to go out with Jessica and Elizabeth and he's going to be cheaing on her. And so what if she has knowed him forever that dosent mean she can't like any other guys right?

2007-12-22 07:28:04 · 11 answers · asked by Nokiashorty 1 in Singles & Dating

i am so confused that i do not know what to do - it has come to my attention that the man who i thought was my uncle , who is my mothers half brother , is actually my dad.

He is staying with us at the moment from abroad for the xmas period and you can cut the atmosphere with a knife- we all feel so awkward.

you see i was conceived in the 1960s in another part of the world but my birth mother had to come to the uk to have an abortion but she did not - my father/uncle paid for her to come - so i was fostered for until i was 4 yrs of age thats when i first met her .

i have done alot with my life so far but because of their paranoia they had decided to compromise my life in various ways - a bit like having to pay for their sins !!

i am so confused - i do not know who to trust - i cannot look at my uncle in the face anymore - what to address as -or just continue to play the game.

He has a son who i have met several times .

all this decieit is killing me emotionally.

2007-12-22 07:20:45 · 3 answers · asked by Le Vonte W 1 in Family

It really bothers him. She does kinda look like a stripper and it even makes me uncomfortable. He see's her go from man to man to man ... if she's that old why does she not stay with one man? Is it staying power she lacks or what?

2007-12-22 07:14:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

probably ur at a party and ur partner bumps into that ex that is always in their memory, and BOOM they're at it in the toilet an ****!!

2007-12-22 07:13:42 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why or Why Not?

2007-12-22 07:13:22 · 17 answers · asked by Awesomely Me! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, so i like this guy a lot
and he knows and has a girlfriend
they went out a year ago but broke up
yet,
he keeps gazing at me whenever im not looking at him
and hes always winking at me..
im really confused, should i just forget about him?
i have NO INTENTIONS on taking him ...
i dont do anything either...i just stare for like a second

2007-12-22 07:08:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I made my bed and cleaned my room right before going downstairs to play on the computer. Then my sister unmade my bed to make it look like there was someone sleeping in it. So I came upstairs and my bed was all wrecked. I am so mad at her! And she thought it was hilarious! What should I do?

2007-12-22 07:06:31 · 7 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family

I need some help.

me and my boyfriend r really good and been together nearly a year, but it seems things r not as hot as they used to be! :(

i don't rly make an effort wit my clothes atm and really need to! has any one got ne ideas for sum sassy tips on how to blow him away by my looks, i am a pretty good looking lass and have done modelling but i feel as i havent been making an effort for a bit! i want to be the girl he looks at and goes wow, such as those gorjus girls u see in the street! come on!! xxxxxxxxxx

2007-12-22 07:06:24 · 14 answers · asked by L-Marie! 1 in Singles & Dating

whats a good time to have a kiss? like how old should i be???

2007-12-22 07:06:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 07:05:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're in our late 40's and live together 1 1/2 yrs. Unbelievably, 2 months after I moved in, he stopped sex completely. He was having health problems, which were true. I said there are many ways to be close, but he didn't try or care how I was feeling. He just said he felt guilty. He rarely talks to me, respects my feelings, have fun, and refuses to seek help of any kind. He just says he hates himself. If I just sit on the couch with him and cook and take care of house, and don't 'hassle' him (which means talking about our 'stuff), (I am very easy to talk to and am very adept at communication), he will sit in silence with no response! Even when I say I will leave! He says it stresses him out too much to think about it. I feel like I am living with a ghost. After being rejected, I feel ugly and no one will want me. I was always confident/passionate with men and know I am a great partner, but now I feel horrible and wonder why I have put myself through so much pain and turmoil. Help!

2007-12-22 07:04:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend parent not agry to marry with me..coz am 25 and she is 27,,but we cant stay without eachothers..what to do plz tell me.

2007-12-22 07:00:24 · 12 answers · asked by don 1 in Marriage & Divorce

stable? Like to find their own place and get a job.

2007-12-22 06:59:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

don't you just hate it when your datin someone and people just start talkin **** about them ?

it's like iight i'm datin him so stay outta my bizz cause i dont wanna hear it

2007-12-22 06:58:53 · 5 answers · asked by ♥La Dulce Chica♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

At work there is this guy who like 34 and constantly finds reasons to talk to me asking stuff like 'do you know what your doing' 'do you need help' etc. and he always touches me when he talks to me like putting his hand on my lower back and on my shoulder or arm. The other day he had to apologise to me over something and kept saying 'please don't hold it against me'(what he did) and my hand was on the rail of the staircase when talking so he put his hand on top of it while he was talking. i'm 16 so it looked proper weird and he got funny looks off people going past. Do you think he likes me more than a normal work colleague?

2007-12-22 06:58:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend is turning 19 and is in college, she has known her fiance 4 a while and have been dating a year. they pay their own bills, and have been through alot together, her dad going through rehab, her parents divorcing, her dad getting really sick and almost dying, both losing and getting another job, his parents arguing, her mom threating to break them up so she will marry a dr. and have alot of money. they are both in school and are waiting til that is over to get married, i belive that they will work out, well i know i just wanted others opinions, they argue but not like fight, the compromise and just kind let things go with the flow, ive never seen any "teen" couple act like that

2007-12-22 06:55:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im 13 years old and recently got a boyfriend who is 10 years older than me - hes 23. i luv him and he loves me...but some people may think im onli 13 so i wuldnt understand and that it is a bad idea to be with him as i am still in school and he is working..what should i do ??

2007-12-22 06:53:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think it is, just because a couple are not living happily as man and wife, they are still classed as married in the eyes of the law

If a couple meet and they are separated from their husbands/wifes, it is still adultery right?

2007-12-22 06:50:17 · 28 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my collegue had an unfortunate event with an over reacting house wife,what happend was that he was decorating her kitchen,he covered the units and floor and proceeded with the works ,she came in and asked have you seen my digital camera ,he said no ,it was on the kitchen table she said ,he said i have not seen it,she goes out of the room and calls the police ,they came and search my collegue and his van and found nothing ,they took him to the police station ,stripped him and stuck him in the cell for 5 hours ,the house wife suddenly found the camera ,in a drawer, the useless over reacting cow,my collegue has been cleared of any wrong doing ,i just hope the husband gives his wife one almighty kick up the a@r*e

2007-12-22 06:49:51 · 19 answers · asked by doc rock 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm confused and would love feedback. About a year ago I moved back to my home town, and it being so small, I often run into an ex. He has a long term gf, I'm single. Over this year, he has gradually become more flirtatous with me, at first I thought he was just being friendly. But in the last 4 months his flirting has become quite strong. Only 3 weeks ago he was whistling at me, telling me how good I looked and would chat me up as soon as he saw me. Then 2 weeks ago he broke up with his gf because she was cheating. Since the breakup, I have seen him 3 times while out and about, and he politely says hello but he no longer stops and talks. He hasn't got back with his gf either.

What's going on? He flirts and wolf whistles at me whilst in a relationship (and I fully believe he would of slept with me if I had of let him), but now he's single he seems totally uninterested??? And they say women are hard to work out LOL

2007-12-22 06:49:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had a bf. Sometimes I like to kiss him. But I did not really care. I loved him.
Here is the deal. I just like being friends with a guy. We tried sex once. But then stopped. I did not see the big deal people make about it.

I don't care about sex or kissing. I just like a guy as a best friend. I have no desire to get married or procreate. I do not care even about whether I have a bf or not. I like guys as friends. I am mid twenties. I just like going to work, going to college and enjoying my hobbies, and I only want a guy as a friend. I do not want him as more. I do not want to be in a serious realationship. Is anyone else out there like this?

Maybe it is because I just want to have fun, and I am not ready to be in any relationship and I know the responsibilities of marriage, etc, and do not want that?

The first time that I ever held a guy's hand, or kissed one was in my early twenties. I did not even want to kiss him, but he talked me into it.

2007-12-22 06:47:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help!! wat do u think..?
What does this sound like to you?
okay theres this guy named brandon that i like and i want to no in your opinion if u think he likes me. okay..
he held the door open for me when i was walking to mi classroom
the other day two of his best friends were like thats emily wen i walked past them
he opened up to me wen we werr texting
when mi friend listed names of girls that she think he would have liked he was all idk her well enuff to say.
and like he talks to me in class
am i juss being stupid? i need ur help. thanx
o yeah and my friend texted him and he was all hey i g2g later and to me he was all g2g goodnight. is this a sign that he likes me?

2007-12-22 06:43:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends