this boy at work is so hot it's unbelieveable..and i look a lot younger than my age. I don't want a relationship with him, he's a bit dumb, but my god he is soooo pretty! Am I sick?
2007-12-22 07:29:44 · 46 answers · asked by rachel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
those people who say i only like people for their looks have completely missed the point. Yes I want to sleep with him because of his looks, but in order for me to really 'like' someone they have to have a good personality and be intelligent! durrr!
2007-12-22 08:03:37 · update #1
So... you would sleep with this young, unintelligent guy just for his looks? Then what? So you would sleep with him... and?
If you want to have a fantasy, have one. There are stores dedicated to making sure women don't have to just have sex with anyone just so they can satisfy themselves.
If you want to not have a fantasy and make it real life instead, look for trouble. For starters, he's a young guy. You act like you don't care about anything but using him as a breathing dildo. What if he gets emotionally attatched? What happens when you shove him to the side for Mr. Right later on? Secondly, work relationships are ALWAYS bad. Especially if it ends badly, one of you is going to quit.
What if he doesn't feel the same way? If he rejects you, you're going to feel awkward coming to work and being around him. You say he's a looker, and he's 19, and unlike most irresponsible brats his age, he has a job. He probably has 17-18 year old girls lined up in a row for him. If he did do anything with you, it would just be practice so he could try some new things out with his hot young girlfriend.
Don't set yourself up for disappointment, especially if he hasn't actively expressed interest in you.
2007-12-22 07:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by daeraelle 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not, i'm a man in my mid 30's and I used to go out with a woman 11 years older than me and it was fantastic, sadly in the end it didn't work out, not due to age difference though, but that's life. It always seems to me that when age is a factor it's ok for an older guy to date an extremely younger woman but when it's reversed it's wrong, I can never get my head around that. In truth it always seems worse when you are younger, 29 to 19, but put a few years on, say 64 to 54, it doesn't sound so bad but it's still 10 years difference. I just wish that I had the attentions of a 29 year old woman when I was 19, sadly I didn't!
2007-12-22 07:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by simon ST150 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is wrong and you are definitely not sick! There is nothing wrong with wanting another person just for his looks. Man have been doing it for ages so I don't see why women shouldn't be.
I am 30 and there are 3 men aged 19, 20 and 23 who are openly flirting with me at the moment and I would have to be dead if I wouldn't consider them sexually since they all look very yummy. They make me feel good and wanted but that does not mean that I would want to marry them straight away or similar. Lusting after someone makes you feel alive.
2007-12-25 07:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its wrong. I'm 19 and my bf is 32 ... he was lusting after me for a while before we hooked up with what we both thought would be a fling ... little did we know we'd be together over a year later.
so i don't see whats wrong with a 29 year old woman hooking up with a 19 year old boy. the age isn't that big of a difference and it doesn't matter who is older the boy or the girl.
2007-12-22 07:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by twinklette.doombunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not sick nor anything... You are just a woman! And by your age, I´d say you should be in bed with him right this moment, instead of reading this answer.
I´m sure you are a very confident woman, and you know there is no harm and giving this boy some fun. So, what are you waiting for?
2007-12-22 07:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by Yabran Tariga 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be sick? of course you not!
If your sick then it would make my partner very very sick indeed.
I am 22 and he is 41!
We are totally in love and have been for 6 years! we met when i was 17 and hace 2 kids together and one on the way!
It can work and your not sick, just a normal woman with normal feelings!
I hope it all works out for you xx
2007-12-22 09:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by sarahhhhhhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, 19 is legal. I don't see anything wrong with it. I'm 24 and I think a lot of 18 or 19 year olds are hot.
2007-12-22 07:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by Amber D 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I`ve got a 22 year old pretty-boy lusting after me and I`m nearly 46 - okay so I look about 33 - you`re not sick just have a quick fling with him and move on., it`s so good for the morale!!
2007-12-22 07:34:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's normal to be physically attracted to people much younger then us. Fantasies are healthy! Nothing wrong or weird about that at all. Even flirting a bit seems fine to me. Flat out pursuing someone that much younger though, is kinda iffy....
2007-12-22 07:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by ☆ Spharoe 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its legal and only 10 year difference. Just remember that he wil be pretty immature but still no reason not to try for a nice casual no strings relationship! GO GIRL!!!
2007-12-22 07:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋