im 13 years old and recently got a boyfriend who is 10 years older than me - hes 23. i luv him and he loves me...but some people may think im onli 13 so i wuldnt understand and that it is a bad idea to be with him as i am still in school and he is working..what should i do ??
2007-12-22 06:53:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be who you are... although i wouldn't do what your doing, its the love that counts... if you dont know elvis and priscilla presley's situation. she was 14 he was 24... fell in love got married and later divorced not cause they didnt love each other only cause priscilla wanted a normal life for her daughter and she didnt want to be in the spotlight anymore (even though she is more now) anyways i hope that story helped
good luck enjoy your christmas
2007-12-22 06:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by cutie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be looking very sexy, because a 23 year old is looking for sex from such a young child as a 13 year old. Yes, dear, you are still a child in the court's eyes. Your bf could go to jail if he even touches you or kisses you. It would be best if you broke up until you are 18 years old, then try a relationship then.
(this is the same difference as the blonde teacher that went to jail for dating a teenager)
2007-12-22 14:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well OK...
First personally, I think 13 and 23 is wierd, 10 years wouldn't seem so bad if you guys were older. However, you are in the relationship and you feel how you feel so.
Check with your parents and see what they think, if they freak out then you probably shouldn't be doing it. Also, DON'T have sex with him because you are way to young.
Yeah the relationship does seem socially akward, but just if you aren't comfortable then end it. You have SOOO much time left in your life to meet sooo many other people. ending your relationship... you wouldn't be missing much.
Good Luck =)
2007-12-22 15:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by Friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not legal for him to be with - you are what is called, "jail bait." I know that you are too young and self-involved to understand this, but there is something really, really wrong with a 23 YO who needs to date a 13 YO. I am surprised that your parents would allow this - I would not, for my kid. What is wrong with you, first of all, that you feel the need for a BF, and second, that you can't spend time with ppl your own age?
2007-12-22 15:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a bad idea to be with him. If he touches you at all, that could be considered assault or harassment, and he could end up going to jail. Many times, men who date young girls are either using them, or are pedophiles. Odds are, he's using you. Many highschool teenagers,(at least in my area) only date people within about 3 years of their age. I personally think that is a good standard, at least until you are older.
2007-12-22 15:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by Krysta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl...I have a sister that was messing with this 24 year old...she is 14!!! I hated it too. She found out he wanted her because she is new at things...would fall for him deeply...and do anything for him. Which she did. I'm not going to tell you what to do... because sometimes people can't help who they fall in love with. But sit and think...why you love him??? And ask him point blank why is he with you??? See what he says. If it's so easy for him to be with...I'm sure your not the only young girl he has had. If your hiding this from your parent...it's bound to come out and it's going to be worst because you two tried to hide it. I would have more respect for my family and myself. Concentrate on school...before you get stuck. Older men tend to demand more, because they have more mature grown men needs. I'm not even going to lie to you...I'm scared for you. Be careful sweety. Be his friend first...if he loves you like he says he does...he will wait for you!!! Good Luck!!!
2007-12-22 15:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by KM07 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i think its ok if u r together jus as long as he dont get u pregnant, cuz later on in life age wont matter at all. i member wen i was 14 i was dating a 21 year old and my parents told me to be careful. well im 16 now and we still talk but we had to break up because he almost got in trouble. and i think its better to wait til ur 18 inless u wanna be dating him though bars u kno wat i mean. but in the mean time let him date other girls. i do and he still tells me he loves me. and i think wen i turn he will still want me. well if ya have ne questions u can email me at molinabreanna@yahoo.com and ill try me best to help u!good luck!!
2007-12-22 15:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow. ok i like older men but I think that over five years is too much. at least until you're eighteen!!! trust me!!! they only want one thing. i was thirteen dating an eighteen year old, i didn't believe everyone at first then i got over him and now realize that i would still be a virgin, and i wasted two years over him because of complete lust!! good luck =] Merry Xmas!
2007-12-22 14:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by LaBella 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You do realize he should be on Dateline right? 23 year olds who want 13 year olds aren't looking for an intellectual relationship.
To Hot Fuss: OMG lyke he luvssssssss her!!!!111!!!111!!!
2007-12-22 14:56:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if your that young he is breaking the law! He may love you but i highly doubt he actually loves you... You are probably just a fresh peice of meat.... Most men you date girls that young are predators or your just young and fresh and all they want is a peice of ***....
2007-12-22 14:58:02 · answer #10 · answered by hello 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋