I need some help.
me and my boyfriend r really good and been together nearly a year, but it seems things r not as hot as they used to be! :(
i don't rly make an effort wit my clothes atm and really need to! has any one got ne ideas for sum sassy tips on how to blow him away by my looks, i am a pretty good looking lass and have done modelling but i feel as i havent been making an effort for a bit! i want to be the girl he looks at and goes wow, such as those gorjus girls u see in the street! come on!! xxxxxxxxxx
2007-12-22 07:06:24 · 14 answers · asked by L-Marie! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i already do wear a fair bit of makeup but i need to update it
2007-12-22 07:09:14 · update #1
If he really loves you, than looks won't be an issue.
2007-12-22 07:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing that not making an effort with your clothes means sweats or hoodies or something. I think just taking an interest in yourself is a very big start. That is the difference between you and the girls on the street. They dont just wake up and bam they look hot!. I would start styling your hair that would flatter your face. I would put on a soft, feminine blouse. The main thing is confidence in who you are because men are always going to look @ other girls. I dont care how gorgeous you are.
2007-12-22 07:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being the woman of yours. If you don't like yourself for who you are that negatively will destroy all of your relationships.
If you are pleased with how you look..your own effort into clothes, appearance, etc., he will feel that and it will be a turn-on. Trying "for him" will come across as you being needy and clingy and he won't be able to run to the door fast enough to leave you.
I get the sense that you aren't very happy with your efforts. So try doing what makes you feel good about yourself and see what his reaction is.
2007-12-22 07:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by GeriGeri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a sammich. . thats all u need .. is a nice healthy tasty sammich. if things are "stale" not that im saying it is that was the first thing to pop in my noggin. if he does look at other chicks then maybe yeah it is the lack of change, . . just be spontaneous about it. like the one chick said some lingerie will help. . . or maybe he's just a horsesass!? a little here n there should do the trick
2007-12-22 07:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to get in to the frame of mind that its your first date again and maybe your lapse is due partially to him not responding the same way as he use to so dont blame yourself completely. and maybe it isnt as asthetic as you think but more pyschological. if a woman looks at me in a certain way i couldnt tell you what she is wearing 2 mins later its the look that does it not whats on the outside.
not saying that to see agorgeous woman on the street is great but to me i will remember the look i get more and for longer
2007-12-22 07:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your hair and put some slap on. Maybe pop to a lingerie shop or if you have small boobs Primark have a good range that is fairly cheap and sexy. Be yummy, not slummy.
2007-12-22 07:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by Charlene 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like a pretty easy fix
just make an effort he will notice the difference
2007-12-22 07:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring another woman into the mix! 3sums are hot!
2007-12-22 07:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by May-May`s mommy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be yourself, live life, don't be material or superficial, worry about being with someone who appreciates you and not the time or money you spend on your looks.
2007-12-22 07:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by E F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrap yourself in see through cling film for when he gets home
2007-12-22 07:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋