Family & Relationships - 22 December 2007

my daughter keeps saying the same phrase over and over again " oh my goodness" I told her I would like her to stop and she said "if you don't want me to say it then you need to give me something else that is cooler to say instead" So I come to you asking to PLEASE HELP! I need a "cooler" replacement phrase

2007-12-22 10:15:34 · 9 answers · asked by dobber1989 1 in Family

I am 28. Just got married. My oldest sister is 37 and we've always been close. She did not want to be in my wedding because she claims she "couldn't afford it", although I would've paid for her things and not expect that she spend anything. IMHO I believe it is because she spends her life not wanting to commit to anything and avoiding any sort of "obligated" responsibility. Fast forward to the wedding - she stayed for the ceremony, and then left right at the beginning of the reception because her 5 year old son was "acting up". Since she's had her son, she has avoided functions/gatherings because he is "cranky". One year she didn't even show up to Thanksgiving dinner (in the same city) because her son was "acting cranky". Her son DOES seem to act much younger behaviorally than his age, but she refuses to seek any professional opinion & just plans her life around whether or not he's going to throw a tantrum. This is nothing new to my family. But since the wedding I've had sour feelings.

2007-12-22 10:13:39 · 11 answers · asked by High Fructose Corn Syrup 2 in Family

Do you ever worry that you wont ever meet anyone and you'll be single for the rest of your like?

I know i do, just didnt know if i was being stupid, ppl keep telling me that i am but it might never happen. I'd hate to be single all my life!!

2007-12-22 10:12:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It doesn't really bother me. Should it? And is there anyone else out there who's parents do this?If so, how did you take it? I'm 18 by the way.

2007-12-22 10:09:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm dating this guy in he always say this( i'm get u be4 u get me) Assuming-attachment-
I kind of like him a little; He 34 years old- What are the signs he likes me?

2007-12-22 10:09:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have gotten my heart borken bye so many stupid *** guys i just dont know what i should do. i have tried so hard to give up on guys. but i alwways fall for them. its like they flirt and try to do stuff to make me fall in love with them. please help me i have no idea what i should do. all this love **** is making me fal apart. i have lost so many good friends over stupid **** like this. please yahoo and anyone who answers this. i need help.

2007-12-22 10:03:47 · 8 answers · asked by *Its_Brittn3y_b!tch* 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been told by many girls that my one major downfall is that im clingy. is this necessarily a bad thing? how can i be less clingy??

2007-12-22 10:02:17 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother attacked a cabbie at knife point. They fought over the knife and the cabbie was injured on the hands requiring surgery. He ran from the police and hid until his wife took him to the hospital where he lied and said he blacked out and fell over a curb. His wife called my mom and told her what really happened. Neither of the two would do anything so I called the police and turned him in. He has gotten really bad on crack and steals even from the family and has been in treatment it seems forever. Now with this step he has moved up and I was worried about my mom and my own family. Did I do the right thing?

2007-12-22 10:00:56 · 9 answers · asked by Scooter McAsscrackin 3 in Family

like anniversaries, birthdays, holidays and whatever else you can think of. so do you? and why or why not? just curious.

thanks for your comments! :)

2007-12-22 09:56:32 · 2 answers · asked by smiles 2 in Singles & Dating

i want to let him kno i like him too but idk how.........i know he likes me because im almost always the first one he talks to when he signs in on aim.....but i kno he likes two ppl, and one of them is this girl i hate, and he wont tell me the other.....what do i do?

2007-12-22 09:53:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got a new dog and she bites alot of people. She seems to be okay when my other dog isnt around so we think she needs to be on her own. I cant give her away though. I'm 16 but will be 17 on christmas day. so my sister made the statement well you can move out any time now so i want to take the dog and look for a place now to make her happy. so is it legal to move out at the age of 17 in the state of pennsylvania?

2007-12-22 09:47:23 · 5 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Family

As a present for Christmas.
Thank you.

2007-12-22 09:45:11 · 6 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5 in Friends

ok, so theres this guy i like and everybody says he likes me even his friends (he doesnt have close friends) should i tell him keeping in mind hes one of those people who would never let me live it down if he didnt like me.... what should i do? tips anyone?

2007-12-22 09:42:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-22 09:38:22 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok ...so me n this guy have been dating for about 5 months now....my guyfriend (who is friends with my bf and is my best friend) is sort of...acting different. He doesnt like to see my bf hug me or give me a little kiss or even put his arm around me. Once we were watching a movie n my bf had his arm around me and he slid right in the middle...i have to say it was kinda funny but my bf didnt think much of it. My best friends just always looking out for me..especially with guys..he doesnt really like the fact i have a bf at the moment ...but its starting to bug me....he calls me all the time and thats fine hes like a brother to me....thats wat i tell him .....but i cant talk to him constanly anymore...i have a bf n i dont want him getting the wrong idea....wat should i do? am i wrong to wanna kinda step back from my best friend? i dont wanna lose him...i just want him to calm down a little n try to get uesed to the fact. wat should i do?

2007-12-22 09:37:52 · 9 answers · asked by Blueeyedbaby 2 in Singles & Dating

dollars a month, and plus have to pay utilites. I live in a big studio apartment that inculdes electric & water for 575 month. I was just wondering how someone can feel good about where they live by paying rent over $1000 dollars? (I know that this is not the category to ask this type of question, but I will get the most responces here.)

2007-12-22 09:33:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I figure if he lies about little **** theres no tellin what kind of major **** he lies about!! I have proof but I dont know if I should reveal where I get my info from.

2007-12-22 09:33:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont really have any luck when it comes to guys.My recent ex left me for someone ale.Do you think i will eventually find the right gut?

2007-12-22 09:31:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont really have any luck when it comes to guys.My recent ex left me for someone ale.Do you think i will eventually find the right gut?

2007-12-22 09:31:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm Thirteen years old and I really like these two guys.Both of these guys are great and i see myself being with one of them for a long time.Is it too early to be thinking about having sex.Is thirteen too young?what age do you think i should do it

2007-12-22 09:30:35 · 24 answers · asked by I walk Alone 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 09:30:16 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're friends and, well, people always tease us (cuz we're always 2gether in the halls at school) saying that we make a cute couple. well, when people say things like that the thoughts eventually pop into your head, and i started getting feelings for her. on friday her friend asked why we were always together and if i would consider going out with her(the girl i like)

The problem is... I have a bad past with rushing into relationships so i considered taking this slowly, so when her friend asked that, i got nervous and defensive and instead of saying "maybe" i said "no, i only like her as a friend, that's it" she looked a little disappointed and said "...[sigh] okay..."
We just started christmas break so i can't talk to her friend for another 2 weeks to fix what i said.
How can i tell if this girl i like already spoke with her friend?(without asking!!!)
and if she did, how can i let her know that i DO like her without making her think that i'm just playling some kind of game?

2007-12-22 09:27:00 · 1 answers · asked by Redinez 1 in Singles & Dating

okays a guy friend told me this "____ for you i'd do anything...
maybe not ANYTHING but more than you would imagine." (the blank is my name)
^what is that suppose to mean?
he tells me he likes me all the time and he calls me cute like playfully he asks me "___, why are you so cutee?" he also remembers the things i tell him. when other guys flirt with me, he gets mad most of the time and so now none of his guy friends dare to talk to me. then again i never really talked to most of them to begin with. and this one time i got vey angry at him and didnt talk to him for a week. my friends told me he was sad the whole time and kept asking me why i wasnt talking to him. at the end he imed me apologizing for everything he did and told me he couldnt stand not talking to me for this long and bunch of stuff. so i forgave him...

everyone keeps telling me he likes me... in your opinion does he?

2007-12-22 09:22:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think Mr. Right is gonna come to you on a Golden plate?

Don't you think you have to Fight to have this privilege?
Modern women you got to struggle to grab the chance of having Mr. Right, he's a rare item nowadays, a lot of competition is going to find him.

What do you say?

2007-12-22 09:19:44 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

when i talk to my boyfriend on the phone at night hes like "walk down here"
so i tell him no because we live a good distance apart, and then hes like "let me call you back in like, 2 minutes"
well he calls back about a half hour later...
this happens almost every night.
and he always gets "beeps" from girls on the phone at night, too.
im starting to think that just because i wont walk down, hes gonna call someone else up that lives closer and cheat on me with them.

how can i know .?
oh, and he's on probation therefore he cant walk down to my house... :/

plus, this girl sent me a message (his ex who hates me because im dating him now) and said this
: http://i196.photobucket.com/albums/aa2/halle_v/cheatingNOT.jpg

which i doubt since they're both, well, "not his type"

please help ]:

2007-12-22 09:18:33 · 7 answers · asked by halleee_xox 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't mean to be rude but the word c*nt was obviously my parents taught me that it was a very bad word even worse than fcuker etc. But what does c*nt mean exactely?

2007-12-22 09:15:25 · 7 answers · asked by Ciara 6 in Friends

ok, im dateing this guy and i find out this other guy likes me. he found out that i found out that he likes me, and now he won't stop calling me.
WHAT DO I DO?!??!?!??!?!?!?!

2007-12-22 09:12:12 · 15 answers · asked by supersexy 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom suffered a stroke about a month ago and although she is better now, the doctors will not let her come home. I was wondering on how to deal with it. My mom has been gone for a month and I miss her so much. I've been crying all day and I was wondering what advice you guys could give me. Everyone else has been saying that I've been whining. Please give me some advice. It would be appreciated.

2007-12-22 09:11:58 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

2007-12-22 09:10:12 · 9 answers · asked by lady jag 3 in Friends

And no he's not staring at me because he doesn't like my hair or clothes and I've never have had anything stuck in my teeth, lol. His look seems like an admiring look, but how can I know for sure without asking him or someone else? When I pass him he looks at me, doesn't say hi, and then as soon as I make eye contact with him he looks away. I like him a lot and want to go out with him, but I don't want to ask him for the risk of him saying no or worse that he already has a girlfriend. Also, I usually like to wait for the guy to ask me out (call me old fashion but I'm really not at all like that) because I don't want to make him feel insecure even though I don't think he would feel that way. I think he's too afraid to ask me out. Maybe we could become better friends first. Is there anyway to become better friends with this guy (btw I work with him)?

2007-12-22 09:08:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating