Family & Relationships - 22 December 2007

Is it a big deal if your boyfriend tells people intimate details of your relationship? I'm talking about physical details here.
I don't like it, but he doesn't understand what the big deal is. Am I being silly?
I'm in high school if that changes anything.

thanks.

2007-12-22 10:51:32 · 12 answers · asked by cocobeware 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 10:51:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have knwon this guy for about a year, we just started dating a month ago. He was divorced 2 years ago and has a 10 year old daughter that he has everyother weekend, this weekend he wants me to hangout and watch a movie with him and his daughter, is it too soon for only dating a month to be meeting his daughter? what do you think?

2007-12-22 10:47:56 · 7 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

i have this friend that i talk to sometimes and he is also friends with my bf in fact they play soccer together and today he told me that "i was fun to talk to" and i thot he was just saying that and i said "yeah i no what can i say" and he goes "your awesome you can say that =)". idk but i kinda get a feeling that he likes me but idk what to do cause i have a bf and i dont like him then just more than a friend. do you think he likes me or is he just being a really good friend?

2007-12-22 10:47:03 · 10 answers · asked by poop 3 in Singles & Dating

my mom doesnt let me have freedom i dont know what happend to her should i fight with her or just leave her alone

2007-12-22 10:46:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-22 10:43:24 · 12 answers · asked by John F 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy and I have been together off and on for just about 5 years, I love him very much and I know he loves me. The thing is that he has this ex that just won't seem to go away and i know he has feelings for her. And he told me his self that right now he can't be with just one girl but he wants me in his life and doesn't want me to see other people. He's my first everything and I've been with since i was 16 and I don't know if I should let him go or not?

2007-12-22 10:42:14 · 21 answers · asked by Janay 1 in Singles & Dating

what does this mean??

2007-12-22 10:41:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's grose. She always smells and it annoys me because shes so moody and angry all the time...

I want to tell her that she should look after herself better. But she will just get angry.

Shes 12. I'm 13

2007-12-22 10:41:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hey, I'm 18 and I started recently having sex and such - its great! BUT this includes oral sex. Obviously a guy can use a comdom in oral sex (we don't but I know that would work). But is there a way the girl can do the same at all? Obviously I'm "helping her out" with my mouth there, but is there a way to protect from catching stuff? Thx people. I know I'm being niave, but I've only just gone to uni, (was at almost all boys school first). Thanks very much.

2007-12-22 10:40:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im so p******d off, i am not clumsy but things like this always seem to happen to me, its just typical im staying @ my parents house and my mum is very house proud, i went upstaris to toilet in dark cos i didnt want to wake my dad,, must have slightly brushed against the wall and a small paitnignt and of course it f****** fell straiiiiight to the floor!
i thought sh***t, frame was cracked so i tried to repair ot with glass + picture but the f****** glass cracked, this is so not fair, well that was it i though im f*****d, ill have to own up thing is im in my 20's but in my teenage yrs it was a nightmare they used 2 blame me for everything, things i didnt do, they alwasy always blamed me for it. so now i know my dad will have the hump if i say, i feel like i should say but i dont want them to have the hump especially @ xmas, this is so unfair i was being careful they will say i must have been bashing aginast the walls they will not belive, should i say ? they treat me like kid

2007-12-22 10:40:18 · 17 answers · asked by fairycake 1 in Family

I think they do... course they do.. I'm male, and I would never go out with a woman if say she looked like a man... that's the whole point, I'm attracted to FEMALES. Female body, female lips female characteristics. Saying looks don't matter... is like saying that you would date a man if he had a female personality... Looks DO matter. Looks + personality are both essential. and that's not shallowness. There has to be a sexual attraction. Eventually it dies down to personality in the long long run but looks do matter. I just hate lying to make people feel better about themselves and their life.

2007-12-22 10:40:12 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He’s in my high school and I never felt like this for any guy except him. He flirted with me a lot, ex: touch my head, trips me, shuts my locker, mimics me, and like teases me. We were talking and he said “I would never cheat on my wife” and my teacher said “so you would not cheat on (my name)” But when he said that we both were making puking noise and saying eww. My whole class was stop trying to hide it we know you both like each other. But then he asked out some other girl, I got really heart broken. I kind of started acting mean to him and he tried to talk to me and he kept staring at me in the lunch line and in the hallways. At class he was like “Im going to go see my girlfriend” and I said “okay” and he said “do u know who she is?” I said “yah but you guys are really weird, you guys don’t hold hands or anything.” And he said “FINE I WILL HOLD HER HAND NEXT BLOCK” but he didn’t. Now they are going to break up and again he started to tease me and started to talk to me. I don’t know what his problem is, and I cant get over him.

2007-12-22 10:38:12 · 6 answers · asked by -LIfeLovingBabe- 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I want to know a man that speaks in english... add me:
angelicajcastilho@hotmail.com
kisses!!

2007-12-22 10:38:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been together for two years and no we don't live together but I honestly thought he loved me enough to want to get married but he said he doesn't want to get married again since he was married before and has a couple of kids from that marriage. I don't get it at all. Why doesn't he want to be with me? Should I just dump him and find someone who does want to get married? or should I give him an ultimnum first?

2007-12-22 10:36:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In todays modern world, is it possible to marry only once and live happily ever after till the end?
Its always divorce nowadays - which means lawyers are becoming very rich.

2007-12-22 10:34:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a month, tomorrow. Even before we were dating, when we were just friends, we had a very physical relationship; hugs, tickle-fights, and the like. So it's not that surprising that we're very intimate. But... Well, we've only been dating for a month, and he's already unbuttoned my blouse completely, pulled my sweaters off over my head, undid my bra... I won't get too detailed here, but we have a very physical relationship.
We've never actually had sex, or anything, though, but I can feel it headed that way, and I tend to feel like a slut after he leaves.
So... are we moving too fast? I really don't want to lose this guy, and I don't necessarily have a problem with what's going on right now (It's not like I've never gone this ar before, but over a longer span of time) I just don't want it to go any further.
Would it be all right to talk to him about that now, or should I just stop him if he tries anything more?

2007-12-22 10:33:55 · 14 answers · asked by LittleLost 3 in Singles & Dating

my wife an i have been married for 2 years, we have a beautiful baby girl, after my daughter was born her sex drive went away, i know all the reasons why, and all the medical mumbo jumbo. i just want to know if there is anything we can do to get it back up. i love my wife alot and i love being with her. we use to make love at least 3 time a week. now im lucky if i get it once a month. plus she is GREATLY against masturbation. so if there is anything she can do or take, or anything i can do please help!

2007-12-22 10:32:00 · 15 answers · asked by David B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I have had such a bad week. I found out I have bad grades in most my classes. My sister and I got i a fight and she called me mean names, said I wasn't her family, then told my mom that I did all that, my bro got separated and I won't see him or my niece for Christmas, my extended fam who I dont like are now spending Christmas with us, I missed my breakfast with my friends, found out I can't go to camp, parents missed their Christmas bonus, really miss the guy I like whom I havent seen since July, and found out I won't be seeing him this Christmas, and just spent 5 hrs making Christmas cookies, even though I didn't want to, then my dgs ate them. Plus my dogs are already really old and sick. Plus, I still have to finish my Christmas shopping. My rooms a disaster and the list goes on and on. Mostly I just feel lonely bc no one knows how I feel and bc I won't be seeing the guy I like.

How to cheer up right before Christmas?? Thanks to all...

2007-12-22 10:31:29 · 1 answers · asked by djdanger92 3 in Friends

2007-12-22 10:30:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a great guy for the past 2 months and everything seems to be going well. He includes me in his future plans the only thing is he doesn't seem to want to introduce me to his family or any of his friends. I have mentioned meeting his parents in various none serious conversations but he seems to clam up and change the subject. Do you think I should be worried? How soon do guys usually bring their girlfriends home?

2007-12-22 10:30:19 · 9 answers · asked by Yaz 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 19 and i had to move back home for Christmas break (i live in the dorms at school) and my dad insists that "its the principle" that i still have an 11:00 curfew. He is the most stuborn person; how can i get him to trust me and let me stay out later? Im desperate to live my own life and have him stop controlling it.

2007-12-22 10:30:04 · 7 answers · asked by alpal000 2 in Family

1 i was buying lunch he was staring at me 2 at p.e he was staring at me he also smiled at me we were watching a movie in p.e he was staring at me i looked at him he was still staring 3 when we run laps at p.e i run with my friend he and his friend run by us when they can run alot faster then us what does this mean?????????????????????

2007-12-22 10:29:26 · 10 answers · asked by missa 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 10:25:09 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I am at my boyfriend's apartment, he will try to get me to lie down with him in his bed. I've told him that I'm not ready for sex, and he knows this. He will say things like, "I promise I will not take off your pants. I just want to lie down with you?" What do you think?

2007-12-22 10:24:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy and he has a gf but he flirts wit me all the time and i flirt back so would you concider that a skank...he doesn't even like his gf that much

2007-12-22 10:23:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm not the kind of person who overanalyzes things. let me just say that to begin with.

but my ex boyfriend is always around. it's almost getting ridiculous now! we ended up next to one another in two classes for the year! i ran into him at target today. and it goes on...and on.

it's kind of uncomfortable...but that's life i guess.

anyway today, we had to write a math poem in math class, and then read it out loud. (what a lame assignment considering we're like, 18?)

so my ex-boyfriend wrote about breaking up. it went like "dear math, i'm sorry to say, i have to break up. i don't like you like i used to..."

well anyway he won the class prize. do you think this poem had anything to do with me?


he broke up with me, and it was really sad. i don't know why he did it. we haven't really spoken since, just here and there about random stuff.

2007-12-22 10:23:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I did not mean to pressure you Maria. I know that you do not like to be told what to do. That is what I like most about you. It makes you look very sexy.

I am very sorry about how the way I been acting towards you and I hope you forgive me.

Christmas is coming, New Years is coming and my love for you will not go away over night.

Valentine day is coming and I know that I do not want anyone but you on that day. I want to plan something big and special for you but I know it would not be possible.

I am thinking of all kind of ways to make you happy Maria. That is what love is about. Thinking of the other person who you are with and that person wanting to be with you.

You kiss is the best I have ever had in my life. You smile is the best that I have ever seen. You are very precious Maria and I will always love you.

I promise I will not pressure you into being with me. I will always be kind to you and nice from now on. My life is for you and I want to be in yours. Love

2007-12-22 10:20:33 · 18 answers · asked by JOHN T 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 10:18:25 · 10 answers · asked by dodi_22d4 1 in Singles & Dating

i am getting a divorce but he does not want to i have made it clear to him that i dont want to be with him any more but he is alone for christmas he has no family and hardly any friends i am scared if i get him a present it might lead him on but i feel bad for him

2007-12-22 10:17:27 · 9 answers · asked by chancireese 2 in Marriage & Divorce