Family & Relationships - 22 December 2007

2007-12-22 11:34:04 · 10 answers · asked by psycho magnet 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay there is this guy I work with and we seem to be giving each other some non-verbal cues.

So for a few months now we see each other and look each other in eye and we smile or say "hi"....

About a month ago I was walking past his cube and he was talking to a co-worker and he lifted his head and his eyes caught mine and we stayed in that intense stare until I passed.

I didn't see him again until this last Monday. I gave him his x-mas card and in a really super sweet voice he said "ahhhhh thank you...." and then I ran away like a dork..

I gave another nearby co-worker a card and a "grow a nerd" and I explained the grow a nerd to him......well this guy I liked went up to him and asked him about it when I left! I wish he would have asked me about it as he heard me discussing.

So on wednesday and thursday we see each other again. Again it's that eye contact and that "hi" thing....

I like him a lot but don't want to push it. Do you think he is feeling something too?

2007-12-22 11:33:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so me and my girlfriend strictly made rules about certain things that we cant do when we go out. shes visting her cuzins house for the weekend and i told her that if she goes out dont do anything that she knows will make me mad or jealous. shes agrees not to. so later that day i find out she gets drunk, which we both agree not to do, she cuts me off on the fone because she listens to the guys that tell her "no boyfriends aloud"...she almost smokes a cigarette but her cuzin stopped her from doing it...ya, she did sum things that i wouldnt want her to do or like to hear. but overall she didnt make out with guys or have any guys make out with her...should i get mad over those lil things she did, or just look at the bigger picture and realize that she didnt cheat on me or anything and be happy?...we say we both love each other, and we do. but now i kinda lost trust in her...should i be worried?

2007-12-22 11:32:50 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you name your baby if it had 4 heads ?
I personally believe it would be a pain in the neck, what do you think ?

Would it cause you to get a divorce or to cheat on your spouse?

2007-12-22 11:32:20 · 15 answers · asked by Dr. Knowe Nuthing 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i don't know what to do. like where do i put my hands and stuff like that. and he's a few inches taller than me so he kinda well yeah. he's tried too kiss me one time but then we got interrupted by his friend but i need tips on what to do and how to do it. if yew couldn't tell its my first kiss.

2007-12-22 11:29:57 · 8 answers · asked by michelle b 2 in Singles & Dating

Been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I always thought we loved each other until now. I feel that there is a lot of selfishness in the relationship. We're both in college, and this past semester wasn't good. We fought everyday about the smallest things. We stopped enjoying each others' time and a lot of immaturity happened. When I try and discuss things with him he blames everything on me. He's a great person, but I want so badly for him to love me, and he says he feels smothered and that I'm trying too hard. He tells me he wants to marry me too, but sometimes I don't know if we're strong enough for marriage. I want someone who will encourage me and be sensitive to my needs; not tell me how my insecurities are stupid. I just don't know if that exists. He's a great boyfriend; he'd never cheat on me, and we do love each other. When i try and talk things out he'll hang up the phone on me and says it's a waste of time. Yet I do love him and he loves me. What do I do?

2007-12-22 11:28:14 · 13 answers · asked by Consultant 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A year ago I was confronted with my wife's infidility, I gave my marriage a change. Though there is very little intinacy between us and she will never say I love you, has a seperate bank acount which is ok but I can't use her laundry powder etc. Last week she gone to visit her mother overseas for two months away. The day before when she was packing her bags and later in the days we were driving to do some shopping when she came out of the blue well I will be countings your condoms when I come back. I was so surprised and wonder what she was on about so I just looked at her and said nothing, then she said well you probably know I have two Nova rings (birthcontrol) which I have given away to my friend. I just said what ever and said nothing else as she was quite angry about something. A week later at work I am now thinking her friend does not even have a close relationship with anyone. She will be away for two months while our marriage seemed distant and she does that for giving me trust

2007-12-22 11:28:08 · 13 answers · asked by maleinaus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in highschool and guys use me "just to get with me" and i guess they think i'm easy, but what i really want is a steady boyfriend. There are these girls in my school who just always have boyfriends...and i'm one of those people who guys only use. What kinds of things to guys look for in a girlfriend and what is the difference between a girlfriend and the way guys see me? Thanks.

2007-12-22 11:25:45 · 10 answers · asked by bria422000 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 11:24:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should you do if you hate a guy with a deep passion and then he asks you out with flowers and chocolates?!

2007-12-22 11:23:35 · 6 answers · asked by Nessy 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my mom is a hypocrite. and she thinks that she is always right and each time she doesnt get it her way she starts to yell and get all pissed off and i am like WTF. then i try to speak up she ends up coming back with "do you treat me like your mom"
Also my parents get in arguments a lot and it is always my mom who starts the argument with my dad because my dad does not want to give his opinion because if he gives the wrong one my mom will go BALLISTIC on him.

when ever i see that happen in my head iam like "SHUT THE F*** up both of you guys are so stupid "

what should i do because its getting the the point where i am about to slap both of them in the face and yell the crap out of them.

2007-12-22 11:19:24 · 14 answers · asked by BNR34RB26 1 in Family

There is this girl that really likes me she is a girl and is 10 years older than me though!Age doesn't matter and I go for guys but don't know if I should give her a chance! It would be something new! I want to try it just for the hell of trying something new! What is your take on lesbian relationships? I am not ******* Cristian so dateing a girl is not a problem religiously for me!!!!

2007-12-22 11:18:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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I have brown hair and brown eyes. Im tall (6ft) and I have an athletic body (160lbs) Im kind and funny. Im kinda quiet but if I like you Im not. I like to watch movies and listen to music. I play all sports. I play football, baseball, soccer, and basketball. I love to swim and be on the beach. Im always tan in the summer. I actually love to cook. I love to draw. Im italian and can speak it pretty good too.

2007-12-22 11:18:27 · 17 answers · asked by Ciao Bella is Love Drunk 6 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so there is going to be a season 2? HOW STUPID. she kept saying how bobby is the one she wants to be with forever, and mtv is plannaing a shot at love, season 2? wtf.

2007-12-22 11:17:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this guy who is adorable and his ex wife of 9 years left him for another guy, they have a daughter togetehr also. I saw pictures of her and she is not pretty at all. He is so sweet and adorable, why would she leave him and hurt him?

2007-12-22 11:16:21 · 18 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 11:15:48 · 10 answers · asked by Theresa J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i met this guy a year ago when he was going through his divorce so I stayed away because i did not want the drama.I would see him here and there at this local bar and we would make small talk.a month ago we started dating and now are a couple.he has a 10 yr old daughter that he has everyother weekend.i met her a year ago but I have not met her since then,this weekend he wants me to hangout with him and her,should I? Is it too soon? he is a great guy,but im afraid of the x(which has had a boyfriend for the past two years)and the drama,yah know?should I stick with him though?

2007-12-22 11:10:30 · 4 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 11:09:04 · 16 answers · asked by Sweet Judy 7 in Family

2007-12-22 11:07:08 · 4 answers · asked by Sweet Judy 7 in Friends

I have been really confused about everything and I can't stop it! I'm just getting more and more confused everytime people talk to me. I just have problems with my ex (Kaijor) saying my boyfriend's name every 2 minutes, my friendship with this guy is going nowhere and just that mixed feelings between my boyfriend and my ex (Sunny). so what should I do to stop making me so confused right now? plz be honest! Thanks so much for answering my question and I will check on this later!

-ConfusedGirlForever *(Diane N)*

2007-12-22 11:06:46 · 15 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 in Singles & Dating

My ex girlfriend( I am a guy) Thinks she is a gay all of a sudden, and is living with her new Dike lover. The two of them sleep in the same bed in a 4,000 sq ft home, and carry on a full lesbain affiar in front of my ex's 7 year old daughter. People, do you think this is healthy in front of the little girl?

2007-12-22 11:04:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is so mean to mee but if i tell her that i dont want to be her friend she will turn my whole school agaisnt me and blow my secret!!!!!!

2007-12-22 11:03:24 · 4 answers · asked by Lexsie O 1 in Friends

I mean I was devastated, but had a mute reaction.

2007-12-22 11:00:00 · 6 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5 in Friends

The ex boyfriend I love?
The ex boyfriend i love?
I had a boyfriend 2 years ago (our school only has 40 students in the grade) He was kind understanding and a little shy. I felt guilty not telling my parents, cause im not allowed to. I broke up with him still liking him. but now he has a girlfriend. He soemtimes gives me the look that he likes me. guys are confusing. They sometimes seem like they are over each other. but i dont want to break them up or anything. if they did break up What do I do to show him i like him?
I dont want him to be my boyfriend just a guy that likes me and I like too.
I told him why and hes not a jerk
Besides the fact that i cant have a boyfriend.
How do I talk to him? when? where? what do I say? What about his Girlfriend? Help!

2007-12-22 10:58:54 · 3 answers · asked by Laurel S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 10:58:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I fell in love with a 25 year old guy. We have been together now for over a year. My parents are divorced. He met my dads side of the family and they all love him. Now its time for me to tell my mother. We are really in love. He has been nothing but great to me. I have never been so into school and my grades have never been this great. Everything has been better in my life. I get along with my parents better and im just happy. Any advice on telling my mom? Im very scared to tell her. Btw im under 18. Let me know what you think. Thanks



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The reason i have not told my mom yet is because i live with her. My father found out on his own but was fine with it after he met him. He also moved across the country to be with me. I have been lucky enough to get away with it for this long. There has been some close calls but she still does not know. I am going to tell her today. Just need some advice on what to say

2007-12-22 10:58:27 · 11 answers · asked by Mary A 1 in Family

My finace has two sons 10 and 12. I have two sons 8 and 11. The boys get along well and are in the same school district. Here is the problem. His 12 year old hangs around with a bad influence. Fiance knows but has not yet forbidden his son from hanging around with this kid. We have had discussions about this before. The school is even spliltting the two up and putting them in seperate classes at the beginning of Jan. I found out last night that bad influence was looking at porn on 12 year old's mother's computer. So, that means 12 year old was too.
Here is my problem.... I have tried to raise my two sons in a christian, religious home. Pornography is not acceptable in my mind, especially for minors. I do not want my children to be exposed to such things.
Fiance has had a "talk" with his son, but as I said has not yet forbidden him from hanging with bad influence. Finace usually listens to my opinions and has made changes in the past. He was not the one to tell me about this. Advice??

2007-12-22 10:58:24 · 10 answers · asked by Dani Bosco 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to compare answers to what I did in reality.

2007-12-22 10:57:19 · 20 answers · asked by JJPITTIE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I be pissed about this? Last year he got me some good stuff, valentines day I got nothing, my birthday I got nothing, our anniversary nother, and I bought him a 35 dollar hat that he really wanted. Should I be pissed?


Btw I didn't get him gifts for those his birthday and our anniversary either BUT only because he didn't want one.

2007-12-22 10:56:05 · 10 answers · asked by Kristen J 1 in Singles & Dating

after a man ejaculates, the last thing that's on his mind, is sex, and he almost is repulsed by the thought, and when he thinks about gettting lovey dovey with a girl, he'd pass?

2007-12-22 10:54:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating