Family & Relationships - 22 December 2007

Would you be more likely to want an ex-gf is she goes above and beyond calling & texting you letting you know how much she wants you back OR would you want her back more if she just stopped calling and didn't congtact you at all and started dating s/o else?

(I really want me ex-bf back and have tried calling and texting quite a bit letting him know how I feel about him and that I want him back - he broke up w/ me b/c we got pretty serious about each other pretty quick & it really scared him - i KNOW he misses me and has strong feelings for me - anyway, that hasn't worked and the last text I sent told him I was going on a date and wouldn't go if he told me not to - he didn't respond. Do I have a better chance getting him back by leaving things the way they are and letting him think I am moving on or should I send him another text letting him know I still want him back???)

Which approach would make you more likely to want to get back together???

2007-12-22 09:07:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i know the obvious answer but im not talking about that. lets keep this non X rated. :D if you are sitting on the cough with them and he puts his arm around you.. what is he expecting?

2007-12-22 09:03:35 · 4 answers · asked by ask me a question! 2 in Singles & Dating

she says its certain things a guy does to make her trust them what is it? how can i prove to her im trust worthy?

2007-12-22 09:01:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I go out on a date with a guy, we have a great time and we agree to see each other the very next weekend. We talk on the phone or through IM all week leading up to that weekend. Then Friday comes around and he never calls or talks to me again. What is up with that? If he didn't like me then why did he continue to talk to me after that date!

2007-12-22 09:00:10 · 4 answers · asked by splattered12 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I'm completely interested in, and he approaced me first. We've known each other for about a month and he just told me he's falling in love with me. Mind you this guy has had marriage on the brain before we even met, so I don't know if I can take him seriously. I don't know if he's caught up in this idea of it all or what. He keeps telling me that he means it genuinely and he's only now trying to fight back his feelings because I don't love him back. I could fall for this guy, but I still feel like I wanna get to know him. He has a different culture and I'm in the tradition where you date a person for a while before anything is set in stone. He's long-distance too. Can his love truly be real if we've only known each other for a month? I've asked him, but I'm not entirely convinced.

2007-12-22 08:59:02 · 7 answers · asked by Story Unknown 5 in Marriage & Divorce

how often do u finger urself plz tell me its important it can save my relationship dont ask how but just anwser me

2007-12-22 08:57:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There us this boy who I really like and I think he might like me back. On the last day of school, he mentioned me to my friend in another period and she says I was the subject of their conversation for a while. She said that he told his other friend that I was nice. Is it possible he likes me?

2007-12-22 08:57:35 · 3 answers · asked by gmoya 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 08:56:17 · 10 answers · asked by louise d 6 in Family

I have so much envy for happy married couples. I guess some guys are just plain super lucky to have a nice woman by their sides.

2007-12-22 08:55:23 · 18 answers · asked by Pain_of_Unhappiness2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Or do they always win

2007-12-22 08:54:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im 17 and my boyfriend is 20. Im a senior, graduating in May. We have been dating for 3 years and 7 months. Its never been any suprise that we wanted to get married one day.. But when he perposed to me today i was kind of in shock.. Of course I said yes because I absolutly know I want to spend the rest of my life with him. But setting the date for the wedding has been the problem. I plan on going to college and majoring in radiology, but it could be many years if we put off the wedding until after i graduate.. how hard is it to be married in college?

2007-12-22 08:52:21 · 12 answers · asked by CountryGirlygirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It has been 11 years since my mother and I had tough times. She showed me absolutely no stability with her lifestyle and the way she treated me (silent treatment, telling me things like I would amount to nothing, kicking me out of the house well over 15 times for arguing back with her and I was not that bad of a teenager). We 'made up' quite some time ago and had what seemed to be a healthier relationship but I find myself getting so angry with her for the littlest things, ignoring her for weeks at a time because of something small she said or did. To be honest (and I know this is so mean) I can't really stand her. The thought of being around her for a long period of time repulses me. I have no idea why after so many years of us 'getting along' after the bad times I feel this way. How do I let it go and why do I feel this way?

2007-12-22 08:50:30 · 22 answers · asked by missy 1 in Family

The guy I like from church is helping my dad build a car, and he's coming over during the holiday break. Should I talk to him and hang out with them? What should I do? Help!

2007-12-22 08:49:04 · 27 answers · asked by Dallas Cowboys 2 in Singles & Dating

who/what?

i love Jeremy. my AMAZING boyfriend.
i've found my prince charming....<3

2007-12-22 08:47:47 · 9 answers · asked by emmy asdfjkl; 3 in Singles & Dating

im planning on making my own wedding invitations but i really dont know where to start. ive been searching online trying to get ideas but im getting no where. i need some help trying to figure what type of paper i need to make my invitations and where can i find the appropriate paper for the cheapest and best prices. PLEASE HELP. im only getting started on my wedding and i already feel so overwhelmed...

2007-12-22 08:42:57 · 5 answers · asked by appledumpling 2 in Weddings

if you have what were your reasons.

2007-12-22 08:42:39 · 9 answers · asked by louise d 6 in Family

in my family i argue alot. especially with my parents. i am the oldest of 4 (i'm 14)and i am fed up of getting blamed for everything. i'm even thinking of running away. i normal after a arguement i go in my bath room lock it and cry. i'm fed up and it is getting nearer to christmas, so my parents are getting stressed. i try to help but it just ends in a arguement. i'm fed up of feeling like i don't belong. only my grandma knows how i feel. she just tells me it will blow over. i really need help i don't know if i should just leave. it will help my family because then it won't have any more arguements!

2007-12-22 08:41:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i really like him and he's a really good friend!!!

2007-12-22 08:37:48 · 12 answers · asked by Tamara C 1 in Singles & Dating

can she or not?

2007-12-22 08:35:03 · 23 answers · asked by Isiah B 1 in Family

I am dating an older man that was just divorced I am in love with him and he loves me also. He is 36 and I am 21. He has a 4 year old son that I adore. I am just seeking some opinion on whether or not we should move in together we have been talking for 9 months but he just got divorced officially last week. We have so much in common and get along better than me and my friends do. I really want to move in with him what do you think?

2007-12-22 08:34:40 · 7 answers · asked by JD 2 in Singles & Dating

Tomorrow we're having a family get-together for Christmas.

And i'm nervous. Lol I'm really really shy so how can I act more outgoing?

2007-12-22 08:30:35 · 24 answers · asked by iLoveHim<33 1 in Singles & Dating

expected them too.

2007-12-22 08:30:19 · 12 answers · asked by louise d 6 in Singles & Dating

One of my friends in dating this older women. I think she is around fifty or so. She has alot of cash. He said he is making her feel special and playing with her head. He said she is talking about marriage. He told me that if they get married he can cheat on the side with the young women and still come home to the mansion. Do you think he should marry her for her money? I don't know if I could sleep with an old chick time and time again for some cash. I can make my own.

2007-12-22 08:25:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seeing him for 4 months. I care about him a lot. He assures me that he does not want her back and he does not even feel the same about her. She has never ask him to go back but she calls him all the time, needs his help on things, when she thinks Im at his house she drives by. How do I handel this?

2007-12-22 08:24:26 · 4 answers · asked by runponi 1 in Singles & Dating

we've been together for about a month & a half, but we've known each other much longer.
he already has my present, and im about to go buy his.
i just wanted some opinions on what guys like for christmas...
i serioulsy have no idea i feel so stupid!!

about him:
he loves bmxing and is into rockish music..
he ALWAYS smels good so i really dont want to get him cologne.
and basically hes just a really awesome guy.

my cousins girlfriend got him a build-a-bear once that was wearing a cute little shirt that said i love you and also gave him some candy.
idk if thats the type guys like or what..

so please help me :]

happy holidays everyone!

2007-12-22 08:23:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this boy that i really like and i flirt with him all the time are there any sure ways that i can know if he really likes me back?

2007-12-22 08:21:14 · 28 answers · asked by K B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 08:20:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

thay are very jelous that we do so much with my family. My husband loves to be around my family..he has so much fun..but when we go around his family , the only thing thay talk about is what is wrong with them...I dread going ...thay always bring up my husband x-wife..its just the little remarks ..thay just totaly get on my nerves..and I would never let my family do that to my husband...never ever..so what can I do to make this a good x-mas dinner...please help

2007-12-22 08:17:36 · 24 answers · asked by Pat 2 in Family

2007-12-22 08:16:22 · 21 answers · asked by ♥Nancy-SRB♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

what does it smean if a guy say 'i put 40% into the relationship and you put in 110% and you do nt deserve that, b ut im not going to change but i love you, and we cant be together' i think i know what it means, i just want to know from a guys mind what it means.

2007-12-22 08:15:36 · 4 answers · asked by Sam 2 in Singles & Dating