i really like him and he's a really good friend!!!
2007-12-22 08:37:48 · 12 answers · asked by Tamara C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, you shouldn't because it will make you feel really worse and horrible. try to move on.
-ConfusedGirlForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-22 08:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I wouldn't because you don't know how long the relationship he's in right now will last. Waiting would be unhealthy for you and will make you feel bad about yourself. Everytime you see them making out with each other you will feel sad and hurt so don't do it.
I was in the exact same situation as you a couple of years ago and I did wait because I knew that he didn't really like the girl he was going out with, but then even after they broke he still didn't go out with me. (I still think he might have liked me, but just didn't want to be in relationship with me w/e I'm over it now). We were pretty good friends too and now we don't even talk, but that's because we don't go the same school anymore, but anyway don't wait for him.
Good luck and sorry for including all the personal anecdotes.
2007-12-22 08:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, go ahead. bcz espciallly if she's only his girlfriend and depending on their age (under 30), they're likely not to stay together if they're not already ingaged. pretty much that's they way it is, ppl usu. date around before settling down, so in a way you know 'that's not the only and last girl' he'll every be with or date. hate to say it, but ppl 'break up' all the time, look around you. theres guys i've thought about and then later they end up breaking up anyway. it's just that in the mean time, if you get a crush on another guy go out w/him too that way you dont feel like you 'missed out on other opportunities', but be sure to tell him, that you're 'not serious' so when this other guy becomes available, you're free to go out w/him too. the only pain comes when you start to date this new guy, how would you feel to know someone else is 'waiting for you' to break up too?
2007-12-22 08:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by sqpantsgirl103 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its realy hard to say if u wait for him then yea u r going to feel a lot of pain the hardest thing is to watch some 1 u love love some 1 eles but i would say try to move on if u can.
2007-12-22 08:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wait for him, you'll only make yourself feel worse. He has a girlfriend and, sorry to say, you can't make him leave her for you. I would move on and find someone else. You could be missing out on someone special.
2007-12-22 08:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by trivkc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck no -- date others enjoy life yet stay in contact if you 2 are meant to be with each other it will fall together.Don't waste you're time doing nothing waiting- unless your just as happy doing so
2007-12-22 08:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by southarkansas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can still like him.. but considering he has a girlfriend you can keep your options open & if somebody else comes along that you wanna date then date them.
2007-12-22 08:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, you shouldnt
theres no real guarantee that they will break up, so you could be waiting for a while and regret it later on
2007-12-22 08:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by mushy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might wait forever.
2007-12-22 08:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by jamzm2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. live ur life. there r a lot of fish in the sea
2007-12-22 08:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by mommabear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋