Would you be more likely to want an ex-gf is she goes above and beyond calling & texting you letting you know how much she wants you back OR would you want her back more if she just stopped calling and didn't congtact you at all and started dating s/o else?
(I really want me ex-bf back and have tried calling and texting quite a bit letting him know how I feel about him and that I want him back - he broke up w/ me b/c we got pretty serious about each other pretty quick & it really scared him - i KNOW he misses me and has strong feelings for me - anyway, that hasn't worked and the last text I sent told him I was going on a date and wouldn't go if he told me not to - he didn't respond. Do I have a better chance getting him back by leaving things the way they are and letting him think I am moving on or should I send him another text letting him know I still want him back???)
Which approach would make you more likely to want to get back together???
2007-12-22 09:07:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Note: I did get asked out on a date - it wasn't just something I made up to get his attention.
2007-12-22 09:08:39 · update #1
I really want him back and don't want to do anything to screw this up any further...
I really want to one day soon see his # again on my phone - please help me find the best way go make that happen.
Thank you!!!
2007-12-22 09:10:15 · update #2
you should stop calling him and start dating someone else. texting and calling him just makes you sound needy and desperate. if you start dating someone else or make it look like your interested in someone else then he'll probably get jealous and want you back.
2007-12-22 09:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop texting him! It's only going to push him away. Trust me I'm going through a very similar situation. It's not easy, and it's not supposed to be. However, if you go on about your life now and try to work on personal things, you will be able to move on. This doesn't mean you don't still have feelings for him, but you need to prove to him and yourself that you can move on. Love will find a way!!!
2007-12-22 09:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kevo1304 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him back go for it. Stop the text and see him face-to-face and tell him how much you love him and want him. Then set down and work out your issues and fall back in love. No sex until all is resolved.
2007-12-22 09:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by Dr Dave 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
telling you from past expèrience
i think it would be beter for you to stop txtin him.
if he still has feelings for you den he will come back to you
even though he broke up with you he wasn,t sure of how things would turn out ,but all he needs is time to think about it
so stop buggin him is my advice
2007-12-22 09:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating is a single-elimination tournament.
Once it ended with a particular person, it's OVER. no second chances.
2007-12-22 09:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't text him anymore. Tell him you'll wait. Then go about your business.
Wait about two weeks or so and if you don't hear from him period ...move on
2007-12-22 09:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by insanenhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋