there is this boy that i really like and i flirt with him all the time are there any sure ways that i can know if he really likes me back?
2007-12-22 08:21:14 · 28 answers · asked by K B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him out for a lunch
2007-12-22 08:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget everything that you have heard. There is no magic way to tell. Some guys may really like you or they may just be playing around with you. The best way to know is to simply ask him. Hint: Make sure you are alone when you ask him. If he is around his friends or yours he probably will not be honest. Also if he is shy why don't you write him a note and wait for a reply! Good Luck!
2007-12-22 16:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Tazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friends! They'll provide an outside view, see how he interacts with you, talks to you, stuff you might not notice.
If they think there's something there, make the first move! Honestly go for it, it's probably one of those more empowering feelings! Scary but fun! and It'll take the pressure off him.. just ask him out to a movie, or coffee! Don't use the word 'date'! Its too big and scary.
2007-12-22 16:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you catch him looking at you alot, thats usually a good sign. Or, if hes always smiling when hes around you. Guys arent that hard to figure out, but its the small things you have to look for. If you wanna know for sure, ask him or his friends. Might be hard, but it can be worth it!
2007-12-22 16:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Strauss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he tell you he likes you? Does he flirt back? Does he seem intrested? [[if yes then you might like catch him looking at you, wanting to be with you, and trying to talk to you, maybe a little show-offy?]] Keep flirting. Ask one of his friends. Or kinda him that you like him. Play a game [[not like a board game]] kinda like a "Im going to ask you who you like and if you tell me ill tell you" use hints like first letter of last name and such. It works I use it all the time haha :)
2007-12-22 16:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lynn(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the only sure fire way is to take some time, assure yourself you want to, and ask him out. If he doesn't like you, he will say no and chances are it will hurt. but if he says no, you know he isn't the right guy for you, and you move on.
i've done that with ALOT of girls.
2007-12-22 16:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by zachstaska 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't flirt with him so much and see how he reacts. If he starts seeking you out because he misses your attention, then play hard to get.
2007-12-22 16:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by stephen g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he smiles a lot around you.
Other than that, if he pays more attention to you than others is a pretty obvious sign. Body language, if his lower body is pointed towards you while y'all are sitting nearby, he's interested, likewise if he mimics your gestures, when you cross your arms does he, if you fidget does he? If so then ya got him, in my opinion.
2007-12-22 16:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's face it. Some of us guys are not the sharpest tools in the shed. Try being direct and ask *him* out.
2007-12-22 16:26:38 · answer #9 · answered by Doug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know i'm not a guy... but i'm going to answer anyway so...
dear, there's just one efficient way !
talk to him, it's better than ask his friends or try to decifrate his look... if he sure like you... than he won't care about the question and will answer most trully way !
2007-12-22 16:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pull flower pedals...just kiddin...
well... does his eyes sparkle when you talk to him?..
if they do then he likes you.
Does he get shy?
Shyness is also a sign a guy likes a girl...
Is he smiling from ear to ear when you look at him?
if he does then he likes you..
Invite him to see a movie alone with you, look into his eyes and hold his hand and you will know for sure...
2007-12-22 16:28:13 · answer #11 · answered by G S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋