Should I Move On?

Question

This guy and I have been together off and on for just about 5 years, I love him very much and I know he loves me. The thing is that he has this ex that just won't seem to go away and i know he has feelings for her. And he told me his self that right now he can't be with just one girl but he wants me in his life and doesn't want me to see other people. He's my first everything and I've been with since i was 16 and I don't know if I should let him go or not?

Answer 1

LET HIM GO! It's not like you guys are Mormons and your religion says a guy can have more than one woman. If he is still interested in his ex, then he definitely doesn't love you. He's using you and you're just to young and immature to see it.

DUMP HIM! Find a man who will give you his whole heart. There are men like that out there but obviously you wont' find them while stuck on this @sshole.

Answer 2

Yes darling, it's time to move on. He has openly admitted to having feelings for his ex. Let me put it this way, are you happy to play second fiddle for the rest of your life?

There is another young man out there for whom you will be the centre of his world. So allow fate to let your paths cross.

This relationship you have is a destructive one. You will never be able to trust this young man and if not already you will end up feeling you can never match up to this ex. Why put yourself through all that unnecessary aggravation when you could use your emotions and strength wisely by sowing the seeds for a worthwhile life without him.

Good luck honey.

Answer 3

I know how you feel girl. I say let him go. If it's meant to be he'll come back to you. If it's been 5 years and he still can't commit to you then he isn't as in love with you as you thought. Too many good guys out there to be fooling with a guy like that.

Answer 4

Let me tell you how it is there g/f.
He wants a 3some with you and the ex he keeps on the side.
Now if your up with that and she is up with that he will gladly use the both of you for sex.The ex is NOT at fault for having feelings for him when HE wont make a clean break,
Dump him and move on.If he DID love you, there'd be NO ex in his life hon, the FACT that you said he has feelings for this other girl tells me he doesnt love you, or else he would not risk LOSING you.

Answer 5

You have to let him go. If he truly loved you he wouldn't still have feelings for his ex and he wouldn't tell you he just can't be with one girl! He has to choose. Just because he is your 1st everything doesn't mean he will be with you forever. Break it over and find a new guy.

Answer 6

There isn't really an answer to this question, but if I were you, I'd let him go. In the future, all of these emotions will build up, and over time, someone will get hurt. You might as well prevent that from happening when you can.

Answer 7

Well dang girl you to seem to have a lot going on. Well you need to let him know you have a life too and you need some one to support you and be there for you only you. Not his ex, but you. So yea you to can be friends and stuff but don't wast your life waiting on him.

Answer 8

He's playing with you. The ex wont go away because he doesn't want her to go away. Wake up, you aren't the only one he is seeing. Learn to let go, you can do a lot better than him.

Answer 9

If he can have his cake and eat it too than why can't you? I think you should move on but keep him in your life as a friend. Maybe once he matures he'll want to be in a relationship, but definately don't let him see other people if you aren't.

Answer 10

Now u know that he still loves his first G/F, than y u want to continue with him and create problem's in future ?simply keep away from him.