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ok ...so me n this guy have been dating for about 5 months now....my guyfriend (who is friends with my bf and is my best friend) is sort of...acting different. He doesnt like to see my bf hug me or give me a little kiss or even put his arm around me. Once we were watching a movie n my bf had his arm around me and he slid right in the middle...i have to say it was kinda funny but my bf didnt think much of it. My best friends just always looking out for me..especially with guys..he doesnt really like the fact i have a bf at the moment ...but its starting to bug me....he calls me all the time and thats fine hes like a brother to me....thats wat i tell him .....but i cant talk to him constanly anymore...i have a bf n i dont want him getting the wrong idea....wat should i do? am i wrong to wanna kinda step back from my best friend? i dont wanna lose him...i just want him to calm down a little n try to get uesed to the fact. wat should i do?

2007-12-22 09:37:52 · 9 answers · asked by Blueeyedbaby 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Hey well he could just really like you. he might have not realized it until you got a boyfriend! He probably likes you and cares about you enough where he doesn't want you to get hurt or anything bad to happen to you! He's just looking out for you. Don't push away or anything. I mean he's your friend. I mean come on guys come and go but friends stay for life! Well hope i helped bye Cherry = )

2007-12-22 09:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by Cherry 3 · 0 0

There are some possible scenarios that would explain this behavior (especially if this behavior just started all of a sudden): Either your friend likes you as more than a friend, or your boyfriend was involved with another girl behind your back and your friend saw him...(this one gets my vote). I could be completely wrong about this, but why don't you just chill for a bit and watch the situation unfold for a while before taking any kind of action. Good luck to you.

2007-12-22 17:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0 0

OK hes you re best friend but if the shoe was on the other foot he would do the same thing he would wanted hes space with his girlfriend and he would tell you that do don't loose your man because if you do the rest will leave and you will be all alone with no man because of him he might like you more then a friend did you ask him and how do you fell about him i wonder

2007-12-22 17:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by connie 3 · 0 0

I think you should talk to your best friend.
It probably is hard for him to get used to you having a boyfriend [he might even have feelings for you].
Its not wrong that you might want to give you and your best friend room, now since you have a boyfriend yet you dont want to lose him so just talk to him. If he really is a good friend, he'll listen to what you have to say and understand.
Good luck! :)

2007-12-22 17:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Dimples 1 · 0 0

I agree w/ Crystal. I think you should ask him what he thinks of you as. Also talk to your BF. Make sure, if they start to get defensive, that you don't want any fighting over you.

2007-12-22 17:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by Chelsea Marie 2 · 0 0

ur best friend is jealous hun.
most people fall for their best friends if their the opposite sex anyway.
ur just gonna have to distance urself a little from ur best friend.
=]

2007-12-22 17:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by I LOVE YOU! 5 · 0 0

Sounds like he likes you! You just need to talk to him abou it .. good luck !

2007-12-22 17:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by me 5 · 0 0

I think that he likes you and is jealous of you with another guy and not him. so you should talk to him about this.

-ConfusedGirlForever *(Diane N)*

2007-12-22 17:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 0 0

sounds like he might like you

2007-12-22 17:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0 0

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