I figure if he lies about little **** theres no tellin what kind of major **** he lies about!! I have proof but I dont know if I should reveal where I get my info from.
2007-12-22 09:33:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why? Why tell him anything? He's a liar. Liars don't change. Dump him. Stop talking to him. Don't even bother telling him why. If he can't respect you enough to tell you the truth, why bother talking to him anymore? You won't prove anything by revealing your source and you won't change him. He won't say, "Oh wow, you opened my eyes to what a loser I am, thank you thank you!" He'll just lie to you more. Dump him.
2007-12-22 09:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Aiden 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, NO, NO. You at least have someone to tell you. Give up your source and you have lost the ability to know the truth when he's lying. Now I want you to listen to a little truth, seven years and your still allowing him to lie to you, something is verrrrrrrrrrry wrong here. You do not need a person in your life that respects you so little he'll lie about anything. If he lies about small things you can take it to the bank he's lying about big things. You need to move on honey, "it ain't gonna get better". I'll bet when you do he'll beg you to come back and maybe even want to set a date. Don't buy it, the mold has been cast and you can see the flaw that is going to break the whole thing, maybe not today but right down the line you'll have a total derailment. Sorry to have to call it during the holidays but you need to hear the truth.
I know it's hard to hear that even more so because of the time of year. But this would be the time when family is around to support you. Hope you can have a happy season in spite of everything.
2007-12-22 09:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by WACVET75 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've got proof, then you already know he lies, so why do you need to get him to admit it? Speaking from a guy's perspective, it's damaging to his ego if he's caught in a lie. If his words (not his actions) are all that he has to rely upon, you'll always question everything he tells you after that so he no longer has any control in the relationship, it's all about you.
If it's a neutral, unbiased, reliable source, then he doesn't need to know about it. Only reveal your source if there is a "he said / she said" situation where you don't know who to believe. But that's not the case here, you believe your source over your boyfriend of seven years. It doesn't sound like an isolated incident either, it sounds like a pattern; you obviously don't trust him (for good reason), so you probably shouldn't be with him anyway.
2007-12-22 09:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it rather isn't any longer even an excuse "We have been long distance and he did no longer think of the relationship might pass on.." ok impressive. He did no longer think of the relationship might go everywhere so why the hell did he even stay with then you definately? in fact he wished a truthful lady chum whilst having play on the ingredient. A cheater isn't somebody that flips a change and says, properly we weren't engaged until now so it became into okay to cheat, now that she has a ring i do no longer could desire to cheat anymore. He sounds pathetic and he did no longer something yet embarrass you for 7 years and play you for a fool. do no longer fall for his little game by marrying him via fact he in fact will understand that it became into okay to do you incorrect for years and years and then in the top you nevertheless stayed and married him! How dumb does that make you seem?! i understand a pair that basically have been given engaged and shes so satisfied, and that i understand he has cheated on her many circumstances and she or he has no thought. i think so undesirable for her, and so embarrassed for her. it rather is a terrible situation to could desire to manage. i understand you like him and prefer to have confidence him yet he has given you no reason to realize this. he's lied to you for years. Do you quite think of he's going to guy up and initiate being an outstanding individual now? He did it for years devoid of you looking out, he will shop doing it. and you recognize he meets a lot of ladies. do no longer marry him. it is going to be a extensive mistake and you'd be thinking each little thing he does from right here on out. No have confidence will convey approximately an exceedingly unhappy unfulfilled marriage. have confidence me. Yeah he's been great and he says he won't in any respect cheat returned. he's barely announcing that for the reason which you found out. next time he would be even sneakier. you would be rather silly to have self belief him.
2016-10-09 02:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you lie about your source? I did it once, told my bf that somebody who's name I don't remember told me there was no gathering. you don't know all people who work with him (study) and so on. or say you saw it yourself. Boyfriends are often like that. they never tell you the truth, I think. not all truth. it's unpleasant but just let him feel the same. that's a very good treatment against all that "I was doing nothing bad", and other excuses. helps a lot, really. when your bf is flirting with somebody and says it was nothing really bad - flirt with other boys and say the same. Lie about something obvious - and deny it later.
2007-12-22 09:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by ania361 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell to the no. If he finds out what your source is you'll never get any more information. Keep it quit, but let him know that you do the truth and you don't appreciate the lying.
2007-12-22 09:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by Kristen J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
7 years? C'mon... tell him already and the find someone new!!
2007-12-22 09:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by MorenaLinda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No just dump him bc it won't improve.
2007-12-22 09:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by Contemplative 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes call him on his bull ***t
2007-12-22 09:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋